FEATURED: it cost $4,882.52 per year to date an Black female

[Paradise]

I think so too. She chose to make me successful rather than coddle me. I've got some severe emotional issues because of it. But I see what she was doing. It's weird, now that I'm 26 she's trying to baby me. When I was a kid I was furious with her because she was so mean to me and never was affectionate or happy with me. She always pushed me to do better. I remember I got a B on my RC in sixth grade. Lol sixth grade! She threatened to beat my ass. She was not kidding. Next semester I had straight A's. Funny thing is I got into summer cubs because of my grades and EC's in elementary school. That started me on my path to where I am now.

As much I hate my mom I respect her. We have a complex relationship. I think it's because I'm adopted. She adopted me when I was like 6 or 7. So I knew she wasn't my mom. But I always appreciated her giving me a chance. It's real hard to be a kid and spend weekends with families who didn't want me. That really fukked me up too. The foster care is fukked. I felt like a movie people rented, enjoyed for a few hours, and exchanged later. It didnt feel good to see other kids get adopted and wonder why I wasn't selected.

You know you may not want to tell the coli all of your business... but your life would make for a good thread.

It would help people understand how being in the foster care system and being adopted affected you as an adult.

 

[NoChillJones]

Another anti bytch thread? Starting to think the majority of you nikkas are virgins, or gay as fukk. Jesus. At some point the whole hard on hoes shyt gets kind of gay. Especially when its 40 year old nikkas endorsing treating women like shyt. You nikkas are fukking weirdo's on this site man.

 

[jwonder]

Dating is prostitution in the states IF the female only gives you p*ssy. If she is not building you up and helping you out. You are a trick.

 

[Diondon]

And they spending well over 4gs a year on that too

And naan won't fix em a plate

 

[The Bilingual Gringo]

Rounding up, that's $100 a week on average. That's easily one date out w/ dinner and drinks, that may not be a weekly thing or anything that like, but accounting for gifts, etc. this isn't a whole lot of money.

I don't date women that don't have jobs but

 

[SeveroDrgnfli]

You know you may not want to tell the coli all of your business... but your life would make for a good thread.

It would help people understand how being in the foster care system and being adopted affected you as an adult.

I've considered it. I want to find my biological parents and make a thread about my journey. I got nothing to hide. Trust me. I found my OG birth certificate and all I know is my mom's name and where she was living when she had me. I don't know how reliable the parent locating services are but I feel like I need to meet my biological family for closure. I have so many questions. My mom tells me my biological mother has to have my cheek bones because my brother and I have different dads and the same mom. Our cheek bones are identical.

I try to remember her face. I have four memories of her. I vaguely remember her having braids. She was short too. Lol explains why brother and I are short. She was fit though. My brother and I are athletic. I can't remember her face. I could be standing next to her and wouldnt know it. I remember having a little sister too. My brother and I both do. I want to find her more than anything else.

 

[Gold]

This sounds on the low end.

Valentines, Birthdays, Traveling alone probably hit 5k, and that's not including weekly dates.

 

[freetroit]

if somebody offered you 5000 dollars to break up with your girl how many of you coli brehs would do it?

 

[Drake is God]

 

[prophecypro]

That aint that expensive

 

[Adidacs]

you losing if you constantly going on dates with these bytches

simp nikkas ruin the game

but also make it easier

 

[JudgeJoeForilla]

Any dude spending that much money on a female or females per year be it a bunch of dates or his long term girlfriend is an imbecile.

 

[wickedsm]

Any dude spending that much money on a female or females per year be it a bunch of dates or his long term girlfriend is an imbecile.

So in your opinion
How much should one spend a year on a long term good girlfriend?

 

[JudgeJoeForilla]

So in your opinion
How much should one spend a year on a long term good girlfriend?

Being generous I'd say 2800 assuming most dudes who are financial stable make around 50 k a year the figure in op's post is about 10 percent of their salary. Savings are most important.

 

[mcdivit85]

Not surprised. But I would ask, how much does it cost per year to date an American male? Because if women are working and demanding equal pay for equal work, rightfully so I may add, then I would expect women to be breaking bread as well.

I don't understand the worry here, since dudes need to be expecting some reciprocity in the 2016 dating game. If you're dating a woman with a job, especially a job with comparable salary level to yours, then I don't understand how a dude could date a woman like this without her picking up a date here and there.

Peace