Everyone Over 30 in the Dating Game is already BURNT OUT.

[The ADD]

Sounds like a healthy level of honesty to me. Sounds like a marriage that’s gon make it bc breh has room to keep it real and stay within reality

To even check him on that reminds me of how they say ‘hurt people hurt people’. Bc nggas who are henpecked and lobotomized and gotta walk on eggshells are projecting that same energy. Coming on an anonymous Internet forum tellin a ngga about HIS wife And yall wonder why nggas don’t want to get married

I don’t believe he’s married so no checking involved. Valid attempt however

Let me be clear. A man can be honest about the level of his SO looks. Reducing her to a rating system isn’t a good mindset for a relationship.

If that works for you and your partner then good on you.

 

[FukkaPaidEmail]

OP isn’t true

And if it’s true for it’s because that’s the level you’re at as a man.

It hasn’t been an easier time in history to link up and feel people out . This dating shyt is no worse than a decade ago it’s just different

 

[HabitualChiller]

Been over relationships. As a woman this is what men want:

1. They want to be admired yet have nothing about them that's admirable

2. Want to "lead" yet have no track record if good leadership and a history of poor decisions

3. Want you to submit but never have a plan outside of just telling you what to do

4. Want children but don't even support proper natal health care and don't expect to actually help with the children

5. Want you do vast amounts of free labor while also contributing half the bills

6. Expect you to look good as they grow a fat belly

7. Want you to be happy with the ED

8. Don't want you to have success that doesn't benefit

9. Constantly need their ego stroked

10. Have to walk on egg shells constantly because they are so easily offended

11. Expect you to have no boundaries and constantly testing yours

12. Want your to put aside your needs to cater to them.

13. Want you to take an interest in the things they like but won't exchange the favor

14. Want you to their emotional dumpster but can't give you the same in return

15. Want to be sexist then expect you play mommy

16. Want to be stingy even when they have money

17. Expect you to tolerate their bad behavior for life because they did one thing for you.

Etc etc etc

And in exchange you get...what? Half the bills pays and maybe some dikk that's only decent less than 50% of the time.

The juice just isn't worth the squeeze.

Friendships are way more fulfilling at this point.

Relationships are basically a really shytty job that have little to no benefits.

Damn, what men are you running into? I can confidently say that I'm the opposite of most of those.

 

[Peter Popoff]

We have a friend going through a divorce at 45. He has been dating the past few months and hates it.

It’s so bad he said he would take his wife back after she cheated on him with a coworker.

He said had he known how shytty the dating pool was he would have just said fukk it and not blown up.

That tells me everything about dating in 2025. I hug my husband tight every night. He isn’t perfect but I’ll be damned.

Yea, us married folk are winning. I would not wish dating on my own worse enemy.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Damn, what men are you running into? I can confidently say that I'm the opposite of most of those.

You already #9 in 2 sentences

 

[Peter Popoff]

Been over relationships. As a woman this is what men want:

1. They want to be admired yet have nothing about them that's admirable

2. Want to "lead" yet have no track record if good leadership and a history of poor decisions

3. Want you to submit but never have a plan outside of just telling you what to do

4. Want children but don't even support proper natal health care and don't expect to actually help with the children

5. Want you do vast amounts of free labor while also contributing half the bills

6. Expect you to look good as they grow a fat belly

7. Want you to be happy with the ED

8. Don't want you to have success that doesn't benefit

9. Constantly need their ego stroked

10. Have to walk on egg shells constantly because they are so easily offended

11. Expect you to have no boundaries and constantly testing yours

12. Want your to put aside your needs to cater to them.

13. Want you to take an interest in the things they like but won't exchange the favor

14. Want you to their emotional dumpster but can't give you the same in return

15. Want to be sexist then expect you play mommy

16. Want to be stingy even when they have money

17. Expect you to tolerate their bad behavior for life because they did one thing for you.

Etc etc etc

And in exchange you get...what? Half the bills pays and maybe some dikk that's only decent less than 50% of the time.

The juice just isn't worth the squeeze.

Friendships are way more fulfilling at this point.

Relationships are basically a really shytty job that have little to no benefits.

Interestingly enough, that sounds like women too.

We gotta hold each other accountable.

 

[O.T.I.S.]

Interestingly enough, that sounds like women too.

We gotta hold each other accountable.

Thats what I was thinking

That could apply to anyone not just bm or bw.

Thats a shytty person thing.

 

[Peter Popoff]

Thats what I was thinking

That could apply to anyone not just bm or bw.

Thats a shytty person thing.

Yup, I'm reading it like wait....what....

1. They want to be admired yet have nothing about them that's admirable

Definitely a woman. "Influencers"

2. Want to "lead" yet have no track record if good leadership and a history of poor decisions

That's men. Yea.

3. Want you to submit but never have a plan outside of just telling you what to do

But when we tell y'all, ya'll don't listen.

4. Want children but don't even support proper natal health care and don't expect to actually help with the children

Yea, that's us.

