Everyone Over 30 in the Dating Game is already BURNT OUT.

[The ADD]

my brother went on a date with a 46 year old bbw, when they sat down at their table at applebees, fat bih gone start going through her purse and pull out a We energy bill and ask him if he can go half...her shyt was cut off and it was gonna cost her $1200 to get it cut back on...bro looked at her like said "ill brb finna use the bathroom", nikka went to his car and smashed out. blocked her number before leaving the parking lot THESE FAT HOES CRAZY

He was all in if that bill was up to date

 

[The ADD]

i wont go so far as to say all this....but i will say...one more bad experience and im just getting a dog....

 

[Rick Fox at UNC]

Truth is, especially in America it’s really hard to get it going in your 30’s without a great support system and people being patient with you. Like 30’s without your shyt together and you’re really behind many people at that point.


Yeah, this basically.

Would you mind elaborating?

 

[IIVI]

It's hard to get it going period. Limiting a man to 28 isn't sensible in today's market.

Yeah but at some point “potential” ain’t attractive anymore.

Little kids got “potential”. Many women out there have seen 24-year-olds who have their shyt together and will only make that comparison when they see some 30 year old cats still trying to figure it out.

shyt some kids know exactly what they want to be by the time they’re 10, graduate college at 20 and those aren’t even super geniuses. Women will compare the field to that, shyt as a man I compare people to that.

People entering 30, time is running out if their resources and system around them aren’t great because they’re falling seriously behind. Next thing you know, they’re 40, then 60 and they still don’t have their “wonderful life” meanwhile that 24-year-old and their significant other has been living their “wonderful life” the last 30 years.

 

[Wig Twistin Season]

I'm pretty sure you're the first person to bring up laughing at someone with a different perspective than yours.

I typed lol because dude came with a book chapter of male feminist drivel that he usually comes with and is beyond giving a worthy response to. You seem to be falling into that category yourself at this point.

You keep harping on judgement as a projection point because that's exactly what you did with your post and feel some type of way about someone coming the exact way on the opposite side.

Have the last word because I'm making sure I won't be able to see what it is, though I'm sure it'll consist of some side of the neck implication about me that wouldn't be said in person over a topic that is clearly going through a radical change for a wide net of Western men, relative to the generations for which it was upheld.

Male feminist?



From a nikka arguing online like a bird and too p*ssy or simple minded to find a woman who follows his lead.

I’ve been with more women, in more countries, regions and states, of all flavors than you can count. I guarantee that. Nothing feminine this way.

The original laughter wasn’t directed at you, but hit dogs sure do holler.

 

[CrushedGroove]

People stopped teaching foundations, therefore those after them never learned them. Now everything is transactional and subtleties and nuances of getting to know your person before laying with them is out the window.

Everybody tryna do numbers

 

[Shadow King]

Yeah but at some point “potential” ain’t attractive anymore.

Little kids got “potential”. Many women out there have seen 24-year-olds who have their shyt together and will only make that comparison when they see some 30 year olds cats still trying to figure it out.

Then the 80/20 rule reigns supreme per usual...on top of the hypocrisy of what feminism was meant for.

Ironically enough, the age you chose to use is the age where I first made "function as a Northeastern adult" money.

 

[Ohene]

Dog... They definitely... DEFINITELY don't reward that behavior. And I get every woman is different, but in 4 out 5 of them I can call it like clock work when they fall off. You show some vulnerability, indicate a stronger interest, or come off like you're not dating/capable of dating anyone else, something will self destruct and go awry and back to square one you go. And it's fukking beyond annoying.

This other chick I was talking to that I actually started to have interest in, we had a falling out 2 months ago, and it started with me and her starting to feel around what we were doing. shyt completely fell apart on some "should I be dating other people" "I need some space". And it wasn't me bringing the convo up, it started from some trivial shyt like I didn't hold the door open when we went to a dinner date... after 4 other flawless dates. I bring her up because she hit me up a little over a week ago and we started to go down the path of linking up again, but then I guess I told a corny "joke" and shortly self destructed again. Told her last week, I'm digging you but I'm not walking on eggshells in every interaction we have and left it like that.

To your point, I have to find one that I'm really interested in, put my effort in her and take a gamble. It sucks, because it can unravel... but at least I know I'm putting my best foot forward in that interaction.

its fukked up man. it is beyond frustrating and if you arent mentally strong will make you give up completely

 

[UpThruDere]

No lies told, that’s why all my chicks be 19-28

 

[Da_Eggman]

I got my cat and sports

 

[KathleenJohnson]

Just think about what a 35 year old has been up to these past 20s years?

All the flings and different men, all the highs and lows, the emotions roller-coaster. Being a baller's light night jump off. Getting the shytted fukked out of them by a unemployed freak. Getting cheated on. Sadly a lot of women's trust has been broken forever.

Thats why you look for socially awkward/homely chicks (that don't wear makeup). Lot of em have single digit body counts and pretty much go work , come home and go to sleep lonely. They usually drive 15 year old, compact economy cars.

 

[International Playa]

These YouTube, social media dating rules about dating have corrupted single men & women in the dating market.

I advice brehs to only marry traditional women.

 

[Vandelay]

its fukked up man. it is beyond frustrating and if you arent mentally strong will make you give up completely

Man, for real I just want a kid. A biological kid. I want a partner too, but I sometimes think because I'm searching it's not coming to me. But at 41, you kinda have to be searching or it may just up and pass you by.

 

[Bumblebreh]

There's a reason men of the past were married their daughters off in their teens. Women aren't built to deal with so many men period. Aint no healing.

There is no reasoning behind it, a teenager should not be marrying anyone.

 

[TM101]

Irami made a video about this.