Fewer men attending college is leading toward "mating crisis", says NYC professor

Ashley Banks

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Once again women don’t even understand what men mean when asking for “submission”
Men are not going by the literal definition
All a breh wants is a woman who communicates effectively
Not trying to start an argument after a breh just put in a 10-12hr shift
Knows the difference between nagging and counseling
No man wants a door mat and no man wants a bunch of masculine energy either
Submission is not some superpower you can unlock for the right man
This ain’t a fukking comic book and you are not Storm
You are a married woman (in a relationship with a culture that don’t play semantics when it comes to submission)and you should know what submission means
Instead you want to use it as a loaded word and excuse for women not trying to couple with suitable mates
Your argument is flat as a day old Coke
All any man needs is a home cook meal, time to unwind, effective communicator, someone who isn’t afraid of exploration in bed and listens
That’s it
Women are taking the “what do you bring to the table”/“submission” argument too literal
And it proves why men are like fukk it
Let me bust this nut right quick without headaches
But we here now and ain’t no turning back
Don’t wreck your home
Or you gon be right back out here looking goofy like the rest of these chicks


Ugh I forgot how annoying some of you are. I don’t need the word explained to me, I have the mental capacity to understand that’s it has a different meaning for each person, I assumed since we’re all adults yall would be able to understand that I wasn’t talking about having a regular passive partner (which is the type of wife I am) that’s why I used the word CONTROL because plenty of men (and women) want to CONTROL their partner I assumed people would know the difference but clearly not everyone is the same.


I’m not going to wreck anything I’m not stupid obviously I have it figured out that’s why I’ve never struggled in this deparment like most people do.
 
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Not as much as we want to believe :francis:

some women will hold it over your head and remind you of it any time you argue

Those types of women (and men) should just stay single because that’s weird af. Why are you with that person if you think you’re better than them? Mentally ill.
 

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And outside of Medicine, what fields are they in?
Business
Law
Engineering
IT/Computer Science

Check the numbers, its not really close. Over the course of a career, the average advanced degree holder is in a different stratosphere.

Median HS grad income - Around $35,000
Median AdvDeg income - $65,000
 
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Yes they are. :francis:
No they're not, if anything this will affect college educated women's preferences and standards of preferring someone with at least their level of education or better to marry.

There is going to be a lesser supply of these men going forward into the future for women to choose from so they may have to compromise on some of their standards or die alone

This is marriage we're talking about, not dating which women control. Men are the gatekeepers to marriage, women aren't able to dictate that.
 

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Business
Law
Engineering
IT/Computer Science

Check the numbers, its not really close. Over the course of a career, the average advanced degree holder is in a different stratosphere.


- Business and IT/Computer Science can be accomplished without an Advanced Degree or even a Degree at all. Know plenty of people in the IT/Computer Science field with just a Bachelor's or No degree at all making 85k + easily

- Engineering does not need an Advanced degree at all to make great money

Any more examples? :francis:
 

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I agree to a point. But didn't the mass shootings we've seen already come from "boys" (won't call them men), who come from middle class/upper middle class backgrounds i.e Elliot Rodger?



Men control marriage though, right? If shifting demographics come to be that men won't go to college and women will continue to, wouldn't there be less marriage overall or a woman is marrying a guy who doesn't have a college degree? Perhaps this is already happening?




Could it be argued that college educated people would be less likely to be so influenced by social media? All that consumption of social media tends to give a narrow view of the world, but wouldn't one think that people who go to college and graduate have a set of values that can't be as influenced by social media?

Book smarts doesn't necessarily translate to emotional, street, or functional intelligence
 

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No they're not, if anything this will affect college educated women's preferences and standards of preferring someone with at least their level of education or better to marry.

There is going to be a lesser supply of these men going forward into the future for women to choose from so they may have to compromise on some of their standards or die alone

This is marriage we're talking about, not dating which women control. Men are the gatekeepers to marriage, women aren't able to dictate that.

gotta love the old “you’ll die alone” scare tactic people use against women.

Most men die before their wives so you’ll still more than likely die alone if you get married.
 

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We need training and higher education. Traditional College should go back to being for nerds in tweed and scientists in lab coats.

There should be a Minor league for Football/ Basketball and sports should be decoupled from college. Having a degree should mean something. There should be no way that a College grad should be a barrista at Starbucks.
You should litterally be able to go to school for anything. Higher education should just be adult school, you should be able to get a degree in anything that has enough interest. We need to start valuing all human endeavors outside of destructive ones, thinking that everyone needs a degree that will instantly make them money is failing us. Why get a degree or any kind of training when you are still going to be a worthless wage slave. We live in the future, we should be discovering all kinds of shyt as a species but 99.9% of us got to go to work tomorrow.
 

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You should litterally be able to go to school for anything. Higher education should just be adult school, you should be able to get a degree in anything that has enough interest. We need to start valuing all human endeavors outside of destructive ones, thinking that everyone needs a degree that will instantly make them money is failing us. Why get a degree or any kind of training when you are still going to be a worthless wage slave. We live in the future, we should be discovering all kinds of shyt as a species but 99.9% of us got to go to work tomorrow.
We already have free higher education, Its called High School. You may not know it but white people who were born in the 20's didn't have High school educations like that nobody did. Outside of the west the average person isn't a High school graduate becuase it's not free, People self select for their children's education and only the most motivated students go. I dropped out of High school and College before graduating both. If I were born in the country that I'm in now I probably wouldn't have went to school I'd have a trade or be a farmer or have a small business.
 

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gotta love the old “you’ll die alone” scare tactic people use against women.

Most men die before their wives so you’ll still more than likely die alone if you get married.
Correct and in the Black community there's already college educated women having kids with non grads. Evander Holyfield is married to a Medical Doctor.
 

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We already have free higher education, Its called High School. You may not know it but white people who were born in the 20's didn't have High school educations like that nobody did. Outside of the west the average person isn't a High school graduate becuase it's not free, People self select for their children's education and only the most motivated students go. I dropped out of High school and College before graduating both. If I were born in the country that I'm in now I probably wouldn't have went to school I'd have a trade or be a farmer or have a small business.
Breh if you think you should stop getting formally educated when you are 18 then you have a limited view of the world. The world is a very complicated place and even a lifetime worth of studying it you wouldn't be able to know everything. Right now we have the technology to massively improve the human species but most people know only how to use it for porn and social media.
 
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