Everyone Over 30 in the Dating Game is already BURNT OUT.

[Rayzah]

I’m still confused as to why any man would let an age gap get in the way of finding the right woman… who gives a fukk what anyone says? Better to get them young before they’re cynical and jaded.

Old women hated that guys will date younger. They know they washed and damaged so they try to make you feel bad for being with a younger woman. If you 35 and childless what is a 35 year old woman going to do for you? She got about a year and a half left in the tank to have kids

 

[Braman]

I’m still confused as to why any man would let an age gap get in the way of finding the right woman… who gives a fukk what anyone says? Better to get them young before they’re cynical and jaded.

The people who say this, ain’t actually dating or tried to date younger women. I have a few . They’re fun. They’re really fukkin fun. But they’re just for play.

There is no free lunch. BECAUSE they haven’t been beat up by the world and/or dating, they still think the world is their oyster. Younger women are raised by social media and all the delusion, vapidity, and materialism that comes with it. She’s gona have 1k+ followers, she’s gonna think she can do better, etc

So there is a certain age sweet spot as you get older. Traditionally it’s half your age plus 7 but I’d make it more like half your age plus 10

 

[Water]

as a newly single man at 31 fml

 

[Amestafuu (Emeritus)]

OP aren't you retired why are you worried bout this? Date in your age range.

 

[2 one 3]

Also a lot of chicks I’ve dealt with think that their coochie is the Biggest, best, and only prize…


And of course, fire sex is great. But there are times we just want to be listened to understood, and catered to. Without having to ask or it be our birthday…

 

[MikelArteta]

yeah ive heard a lot of stories of brehs finding wives and happiness overseas

what do brehs have to lose at this point?

absolutely nothing

 

[AAKing23]

People done burnt out their pair bonding synapses by that age

 

[Wig Twistin Season]

Good points but what is disburbing is the bolded part being expected. Bad health is not related to old age. Bad health is a culture of neglect and bad habits. But your point still stands, in old age family is more important for emotional, psychological, and mental needs.

I’ve had brothers and cousins seemingly in good shape, have to deal with high blood pressure, heart attacks, transplants, etc. For some of us, it’s genetic, unfortunately.

 

[Rasille]

Too much access to people. If you find someone decent there’s always that urge to see what else is out there.

 

[CreepyMcCreeperson]

There's a reason men of the past were married their daughters off in their teens. Women aren't built to deal with so many men period. Aint no healing.

I honestly believe we need to bring back marriage in the early 20s. I stumbled upon this young couple, and we need to see more of this.

 

[ThrobbingHood]

The people who say this, ain’t actually dating or tried to date younger women.

There is no free lunch. BECAUSE younger women haven’t been beat up by the world and/or dating, they still think the world is their oyster. Younger women are raised by social media and all the delusion, vapidity, and materialism that comes with it. She’s gona have 1k+ followers, she’s gonna think she can do better, etc

Deal with a young, entitled, vapid woman with optimism or a ran through older jaded baby mama. Hmmm, tough choice.

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

The people who say this, ain’t actually dating or tried to date younger women.

There is no free lunch. BECAUSE younger women haven’t been beat up by the world and/or dating, they still think the world is their oyster. Younger women are raised by social media and all the delusion, vapidity, and materialism that comes with it. She’s gona have 1k+ followers, she’s gonna think she can do better, etc

So there is a certain age sweet spot as you get older. Traditionally it’s half your age plus 7 but I’d make it more like half your age plus 10

That's most women nowawdays considering Gen X and Millennials are also on social media. Remember social media has been out a good 20 years now. Have you not see the 38 year olds posting like they still got it? Hell it's 55 year olds posting like they still got it.


Most divorces happen over finances. All women want money. All women want to be flew out. All women want a provider. It don't matter the age.

 

[Braman]

Vapid entitled optimism or a ran through older jaded baby mama. Hmmm, tough choice.

That trope is outdated. Either that or i’m spoiled being in the dmv. Bc these chicks nowadays are so self centered with their traveling and eating—-plus in the workforce more——they don’t even want kids. there’s PLENTY of 30 even 35+ women with no kids to chose from

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

absolutely nothing

Women aside
Less stressful when you live overseas
Especially Africa

 

[Lieutenant Daniels]

There's a reason men of the past were married their daughters off in their teens. Women aren't built to deal with so many men period. Aint no healing.

There’s healing brother. The problem is it takes a LONGGG time, talking a minimum of a year to years, to properly heal from emotional damage and the average woman can’t sit still long enough to recover. Today’s woman will not sit and be alone for months or years.

They not built like that. Men are forced to sit down somewhere after relationships end because finding a new woman takes a lot of effort and time. They just gotta be moving and doing something with someone. Chasing the feels trumps being mentally healthy and that’s a fundamental problem with dating.