Everyone Over 30 in the Dating Game is already BURNT OUT.

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Not BBL babble…

 

[Scaaar]

This psycho bytch wants to date perfect man, when the only value she brings is a bbl. Make a list about the shyt you bring to the table

We literally were just talking about this earlier Pearl. Bro came in here huffing and puffing real heavy when he saw you commented

 

[Krs2]

We literally were just talking about this earlier Pearl. Bro came in here huffing and puffing real heavy when he saw you commented

Wtf are you saying?? You simping for an ex stripper on a message board, making up storylines and inside jokes?? Sad

 

[Rayzah]

Using a rating is just as problematic. Are you attracted to her? Yes or no. Putting rating on a SO is wild.

I was just trying to relate to the people I’m talking to. We gotta stop looking for the best body and most attractive women and overlooking all the red flags. We should look for the person that fits with our personality and morals first. Someone who grew up with a good family structure second and then is she attractive or not. But men are just as bad as women with their laundry list of things a girl needs to be attractive. You not going to get a phat ass pretty face long hair and big titties. But for a lot of men that is the bar

 

[Scaaar]

Wtf are you saying?? You simping for an ex stripper on a message board, making up storylines and inside jokes?? Sad

If you say so

 

[Krs2]

I was just trying to relate to the people I’m talking to. We gotta stop looking for the best body and most attractive women and overlooking all the red flags. We should look for the person that fits with our personality and morals first. Someone who grew up with a good family structure second and then is she attractive or not. But men are just as bad as women with their laundry list of things a girl needs to be attractive. You not going to get a phat ass pretty face long hair and big titties. But for a lot of men that is the bar

Let's be real man settle more. Woman mostly do it when money is involved to the extreme where they will fukk someone with multiple woman and ignore regulars. So they are enablera. nikkas with no paper, don't got options like that.

Stop this " man are just as bad as woman bullshyt" the dating market is totally different for average man and for average woman.

 

[Scaaar]

Let's be real man settle more. Woman mostly do it when money is involved to the extreme where they will fukk someone with multiple woman and ignore regulars. So they are enablera. nikkas with no paper, don't got options like that.

Stop this " man are just as bad as woman bullshyt" the dating market is totally different for average man and for average woman.

Sounds like you're one of those jaded average men that are mad at your dating options. Stop whining about your options. If you want better become better. But you're calling women outta their name on a chat forum so that might be a tall task for you

 

[Krs2]

Sounds like you're one of those jaded average men that are mad at your dating options. Stop whining about your options. If you want better become better. But you're calling women outta their name on a chat forum so that might be a tall task for you

Look at your reply, I'm talking about averages, you throw personal attacks. You not fit do have serious discussions. Go back to make inside jokes with the stripper

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

I'm sorry you feel that way. Though here's the thing all men aren't like that. There's men out there who are like that ruining it for you and many other women. I will admit that. Same with trifling women ruining it for good men. In my approach to relationships it would be a true partnership so the stuff you mentioned here wouldn't be an issue because it would rely on trust, accountability, and communication but I had to learn how to do that by listening and self reflection. And you mentioned friendships are way more fulfilling you are right because your partner SHOULD be your best friend first and foremost. So many hurt people out here can't be vulnerable enough to really begin a relationship and make that person their best friend

I hate how ya'll do this.

You've been brutally honest about women in this thread. What you said about the 2 women in the gym with no gains actually made me laugh because I have a sister like that.

But when it comes to me as a woman expressing myself and what I don't desire you wanna start feeding me fairytales and BS.

Respectfully, you don't date men. You don't constantly have to deal with sexist ideals. You have no idea what it's like.

You don't have the right to dismiss my experience. You don't have a right to trivialize my feelings.

And the fact that you are trying to spin this to an narrative that is more favorable to you further solidifies why I have chosen to not share a home with any male ever as long as I exist on this planet.

Why can't I just say what I have to say and you just acknowledged that that's my experience and just leave it at that? I would respect you more for it.

Why do you have to go and tell me how to feel about my experience and the people I see and the people I know?

