Father gives baby mother $600 for his son. She spends it on all 3 of her kids instead

Who side are you on

  • The mom

    Votes: 50 24.0%
  • The dad

    Votes: 158 76.0%

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5 years ago I would’ve sided with the father. Now I understand the mom’s viewpoint. No mom is gonna go buy one kid everything and have her other two kids go without. The dad is petty to not understand that. If the dad has a problem with that he should’ve never got that woman pregnant. Even if he bought said stuff for his kid on his own, his kid would end up sharing with his siblings anyway. You big dummy. You mad over nothing.
Ding, ding, ding! This is the correct answer, but in the bizarro world of the Coli.
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thats his fault. mom gotta take care of ALL the cubs.
It’s not his fault tho. He is doing his job supporting his kid.

Where does the support stop? The mom is doing her kids a disservice if the other dads aren’t providing.Take them to child support….but nah she’d rather use her kids resources to support others.

Like I said this wouldn’t fly legally so don’t try it now. I’d give a little slack if we were talking about food & the kids were hungry.

We talking about materialistic things. Bu bu but they gone feel left out. Put that money to the side if it’s not immediately needed. When the kid need college money or a car outta hs she gone talk about how they dad could have did more :scust:
 

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Coli brehs slapping sandwiches out of kids hands, on som semantic bullshyt. Believe it or not, it says more about you than it does her or the kids.
Eta: it just seems petty to me. If you really cared like that, you wouldn’t be fukking a woman with kids raw to have a baby with her anyway for you to be in this situation .:yeshrug:
 

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It’s not his fault tho. He is doing his job supporting his kid.

Where does the support stop? The mom is doing her kids a disservice if the other dads aren’t providing.Take them to child support….but nah she’d rather use her kids resources to support others.

Like I said this wouldn’t fly legally so don’t try it now. I’d give a little slack if we were talking about food & the kids were hungry.

We talking about materialistic things. Bu bu but they gone feel left out. Put that money to the side if it’s not immediately needed. When the kid need college money or a car outta hs she gone talk about how they dad could have did more :scust:

its his fault because he allowed himself to be put in that position. Do you have half siblings? If you don't you might not get where I'm going...
 

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its his fault because he allowed himself to be put in that position. Do you have half siblings? If you don't you might not get where I'm going...
Yeah I do. Never once felt a way.


You’re still not grasping that it’s not okay for her to use the kids money for their needs on her other children. You didn’t address where you think support should stop. Is his kids future not important?

Also if the mom couldn’t get money for the other two kids & she hasn’t applied for public aid cash??? She lacking more than I thought
 

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Yeah I do. Never once felt a way.


You’re still not grasping that it’s not okay for her to use the kids money for their needs on her other children. You didn’t address where you think support should stop. Is his kids future not important?

Also if the mom couldn’t get money for the other two kids & she hasn’t applied for public aid cash??? She lacking more than I thought

everyones situation is different. we don't know the whole scope of things. I don't have enough data to draw the proper conclusion.
but if the other 2 siblings are down bad....and the kid being referenced is drippy head 2 toe with all the latest and greatest toys and they have not.....
then the mother should spread the wealth. they're all HER kids. its her job to make sure they're ALL GOOD. she just playing the cards she was dealt.


I didn't even realize u asked me a question about support. If it was me I wouldn't be trife. And if I had a problem with the way it was played then next time I'm not giving her cash. I'll take my son to the store and spend that 600 myself. and not 2 be petty even cop a little something for his siblings since clearly their fathers aint stepping up.
 
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