5. Want you do vast amounts of free labor while also contributing half the bills

That's both parties. Men have to work, work, work, work, then are expected to court all the bills. A relationship is a trusting partnership with "selflessness".

6. Expect you to look good as they grow a fat belly

Ohhhh!!! Women will let themselves go in a sec for any little reason. But I blame hormones, kids, etc. This one hits close to home.

7. Want you to be happy with the ED

This goes with number 6. Women will let themselves go and wonder why men can't maintain an erection. Let's be reality.

8. Don't want you to have success that doesn't benefit

There's golddiggers dating athletes and looking for the bag. That's women.

9. Constantly need their ego stroked

That's both parties. We have to remind our women that they're beautiful even when they let themselves go.

10. Have to walk on egg shells constantly because they are so easily offended

That's 100% women. Tell her she's gaining weight and watch her blow up without holding herself accountable and finding a regime.

11. Expect you to have no boundaries and constantly testing yours

Elaborate on this. Probably men.

12. Want your to put aside your needs to cater to them.

Both parties.

13. Want you to take an interest in the things they like but won't exchange the favor

Both parties.

14. Want you to their emotional dumpster but can't give you the same in return

Women are more emotional. Let a man be emotional though.

15. Want to be sexist then expect you play mommy

I'm not sexist. Can't relate but it makes sense. Men.

16. Want to be stingy even when they have money

100% women. "What's yours is mine, what's mine is mine" Refer back to 8 & 5.

17. Expect you to tolerate their bad behavior for life because they did one thing for you.

That's both parties especially when someone lacks accountability.

The juice just isn't worth the squeeze.

Friendships are way more fulfilling at this point.

Relationships are basically a really shytty job that have little to no benefits.

Relationships is a business. You choose the right client/partner and negotiate a good deal that benefits both partners. That's it. Nothing more, nothing less.

My partner trust me and I trust her 100%. I'll never cheat even if Beyonce's pụssy was in my lap. We both benefits each other in many ways and I'll always support her through sickness and in health, no matter the circumstances.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Interestingly enough, that sounds like women too.

We gotta hold each other accountable.

Thats what I was thinking

That could apply to anyone not just bm or bw.

Thats a shytty person thing.

Half that list is gender specific like ED, childcare, desiring leadership etc but okay whatever gets ya'll through the day

I should have made #9 as #1 because ya'll really can't help yourselves.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Yup, I'm reading it like wait....what....

Definitely a woman. "Influencers"

That's men. Yea.

But when we tell y'all, ya'll don't listen.

Yea, that's us.

That's both parties. Men have to work, work, work, work, then are expected to court all the bills. A relationship is a trusting partnership with "selflessness".

Ohhhh!!! Women will let themselves go in a sec for any little reason. But I blame hormones, kids, etc. This one hits close to home.

This goes with number 6. Women will let themselves go and wonder why men can't maintain an erection. Let's be reality.

There's golddiggers dating athletes and looking for the bag. That's women.

That's both parties. We have to remind our women that they're beautiful even when they let themselves go.

That's 100% women. Tell her she's gaining weight and watch her blow up without holding herself accountable and finding a regime.


Elaborate on this. Probably men.

Both parties.

Both parties.

Women are more emotional. Let a man be emotional though.

I'm not sexist. Can't relate but it makes sense. Men.

100% women. "What's yours is mine, what's mine is mine" Refer back to 8 & 5.


That's both parties especially when someone lacks accountability.

Relationships is a business. You choose the right client/partner and negotiate a good deal that benefits both partners. That's it. Nothing more, nothing less.

My partner trust me and I trust her 100%. I'll never cheat even if Beyonce's pụssy was in my lap. We both benefits each other in many ways and I'll always support her through sickness and in health, no matter the circumstances.

#29 Constantly need to correct or check women even when it's unnecessary

 

[O.T.I.S.]

Half that list is gender specific like ED, childcare, leadership etc but okay whatever gets ya'll through the day

I should have made #9 as #1 because ya'll really can't help yourselves.

Ok

SOME of it can be directed towards all races of the gender of men then….

And we have an ego for commenting on a list, when not one single man made a similar list?

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Ok

SOME of it can be directed towards all races of the gender of men then….

And we have an ego for commenting on a list, when not one single man made a similar list?

#30 Always comparing themselves to women

#31 Makes everything a competition

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

Pearl let me help u

32.When you invite him to a coli meet up and then he stalks you after rejecting him

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Pearl let me help u

32.When you invite him to a coli meet up and then he stalks you after rejecting him

 

[Peter Popoff]

Half that list is gender specific like ED, childcare, desiring leadership etc but okay whatever gets ya'll through the day

I should have made #9 as #1 because ya'll really can't help yourselves.

Ego to men is like the lack of accountability to women. I agree with #9 being #1.

ED is based on desire and goes both ways.

If a man doesn't show patriarchy and leadership, he's less desired. If a woman doesn't take care of herself and show feminity, she's less desired.

Submission should go both ways. It's a biblical principle. Women should never submit to a man if he's not showing that same respect and submitting to her.