Everyone Over 30 in the Dating Game is already BURNT OUT.

[Krs2]

I got that nikka blocked

It had to be awhile ago because I don't even recognize the name. So he knows he's blocked too and yet still can't help himself.

My blog about to make a killing. Lol

I hate how ya'll do this.

You've been brutally honest about women in this thread. What you said about the 2 women in the gym with no gains actually made me laugh because I have a sister like that.

But when it comes to me as a woman expressing myself and what I don't desire you wanna start feeding me fairytales and BS.

Respectfully, you don't date men. You don't constantly have to deal with sexist ideals. You have no idea what it's like.

You don't have the right to dismiss my experience. You don't have a right to trivialize my feelings.

And the fact that you are trying to spin this to an narrative that is more favorable to you further solidifies why I have chosen to not share a home with any male ever as long as I exist on this planet.

Why can't I just say what I have to say and you just acknowledged that that's my experience and just leave it at that? I would respect you more for it.

Why do you have to go and tell me how to feel about my experience and the people I see and the people I know?

No sir, I see ya'll. I see you on this forum. I see you at my job. I see y'all out on the town. I saw you in school. I see you on the dating market. I see you my family. I see you and I want no parts of that.

Just in your post alone you're hit #9, #18 #24 and partially #20.

This woman is literally insane.

 

[Golstrag]

Yep

Exactly why I fell back from a chick recently.

That unresolved energy was being directly aimed at me and I started seeing it gradually as it happened.

Their was all this pride and arrogance yet insecurity and damage that I felt I started to become the recipient of and becoming a punching bag for her problems instead of her addressing her issues directly herself.


It was like I was expecting it almost. I could see her arrogance and knew that eventually I was going to check her and it would blow up

Exactly what happened

This is exactly what happened two weeks ago in my marriage… Now I live in a new apartment all alone.

Life comes at you fast.

 

[cyndaquil]

What makes you think I don't know good men or see happy marriages?

The thing ya'll don't seem to realize is that even "good" men and "good" relationships ask more from women then they typically receive.

Let me give you an example. My niece is married. She wants to me married and loves being married. Her husband seems decent enough so let's say he's a good man. He really wanted a baby with her so she got pregnant.

Guess what? The the pregnancy wasn't viable and was at a point where she would lose her life if she decided to go through with it. She had leave the state of Texas to get proper medical care and receive an abortion.

And guess what? It doesn't make him want children any less.

IMO, there is no man or relationship "good" enough to exchange her life. I don't care if he's perfect. It's not worth it.

That's obviously an extreme example but there are a ton more. Being "good" isn't enough to possibly risk my life, give up my freedom or my individuality.

Ya'll assume not wanting ya'll = hate or trama r whatever recycled talking point ya'll repeat over and over. It doesn't. I just weighed the pros and cons and realized that what ya'll are serving isn't worth the price of admission.

I know "good" men. But even what their asking doesn't equate to what their giving.

Oh I see I think I understand. It's not that you gave up hope you just genuinely do not see the benefits in it for yourself being with a man. Is that right?

 

[Krs2]

What makes you think I don't know good men or see happy marriages?

The thing ya'll don't seem to realize is that even "good" men and "good" relationships ask more from women then they typically receive.

Let me give you an example. My niece is married. She wants to me married and loves being married. Her husband seems decent enough so let's say he's a good man. He really wanted a baby with her so she got pregnant.

Guess what? The the pregnancy wasn't viable and was at a point where she would lose her life if she decided to go through with it. She had leave the state of Texas to get proper medical care and receive an abortion.

And guess what? It doesn't make him want children any less.

IMO, there is no man or relationship "good" enough to exchange her life. I don't care if he's perfect. It's not worth it.

That's obviously an extreme example but there are a ton more. Being "good" isn't enough to possibly risk my life, give up my freedom or my individuality.

Ya'll assume not wanting ya'll = hate or trama r whatever recycled talking point ya'll repeat over and over. It doesn't. I just weighed the pros and cons and realized that what ya'll are serving isn't worth the price of admission.

I know "good" men. But even what their asking doesn't equate to what their giving.

This selfish bytch is defenetly crazy?? What you want?! The whole world?? Lol

 

[NinoBrown]

This woman is literally insane.

It's the final stage of grief, acceptance of their fate, many women never get past the denial phase.

