ALonelyDad
Veteran
I can understand both sides..if the father wants to prevent it, he should give less money or buy the son things at his own time
They don’t wanna hear that thosome men wanna control how “their” money is used while still being weekend dads
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That 2 bedroom he could qfford and having to pay her alimony on top of 900 q month for her rent had him working 2 damn jobs my mom and my grandmom gave him money for the lawyers for the child custody case. Adter he lost thag he said he cant afford another round
I would've been fighting for custody every chance I could get.
Next time, he better take his churn shoppin hisself.
Child support money becomes household money once it reaches the moms hands. Really ain't shyt a man can do about it.
That 2 bedroom he could qfford and having to pay her alimony on top of 900 q month for her rent had him working 2 damn jobs my mom and my grandmom gave him money for the lawyers for the child custody case. Adter he lost thag he said he cant afford another round
Smh
Theres a LOT of men out there that want that but cant fukking get it. Lets not pretend the courts aren't notorious for fukking over fathers who want custody... Yall playing games in here.
Not true..
If a man can show he’s better equipped to take care of his children, he can get primary physical custody. But it seems most men only fight to not pay child support and get some time with the children. A lot of them never fight for the children to live with them as their base home because a lot of men feel the children should be with their mother or don’t want that much responsibility. They prefer to be weekend parents. While they just see them occasionally and get mad that they have to still support the home they are no longer apart of.
Exactly... there’s way more cases of men being pissed at paying child support or not seeing their children often enough then men actually fighting for custody and losing.