Fewer people are getting married because there’s a shortage of economically-stable single men

[Fillerguy]

None of that sounds like a stable relationship.

For the guys it is.

 

[paperbag]

Interesting take on this breh.

I feel like there is an innate need in females to want to be protected though and because everything is based on emotion with them they admire male rationality and yearn for it. Every woman is willing to submit to the right strong man. So in that sense I feel like they do need us and will go crazy by themselves sooner than a man will crazy by himself.

I might be wrong but hey...

We just had a breh who let his wife get hit dead in face and did nothing. Men arent providing protection out here unless you're dealing with some over emotional hood dude or the crazy latin and east euro quasi women beaters. And men are the ones going on shooting sprees and posting manifestos, so who is really going crazy. Women just get a script or some wine and go on a girls trip.

 

[Bmezy]

Dumb nikka no dad in life babble

if yo greasy ass don't stop quoting me with this bullshyt you typing.. Either keep scrolling or talk to me like you got some sense

 

[chkmeout]

if yo greasy ass don't stop quoting me with this bullshyt you typing.. Either keep scrolling or talk to me like you got some sense

bytch ass nikka I did it again

 

[Balla]

this article was pure comedy

Women fail to realize no matter how financialy stable and educates they are

They still fail to realize ITS A MAN'S WORLD AND WE DO THE CHOOSING
Regardless how broke or sorry we may seem..

SO THEY HAVE TO WAIT AND DESIRED TO GET "CHOSE" (cuffed..wifed up..married)

For example as I was reading this I just got a text from a 23 year old college graduate with no kids and a Bachelor's in social work ..

Who is having trouble finding work in her field and a man to marry her cause she fails to realize she is BROKE AND LIVES WITH HER PARENTS

resorting to selling Recyclable Goods to get by today till she goes to her second shift manager job at @Wendy's

SO AINT NO REAL MAN WITH HIS SHYT TOGETHER CHOOSING HER

The game done changed N1GGAS AINT WIFING WOMEN UP JUST CAUSE U LOOK GOOD AND GOT AMAZING PUZZY

gotta bring more to the table than a WET THOT BOX

A GOOD CREDIT SCORE AND A GREAT ATTITUDE SURE WOULD HELP ALOT

She’s broke and lives with her parents, but is her attitude at least good?

Is that common with black women to be in that situation?

A lot of black women I'm talking to now have careers and I feel it makes them more entitled.

I’d like a bytch who isn’t so full of herself and give me a side of fries.

 

[Bmezy]

bytch ass nikka I did it again

musty

 

[Coli Bot]

We just had a breh who let his wife get hit dead in face and did nothing. Men arent providing protection out here unless you're dealing with some over emotional hood dude or the crazy latin and east euro quasi women beaters. And men are the ones going on shooting sprees and posting manifestos, so who is really going crazy. Women just get a script or some wine and go on a girls trip.

Out of millions of men... What maybe 10 have gone on rampages, c'mon breh.

Most men are protecting their partners.

 

[Balla]

Wait, so now we’re saying that women don’t want to be married and that marriage only benefits the man because women take care of them?

I really think a woman with money will marry a man because of how he acts and treats her.

I don’t hear much about men marrying women to save them from being broke.

It can happen, but that’s some other shyt, that’s not common.

All the people I know and girls that I talked to want to be married because of that clock ticking and they want to be looked wanted.

I have yet to meet many women that don’t want marriage, women are trying to lock me down to have a partner, they don't care about my money, some girls actually just want me to settle down with them and nothing else, maybe they like me the most, maybe they don’t feel like they’ll get a guy that’ll make them feel like how I do, who knows?

There’s girls I talked to that sound desperate to get married and have kids with anyone they find attractive because they're barely over 30.

 

[Jparker]

You have to be a brave soul in today's climate to get married.

