Frenimies

[Kobe24]

Nah, I don't concern myself with others like that nor do I envy them. I don't hold animosity and I hate passive aggressiveness...women tend to do that but when men do it its scust. I'd respect you more if you simply let it be bluntly known that you don't like me than if you p*ssy footed around it.

Passive aggressiveness is a HUGE part of cac culture, I absolutely hate it. But when dealing wtih Cacs its pretty much their way of communication can't really get around that shyt

If you try to keep it gangster/man to man they start with the and then passively aggressively stop talking to you completely ignoring you and slandering you and getting others to do the same

shyt is fukked up

 

[WaveGang]

Cut em off

Yep, a team that competes together won't eat together. Besides you never know how deep that jealous runs and what levels they'll stood to to become on top of you.

Some of them I play close just because the hate and jealousy keeps me going

If you aint got no haters best believe you're doing something wrong in life lol.

 

[HoloGraphic]

Funny how life imitates the coli.

Edit: theory is that they really just don't want you to leave them.

 

[Kobe24]

Yep, a team that competes together won't eat together. Besides you never know how deep that jealous runs and what levels they'll stood to to become on top of you.

Some of them I play close just because the hate and jealousy keeps me going

If you aint got no haters best believe you're doing something wrong in life lol.

I agree with you completely. There can only be one dude trying to really eat per group, if there are multle alphas/wannabe alphas eventually it will come out that one is better than the other and thats when problems arise. If you are richer/more handsome than a friend that likes to eat eventually he won't bring you around hoes no more. It's simple to understand really. People notice you quick if you are trying to eat, and they will do anything to stop you. Ive had way too many bad experiences with jelous friends and Im not just talking with girls. Ive notice once you start winning in life people start saying spiteful things to you or doing spiteful things.

 

[Kobe24]

Funny how life imitates the coli.

Edit: theory is that they really just don't want you to leave them.

What do you mean by this?

 

[ExodusNirvana]

Yep, a team that competes together won't eat together. Besides you never know how deep that jealous runs and what levels they'll stood to to become on top of you.

Some of them I play close just because the hate and jealousy keeps me going

If you aint got no haters best believe you're doing something wrong in life lol.

If nikkas don't get it in 2015...

Friendship requires 3 aspects:

1. Does your friend uplift you as person?
2. Does your friend support you in your endeavors as long as those endeavors are noble, positive and/or worthwhile?
3. Does your friend enrich your life via their company?

If your friend does not meet ALL THREE of these criteria then that person IS NOT YOUR FRIEND.

They are at best, an associate or peer...a contemporary maybe. But not your friend and not your homie. Period.

 

[HoloGraphic]

What do you mean by this?

That's why they sabotage you. They see you moving upwards and onwards in life. You're probably too worried about getting your shyt together to notice, but in their eyes their friend is moving on to where they can't follow.

 

[WaveGang]

I agree with you completely. There can only be one dude trying to really eat per group, if there are multle alphas/wannabe alphas eventually it will come out that one is better than the other and thats when problems arise. If you are richer/more handsome than a friend that likes to eat eventually he won't bring you around hoes no more. It's simple to understand really. People notice you quick if you are trying to eat, and they will do anything to stop you. Ive had way too many bad experiences with jelous friends and Im not just talking with girls. Ive notice once you start winning in life people start saying spiteful things to you or doing spiteful things.

I play them close from far tbh. NEVER BURN BRIDGES... Nah man everyone can eat, thats where sharing comes into it.

I got one friend who see me get girls all the time, this dude would bare face cock block me... Dude never puts in NO work. I just let him be. Now he's seeing the repercussions coz I got a gf and don't be getting at girls no more and he aint got the heart to lead so he in limbo. I tried to tell him thats no way to live but he aint listen but now he see.

When @KillahKamn says they dont want you to leave them, he means they dont want you to spread your wings and fly away. Just like successful people help others be successful and non successful people find glory in the failure of others.

 

[Kobe24]

That's why they sabotage you. They see you moving upwards and onwards in life. You're probably too worried about getting your shyt together to notice, but in their eyes their friend is moving on to where they can't follow.

