So where do go from here? Open marriages? Open relationships? Free love like back in the 60s?
I think women have a few hard lessons to learn. Them being relegated to the status of overgrown children in the past and told they couldn’t make their own decisions came with drawbacks and benefits.
Women took lemons and made the best of it while capitalizing on the helpless female act. Some of my foreign female friends would tell me right now to STFU. Lol! Because they say the dumb shyt men believe about them benefits them. They will regale u with tales of the thousands of dollars they’ve scammed out of men from other countries who actually think they are submissive little puppets.
But the jig is up for the most part. Now that the world has been forced to acknowledge how capable we are, many have to stop playing both sides of the fence.
It’s okay to want a man to meet u halfway financially, but don’t expect him to be the sole provider, especially if he genuinely doing the housework and taking care of the kids 50/50.
As men are becoming more reticent about approaching due to increased scrutiny of male sexual transgressions against women, women need to be more proactive in the courtship process. I mean damn, at least meet dudes halfway. Start approaching more. Be a bit bolder. Men can’t take all of the risk.
Women also have to come into their newfound empowerment, not out of resentful reaction to men fukkkng them over, but figure out their authentic selves. Currently many women are doing a lot of self-harm trying to prove their self-worth to the world by copying men’s vices. All the size queens, over emphasis on casual promiscuity, being a hoe is empowerment is ridiculous. They cutting their noses off to spite their faces. One of the most idiotic parts of feminism is women thinking they have to mimic men to prove their value. A grape doesn’t need to become an orange to be just as sweet. Two objects can look different but have the same mass.
Women also can’t deny their biological realities. I will give men hell all day for irresponsibly nuttin up in dumb bytches and leaving their seed to be raised in horrid conditions. But women are the other half of that equation. With more opportunity comes more responsibility. Take precautions and love urself instwad of playing urself for a dude who doesn’t love u.
Women also have to stop being silent sufferers. Some chicks love being victims. They can’t claim
to be superior to men at communicating feelings but go years without getting an orgasm in a relationship. Women have to stop being afraid to tell men the truth. Lying to ya’ll doesn’t help.
Men for their parts are facing an entire paradigm shift. Women are flexible and adaptable. But men have to shift their entire worldview. It’s going to be tough for them b/c our entire world is predicated on allowing men to basically do whatever they want while shaming women. For men, accountability is anathema. But the world can’t sustain male excess and it’s pushed society to the edge. Entire civilizations with shortages of millions of women due to ignorant patriarchy, a worldwide sex slavery trade, women initiating majority of divorces damn near everywhere. Some European countries have a majority of single mothers b/c they view men as liabilities. Men gotta take ownership that under their watch, they fukked up. They also gotta stop believing alternate facts about women to appease their ego. Blowing out women’s candles don’t make the male ones shine brighter.
In short, we all gotta do better or we go the way of the dinosaurs.
Just some of ur typical HOH Coli sentiments.