What are witnessing in real-time are the societal directives overriding a woman's nature.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Oh I see I think I understand. It's not that you gave up hope you just genuinely do not see the benefits in it for yourself being with a man. Is that right?

That's correct.

 

[Canon]

nikkas here really engage in conversations with ex stripper's with bbls about relationships. Insane

the worst thing that ever happened was allowing people like her to escape the shadows and influence relationship talk

 

[O.T.I.S.]

This is exactly what happened two weeks ago in my marriage… Now I live in a new apartment all alone.

Life comes at you fast.

So a lot of men KNOW i’m not lying then.

It’s almost sad too because you might really like and want to be with the chick when things are good..

But idk, these chicks just be crazy. And crazy because of how they come at you. All that “masculine energy” and do/say shyt not even a nikka probably wouldn’t just do/say to you…

Not without a weapon or without help at least in my mind.

And you can see it coming a mile away. How they talk about other people, other men, family members, ex’s, etc… everybody in their fukking life is a problem EXCEPT them.

Then it comes at you just as you said… fast.

Sorry for you having to go through this brother but maybe its for the best in the long run. Hard to live with someone who tries to compete AGAINST you yet is delusional on life.

 

[Sleepy Floyd]

U must don't deal.with pretty women??


You're going to have to spend money on any fine chick you fukking regardless of age.

If she's actually attracted to you, you don't have to spend any money on her. She'll drive herself to your crib to fukk

 

[hood b. goode]

If you're single at 30 and 40+ , that means you're an absolute 100% failure in the dating game. You've been on dozens of dates and nothing has worked out for u. Chances are very slim you'll find someone to make it work with.

There are No happy endings for most of us .

Yo this gotme fukked up

 

[Ohene]

nikkas here really engage in conversations with ex stripper's with bbls about relationships. Insane

whats the back story on this

 

[Sleepy Floyd]

Most women AND men these days are delusional. Dudes want a live-in sex maid and women want a weak dude who will pay for everything and put up with being disrespected.

 

[97Pac]

I've heard it as well too. My pops and stepmom try to hook me up with women they think would be "good" for me all the time. It doesn't bother me and usually have a convo with them or go out on a date to engage and pick their brain and see how they are. A few convos and watching how they move and it's easy for me to identify that we're not compatible. They're usually fine and have good careers but under the surface you see the ego, people pleasing, and chasing external validation and aesthetics. A lot of them are in their early 30s so they feel they have to lock down a husband and wife because of outside perception and try to rush the process for their benefit. But I've already been married, had a kid, and had a divorce in my 20s so I'm more slower paced when it comes to dating and getting to know folks. But that's because when I was married and having convos with my ex afterwards I've come to understand that I married her because I felt that was the natural progression and my grandma and folks pressing me about it then realized when were were together that we wasn't truly compatible. We were just good roommates that occasionally had sex.

My mama told me straight-up never let nobody pressure you into marriage because people will absolutely do it for selfish reasons. They don't care if you are compatible or not. Baby boomers are the worst at this.

 

[Braman]

I hear you but my point is that reducing women you are working towards making your SO to a number rating inherently means you are making a comparison to other women. It’s bad mindset when trying to build and maintain a relationship. Saying “my wife is an adjustable 6” is pure absurdity.

Sounds like a healthy level of honesty to me. Sounds like a marriage that’s gon make it bc breh has room to keep it real and stay within reality

To even check him on that reminds me of how they say ‘hurt people hurt people’. Bc nggas who are henpecked and lobotomized and gotta walk on eggshells are projecting that same energy. Coming on an anonymous Internet forum tellin a ngga about HIS wife And yall wonder why nggas don’t want to get married

 

[HabitualChiller]

yeah ive heard a lot of stories of brehs finding wives and happiness overseas

what do brehs have to lose at this point?

If you're in your 30s and have money, a fit body, and a decent personality, go somewhere in Asia that IS NOT a 3rd-world country (so Vietnam, Japan, China, South Korea, Indonesia, etc)

Being a single mom is looked down on over there, as well as being outwardly promiscuous, so that's already two complaints knocked out right there.

Edit: And a lot of those nations have a negative stigma directed towards single, childless women over the age of 28-30, so they're much more likely to be receptive of your advances off rip.

I'm not an advocate of sex tourism, but if you don't find what you have back home to be appealing, then feel free to shoot your shot abroad. Just don't be like white men and expect to find some joint from a 3rd world country to essentially be your slave.