 

[the bossman]

I think a lot of women are actually yearning for the chance (a seat if you will) to have a share of that responsibility and influence over society the way men have had from the beginning of time. Just look around you, shyt is changing and this feminism empowerment that has these new-age women literally buzzing is going to have lasting affects that'll finna shift shyt a bit. We probably won't live to see it, but.. look at our women. The more us that gets locked up/killed and broken down by hard work labor the more they are grabbing degrees and promotions, starting businesses and holding off kids (our poor birthrate) they have normalized thottery so no one's shaming them anymore for sexual freedom.. shyt changing breh

I disagree. Women ain't really looking to share responsibility for nothing in society. They just want equal opportunity

Take for example the 'fewer people are getting married' articles that are written to death every year. It's the same song and dance: "men are broke. men are locked up. men play too many video games. men don't do this. men don't do that." when have these articles ever pointed to the outdated marriage/divorce laws women greatly use to their advantage as being a possible reason marriage has gone down? women who deceive men into raising kids who arent theirs? Women who get fat and quit their jobs as soon as you put that ring on? These women who write these articles never hold their counterparts accountable for anything when it comes to the decline in marriage. They are not lookin to share no responsibility.

It goes to say that it's great that women finally have access to all types of educational and economic opportunities. But isn't it telling that despite all the degrees, businesses, and accolades that should leave them feeling happier than ever. They are still here writing these tired ass articles about where are all the good men? Why aren't there enough suitable men to marry?

I would think with all the PhDs, promotions, girls trips, and businesses they're starting that they wouldn't need to keep writing these tired articles

 

[Prevail]

The funny thing is, men don't tend to worry about "economic attraction" so much as being able to enjoy a woman's company.

Woman are generally less economically stable, plenty of opportunity for such "economic attraction"/hypergamy to exist.

There is much more risk for men then woman in marriage as well, considering it's a social/legal contract.

This article could be interpreted as, "females practicing hypergamy is becoming less common"
Which hopefully occurs as people try to fight against sex-based wage gaps

 

[ignorethis]

Most dudes have brought up valid points on why this is happening, but there is another thing that I noticed in my circles which are mostly other high income, high status nikkas.

A lot of us still wanna get married and even got a woman we love and can see ourselves marrying. But it used to be you got married when you could afford to have a family.

Now not only do you need to be able to afford a family, you also need to be able to afford the L if a divorce eventually comes.

It's a whole generation of men who's lives and dreams got blown away by a divorce, nikkas wanna be sure that a divorce won't ruin their life if they do get married.

 

[Bmezy]

Somebody listen to this man!!!!! b/c when I say it ya’ll get mad at me and call me a feminist bytch for pointing out the wetness of water.
Jesus Christ do u know how refreshing it is to hear a MAN finally admit this shyt. How exhausting it is to have to deconstruct this nonsense on the daily.

I hope u get the sloppiest of head somewhere in the near future and I mean that.


The only thing I will add is that men and women do need each other...but not for the superficial, manipulative shyt that made us fukk over and dehumanize each other for survival in the past.
I’m hopeful that when the smoke clears male/female interactions won’t be based primarily off trying to make one gender feel inferior or control...but based on two people actually genuinely liking one another and wanting to learn and grow together.
Dude u deserve all the rep.

Thank you for this.

preciate it. things will work itself out!
..or we’ll all in up dying from killing each other

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

preciate it. things will work itself out!
..or we’ll all in up dying from killing each other

Yep! My thoughts exactly.

 

[Balla]

Most dudes have brought up valid points on why this is happening, but there is another thing that I noticed in my circles which are mostly other high income, high status nikkas.

A lot of us still wanna get married and even got a woman we love and can see ourselves marrying. But it used to be you got married when you could afford to have a family.

Now not only do you need to be able to afford a family, you also need to be able to afford the L if a divorce eventually comes.

It's a whole generation of men who's lives and dreams got blown away by a divorce, nikkas wanna be sure that a divorce won't ruin their life if they do get married.

That’s when you get,

“Happy wife, Happy life”