Fewer men attending college is leading toward "mating crisis", says NYC professor

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Sure for-profit colleges die but legit institutions will thrive.

STEM jobs ain't going no where, maybe Help Desk jobs..but on-site American jobs are staying...

Trades or Military are the next options...


I went to college, Most of my most fullfilling career jobs I could've done with zero college but I needed Military experience.

I had to take some college course while in the Military to do certain aspects of my job though.
 

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Life is about looking at statistics and making an informed decision. As we all know you can do everything right and things might be different for you than for someone else who went through the same schooling. I know plenty of engineers who are under employed. Meaning they don't do much actual engineering work. There's also a massive amount of foreign engineers in this country you are competing with so things arent always green. Also there's many types of engineering that all are very different from each other. The traditional engineering fields aren't paid that well. I did civil engineering and even did masters degree in the end after a few years i went to work in construction management for better pay. It opened up my eyes how well the trades get paid. Bottom line is we cant paint everything with the same brush, you can be successful without being educated.
Never said you couldn't breh. I know car dealership general managers clearing a $500K+ a year that never stepped foot in a college classroom.

Highly unlikely for most though.

You being able to pivot between industries kind of proves my point. With your engineering degree and masters, the likelihood of you making a high salary is much higher than someone without either.
 

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Sure for-profit colleges die but legit institutions will thrive.

STEM jobs ain't going no where, maybe Help Desk jobs..but on-site American jobs are staying...

Trades or Military are the next options...

No worker rights means that even educated people are expendable to AUTOMATION.

These colleges gotten too greedy for their good, and now on the verge of collapsing.
 

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Never said you couldn't breh. I know car dealership general managers clearing a $500K+ a year that never stepped foot in a college classroom.

Highly unlikely for most though.

Outliers do not make a situation feasible for the average joe.. Statistically you are better off with a BA/BS for greater earning potential...Or be prepared to put on a combat or construction helmet to earn a living...
 

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Outliers do not make a situation feasible for the average joe.. Statistically you are better off with a BA/BS for greater earning potential...Or be prepared to put on a combat or construction helmet to earn a living...
Exactly. That's all I'm saying.

People can try to convince themselves otherwise by naming outliers but most HS grads aren't outliers. They are working normal jobs paying $35-45K.
 

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Again, I never said they couldn't make money. I said advanced degree holder in those subject are more likely to make more money. You can call them fluffy accessories or useless all you want. That's not the point. They more often than not will command a higher salary all other variables being equal.

As for the bolded, I'm in MBA classes every week with people in those industries that work at F500/1000 companies and I know that's not true.


Yes the people IN CLASS WITH YOU are getting a MBA too, got it :snoop::dead:
 

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Exactly. That's all I'm saying.

People can try to convince themselves otherwise by naming outliers but most HS grads aren't outliers. They are working normal jobs paying $35-45K.
True but you take an english major from small college they'll get a managerial position coupled with debt and their job likely being in a expensive city whereas Joe sixpack can make 45K in Enterprise Alabama.

As a dude who retied early I can tell you it's not about what you cop it's what you keep. A cop is making way more than either of them and the vast majority of cops sit on their asses their whole careers.
 

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You still trying to sell your ass :deadmanny:
:dame:tryna sell my D. I keep it all the way kosher around these parts pahtna.
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Never said you couldn't breh. I know car dealership general managers clearing a $500K+ a year that never stepped foot in a college classroom.

Highly unlikely for most though.

You being able to pivot between industries kind of proves my point. With your engineering degree and masters, the likelihood of you making a high salary is much higher than someone without either.
I agree with you. I'm very pro education and going to school to learn. My views sort of shifted when I was on the inside looking in i spent 3 years as a teaching assistant and working in a research lab. Higher education has turned into a business. Professors were not interested in actually teaching. They were all about focusing on getting funding from businesses/government & attracting international students/out of state students who were a huge cash cows for the school and local economy.
 
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Social media pulled back the curtain for regular men the consistent sexual attention women give men they find sexually attractive. There are several other factors, but a lot of men in the middle are realizing that if she didn't want to fukk you off GP, trying to convince her to see value in you in other aspects, won't ever win you her true desire. She might be with you, but she has lust for men of a certain ilk. Attraction physically varies in terms of individual taste, but it's safe to say women share similar phenotypical preferences the same way men do.

If the women you end up with doesn't have strong desire for you, you're always at risk, and more and more guys are trying to mitigate risk in dealing with women


I think you're on to something.

Woman's mind = I gave up the "p" to Tyrone because he was just some dude and it didn't mean anything. I'm making you wait because I want this to work long-term.

What she's really saying is that she wanted Tyrone to be her long-term boo, but he had too many character flaws. He was physically her ideal but was lacking in other areas. She's willing to wait for sex with you because you're NOT her physical ideal. She's had better so she can wait you out and use sex as leverage for resources. A woman doesn't consciously think this way but you'll never see a woman make a (what she considers) "hot" breh wait. She'll fukk him and then regret it later before fukking him again. Women only have self-discipline with average-looking, average income men.

Men's mind = so I have to go out on multiple dates, commit to you and all this shyt but you let these other nikkas hit ASAP?
 

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Exactly. That's all I'm saying.

People can try to convince themselves otherwise by naming outliers but most HS grads aren't outliers. They are working normal jobs paying $35-45K.
Cats are ignoring the statistics and that’s disturbing. All metrics from the BLS and NACE prove what you are saying is true
 

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I think you're on to something.

Woman's mind = I gave up the "p" to Tyrone because he was just some dude and it didn't mean anything. I'm making you wait because I want this to work long-term.

What she's really saying is that she wanted Tyrone to be her long-term boo, but he had too many character flaws. He was physically her ideal but was lacking in other areas. She's willing to wait for sex with you because you're NOT her physical ideal. She's had better so she can wait you out and use sex as leverage for resources. A woman doesn't consciously think this way but you'll never see a woman make a (what she considers) "hot" breh wait. She'll fukk him and then regret it later before fukking him again. Women only have self-discipline with average-looking, average income men.

Men's mind = so I have to go out on multiple dates, commit to you and all this shyt but you let these other nikkas hit ASAP?
In Africa when a women vehemently objected to who her father picked for her she would leave the village and go to another one and be a village wife. Because of polygamy there were brehs that lost out to handsome gang or resource gang. The village wife understood that she'd have to be availble to smash these dudes and they'd colectively take care of her until she had a kid or picked one of them.

In America there was always a Ms. Parker who was down to top off random dudes, but I think that the run tel dat culture low key fukked it up for the neighborhood hoe. One chick can't possibly satisfy every Incel there's supposed to be one in every hood. Not one girl fukking nikkas froim several hoods.
 

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Nah that's not how it goes, the people in control of the us military, the most powerful and dangerous force on this planet, are wealthy as hell and they dictate every part of my life and your life. Not like I'm complaining tho, it's just a fact of life you gotta accept.
I get your point but a military’s purpose is to fight for and protect a nation. A great military keeps its enemies at bay and/or go on the offensive. The ultimate goal is peace. Of course, there are sick people that build crazy stuff and want to use it but ultimately chill because a peaceful world is worth more.
 

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gotta love the old “you’ll die alone” scare tactic people use against women.

Most men die before their wives so you’ll still more than likely die alone if you get married.
True. But I believe the overarching point is to live out your twilight years financially comfortable; surrounded by a stable, developed family unit. You can't tell me that's not preferable to spending years 50-85 solo dolo, or as a single mom burdening your kids financially with your existence. Because statistically, the kids raised by that single mom won't be well off themselves. So there's a domino effect that takes place impacting future generations.
 
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