No sir, I see ya'll. I see you on this forum. I see you at my job. I see y'all out on the town. I saw you in school. I see you on the dating market. I see you my family. I see you and I want no parts of that.

Just in your post alone you're hit #9, #18 #24 and partially #20.

 

[The ADD]

I was just trying to relate to the people I’m talking to. We gotta stop looking for the best body and most attractive women and overlooking all the red flags. We should look for the person that fits with our personality and morals first. Someone who grew up with a good family structure second and then is she attractive or not. But men are just as bad as women with their laundry list of things a girl needs to be attractive. You not going to get a phat ass pretty face long hair and big titties. But for a lot of men that is the bar

I hear you but my point is that reducing women you are working towards making your SO to a number rating inherently means you are making a comparison to other women. It’s bad mindset when trying to build and maintain a relationship. Saying “my wife is an adjustable 6” is pure absurdity.

 

[cyndaquil]

I hate how ya'll do this.

You've been brutally honest about women in this thread. What you said about the 2 women in the gym with no gains actually made me laugh because I have a sister like that.

But when it comes to me as a woman expressing myself and what I don't desire you wanna start feeding me fairytales and BS.

Respectfully, you don't date men. You don't constantly have to deal with sexist ideals. You have no idea what it's like.

You don't have the right to dismiss my experience. You don't have a right to trivialize my feelings.

And the fact that you are trying to spin this to an narrative that is more favorable to you further solidifies why I have chosen to not share a home with any male ever as long as I exist on this planet.

Why can't I just say what I have to say and you just acknowledged that that's my experience and just leave it at that? I would respect you more for it.

Why do you have to go and tell me how to feel about my experience and the people I see and the people I know?

No sir, I see ya'll. I see you on this forum. I see you at my job. I see y'all out on the town. I saw you in school. I see you on the dating market. I see you my family. I see you and I want no parts of that.

Just in your post alone you're hit #9, #18 #24 and partially #20.

a lot of us have family members and know women in happy marriages and relationships. Like I said before sorry you feel this way. Dont mean to belittle your experience. I was just saying there are men out there that dont do the things you mentioned. I dislike seeing people lose hope. But cook tho you right you the one dating men

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

We literally were just talking about this earlier Pearl. Bro came in here huffing and puffing real heavy when he saw you commented

I got that nikka blocked

It had to be awhile ago because I don't even recognize the name. So he knows he's blocked too and yet still can't help himself.

My blog about to make a killing. Lol

 

[NinoBrown]

It's funny how the Internet along with new age Feminism has cooked American Society...Grand opening, grand closing...

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

a lot of us have family members and know women in happy marriages and relationships. Like I said before sorry you feel this way. Dont mean to belittle your experience. I was just saying there are men out there that dont do that the things you mentioned. Cook tho you right you the one dating men

What makes you think I don't know good men or see happy marriages?

The thing ya'll don't seem to realize is that even "good" men and "good" relationships ask more from women then they typically receive.

Let me give you an example. My niece is married. She wants to me married and loves being married. Her husband seems decent enough so let's say he's a good man. He really wanted a baby with her so she got pregnant.

Guess what? The the pregnancy wasn't viable and was at a point where she would lose her life if she decided to go through with it. She had leave the state of Texas to get proper medical care and receive an abortion.

And guess what? It doesn't make him want children any less.

IMO, there is no man or relationship "good" enough to exchange her life. I don't care if he's perfect. It's not worth it.

That's obviously an extreme example but there are a ton more. Being "good" isn't enough to possibly risk my life, give up my freedom or my individuality.

Ya'll assume not wanting ya'll = hate or trama r whatever recycled talking point ya'll repeat over and over. It doesn't. I just weighed the pros and cons and realized that what ya'll are serving isn't worth the price of admission.

I know "good" men. But even what their asking doesn't equate to what their giving.

 

[Rayzah]

I hear you but my point is that reducing women you are working towards making your SO to a number rating inherently means you are making a comparison to other women. It’s bad mindset when trying to build and maintain a relationship. Saying “my wife is an adjustable 6” is pure absurdity.

I am not disagreeing. I was just trying to relate to the people. I don’t think it’s that deep but I’m not disagreeing with you