MalikX
Superstar
Not surprised. Dating is prostitution. It's just the long game.
when we first started dating it was always 50/50 but after a couple months my moms asked if I loved her... I didn't respond, then she said you shouldn't be letting the girl you love pay, had nikka like![]()
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why are you listening to your mum on thisThis is a low number. I've spent way more on all my GFs. Just helping one pay rent for a year was more then four thousand a year. Bouquets of flowers, manny/petty combo for her and her bestie, clothes, gas, drugs, groceries, wine, vegetarian candy, make up, perfume, random gifts, and bed and breakfast weekend trips.


True... Which ruins it for the women that don't mind helping with the household... But the man insist on doing it.how about women, who may try to play ol boy for a simp....
This goes both ways here![]()
LOL, true shyt.And y'all wonder why you get no females and ain't had no sex in ages...I remember that thread.

LOL, true shyt.
Then you look at other threads and notice that money is very hard to come by for Alot of these posters/trollers and it starts to make sense.![]()
Cats starting to notice the inverse relationship here.....I don't pay for shyt, had the home girl send me her credit card info so i could take an uber to her house cuz she was horny a few days ago.So if it costs that much then where are the dudes who say "You don't pay for it" at?
You would think they'd have made the first page already.
These magical negros that somehow have so much game they never shell out a dime, but when they do "It ain't trickin if you have it" and "No sweat off my back" or some other bullshyt like "Broke nikka problems", "It's only 1% of my monthly income, I'mma baller nikka"
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An ex boyfriend once told me "I'm pretty sure I provided 2/3 of your meals last year."This lol. I went to an event geared towards black professionals. None of the women had to wait for men to buy them drinks etc. They all got up and got their own shyt. Even the dimes. Also women who understand the value of money. So many nikkas tricking these days lol.
Preach it brothers; preach the neverending gospel.Nikka wtf?
Women actually cosigning this and your other post here too.
I was raised old school, and I'm going to spoil the person I'm with if it's gotten that point, but by no means is my sole purpose of making money is to support another grown human being.
Big difference between being respectful and being stupid with your money. Only family gets those privileges, a random chick nah. In 2016 there is no reason you should be actively funding the expenses of a grown woman. If you are you lawst. If she was even about shyt she wouldn't even want that. Some of y'all still can't fathom a relationship where a man leads, but a woman can bring just as much to the table. Y'all treat the occurrences like they have to be mutually exclusive and they don't.
My ex girlfriend was still in school so she didn't have a copious amount of money, but what she lacked in money she made up with in other attributes, like cooking. I don't mind paying dinner once to twice a week for a chick who brings something valuable to the table like throw down in the kitchen half the week. Even then she'd pay occasionally. But nikkas ready to shell out their hard earned cash because it's the "gentleman" thing to do like it's 1923 or something and she doesn't do anything in return got the game all the way twisted. I'm all for my woman out here trying to hustle and get her money just like me. Because if she is, I'm going to take care of her more just because she doesn't need it or expect it.
Glad my pops put me on game. "You get money to make more money, don't spend it all on one place, and definitely don't spend it all on one person". You don't have to be cheap, but at the same time you shouldn't be spending over 10% of your income on someone whose only worth is laying on their back every night.
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Preach !You know what, if you find the right girl, it's worth it.

Im sure this post will go ignoredNaw, I date to marry and I was in serious relationships. It ain't tricking if you got it breh. Also I treat my woman like I treat myself. That's my other half. Not some THOT. I wouldn't spend half a cent on a jump off because she doesn't value or respect herself so why should I?
My mom raised me to get married and that means the man opens doors, talks to the service men, is expected to pay the bill, and keep his woman very happy. What's mine is hers and the world is mine and the sky is ours. A real trick gives a girl his security codes and control of the bank accounts. I would never give a girl my ATM pin or share an account. Our finances are separate. Lol just in case I gotta kill her.
Girls don't drive my car either. My girls don't ever say no to me either. A good woman knows the deal. She has to keep it wet, be down to commit a crime, and fight a bytch for me.
The modern man is weird. They want a woman to be loyal and obedient and they offer them nothing other than dikk. Girls get offered dikk all day. You can't demand to be treated like a king and behave as a clown. I even pay for everything when I'm out with any women in my family. I bought my mom a car after she crashed her whip. She didn't say thank you and I didn't expect her to. It's my responsibility as the man of my family.
Preach !
Why is the coli so anti spoiling your girl ?![]()
