Feelings on being a Stepdad?

dap-man

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Nah, I know I could be good at being a Dad but Step-Dad nah. I want to help raise my own kid, and deal with all the struggle that comes with raising a kid that is my actul kid. It's not easy raising kids, and it's even harder raising someone else's kid who might not respect ya cus you aren't their Bio-Dad.
 

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Yes if the situation was right meaning I was deeply in love with the mom, the kids were well adjusted, and the relationship between her and the kids dad was good.

Through dating I'd get to see if all the above was true.
 

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I'am a step dad unfortunately :-(
I don't gotta deal with the BD drama because homeboy died so I'am good.
I raised the little fukkker from 3-8 so far,so good. I have my off days where I'am like this is not even my kid,but I feel like if I leave this little Nikka is going to turn into another fatherless statistic. I been stressing math on little man and he has won math awards since pre-k and even got into the smart class two times in a row. Bottom line it's not for everyone though.
 

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It's nikkas out here that's not taking care of their own kids, so if you willing to take care of somebody else kids then I got wild respect :salute:

A nikka told me something one time tho...he wasn't with his BM but they maintained a solid friendship or whatever. She had just started dating another nikka, and my homie said he told the other nikka that, basically his BM p*ssy was always gonna be his, and that whenever he wanted it, the other nikka would be irrelevant.

:patrice: I feel like that's kinda true to some extent
 

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My best man did it. The baby daddy basically excused himself from the lil n1gga's life and wanted nothing to do with him. So when my man met shorty, he was the only father figure lil man ever had. I agree with a previous poster; it's when the kid is pushing puberty and they looking at you like :stopitslime: cause they know you tryna make mommy's liver quiver that things can get kinda funky.
 

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While you at work the real dad will cum to your crib, eat your food and bust a free nut on your bed with your wife/ his bbm. Don't do it brehs, once he is out of prison, is a wrap! He will always hit that p*ssy on the low.
 
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