I noticed after a long ass time, but you are right on point @KillahKamn . I had to pick this shyt up on my own but I wanted to know if anyone else though of this.

I play them close from far tbh. NEVER BURN BRIDGES... Nah man everyone can eat, thats where sharing comes into it.

I got one friend who see me get girls all the time, this dude would bare face cock block me... Dude never puts in NO work. I just let him be. Now he's seeing the repercussions coz I got a gf and don't be getting at girls no more and he aint got the heart to lead so he in limbo. I tried to tell him thats no way to live but he aint listen but now he see.

When @KillahKamn says they dont want you to leave them, he means they dont want you to spread your wings and fly away. Just like successful people help others be successful and non successful people find glory in the failure of others.

That shyt is ridiculous you know what I am talking about tho,how many dudes like that exist in the world lol. How can there be so many dudes on that envious tip?

 

[WaveGang]

If nikkas don't get it in 2015...

Friendship requires 3 aspects:

1. Does your friend uplift you as person?
2. Does your friend support you in your endeavors as long as those endeavors are noble, positive and/or worthwhile?
3. Does your friend enrich your life via their company?

If your friend does not meet ALL THREE of these criteria then that person IS NOT YOUR FRIEND.

They are at best, an associate or peer...a contemporary maybe. But not your friend and not your homie. Period.

They say if the truth don't hurt it's not the truth. This the kinda shyt you conveniently forget because if you take it for what it is you'll know how many people you have to cut off. I cut off alot of snaky dudes in the last year and my life is finally on the right track. Them dudes will hold you back without you even knowing it.

When I say I play them close from far I talk about the associates/acquaintances I don't even like them dudes around me like that. Dudes be plotting hard on your downfall mannn, shyt is real

That shyt is ridiculous you know what I am talking about tho,how many dudes like that exist in the world lol. How can there be so many dudes on that envious tip?

If I'm honest we've all got it in us a lil because envy is a human emotion.

The only difference is some dudes act on it and need to put down others to elevate themselves.

If my boy finds success I don't need to drag him down to get myself up there. I'm gonna learn and liaise with him and build my self up to get where he is with my own hard work and then we can eat at the same table.

 

[HoloGraphic]

I noticed after a long ass time, but you are right on point @KillahKamn . I had to pick this shyt up on my own but I wanted to know if anyone else though of this.


That shyt is ridiculous you know what I am talking about tho,how many dudes like that exist in the world lol. How can there be so many dudes on that envious tip?

Insecurity. It takes alot to get into a successful mindset. A lot of drive and sacrifice. Some people just don't believe they are entitled to their own happiness.

Still wish them the best tho. They will most likely come around after some time to think things over and getting their own lives together, if and when they do.

Everyone needs to take time to find their own path. It's easier when your not watching what everyone else is doing, give them space.

 

[Kobe24]

Insecurity. It takes alot to get into a successful mindset. A lot of drive and sacrifice. Some people just don't believe they are entitled to their own happiness.

Still wish them the best tho. They will most likely come around after some time to think things over and getting their own lives together, if and when they do.

Everyone needs to take time to find their own path. It's easier when your not watching what everyone else is doing, give them space.

I feel you but shyt when someone is born into a richer fam I don't hate cuz I know their pops works harder than mine and shyt is what it is.

 

[ridedolo]

Cliche but people want you to do well as long as you're not doing better than them. This shyt is a fact and Ive deaded a few friendships over the last couple years because of it. I always try to stay on my humble shyt but Ive learned that jealousy/envy is real as fukk.

 

[HoloGraphic]

I just wish these dudes could focus in on themselves.

Own who you are.

I think people are afraid of their own potential. I know I am sometimes.

But damned if you do, damned if you don't. No use hating on others when you can have the same and more.

 

[Kobe24]

I just wish these dudes could focus in on themselves.

Own who you are.

I think people are afraid of their own potential. I know I am sometimes.

But damned if you do, damned if you don't. No use hating on others when you can have the same and more.

Not everyone can have the same tho, some are born richer, more handsome, more athletic, smarter, you know? Not everyone has the same potential.