Gen Z breh: I'm 25 and have no friends

NoirDynosaur

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Bro I’m 25 too wit no friends and who give a fukk honestly

Especially is a black Man U not here to make friends u here to have some motion
Honestly bro, we all gonna end up alone in the end. It’s whatever

I didn’t start making friends until I was like 6/7. Mostly keep to myself. Entertained myself drawing pictures. My issue was being hella quiet and shy af.

It took years for me to build a social circle. Had to break out my shell.

I learn that people will always disappoint you one way or another. Sometimes you need to be your own best friend to survive in this cold world. No one will have your back like yourself.
 

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I think a lot has to do with social media for gen z….

Prior generations we had to go outside, we met up on basketball courts, clubs, just hanging around each other in the neighborhood because we didn’t have the technology that the younger generation have today.

With video games, social media/phones, the communication in the outside world in terms of face to face is gone
Yeah we was the last generation to experience life before the digital age.

Technology is a curse and a blessing. We have more access to information at our fingers. Socially, we are being disconnected as a species.
 

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I think a lot has to do with social media for gen z….

Prior generations we had to go outside, we met up on basketball courts, clubs, just hanging around each other in the neighborhood because we didn’t have the technology that the younger generation have today.

With video games, social media/phones, the communication in the outside world in terms of face to face is gone
When multiplayer became online instead of split screen, along of bonding time(nh) got killed off. Especially them teenage years.
 

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I'm 27 and in the same position, but it's different for me. Everytime I've put myself out there being willing and open to making friends, people just didn't care. I was... tolerated more than appreciated. I got tired of asking mufuggas what the play was and getting little to no response so I said fucc em. People gotta show me they wanna kick it with me now, if not I'll mob by myself. I already go to bars/breweries alone so I'm gucci.

:yeshrug:
 

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Human beings were not designed to socialize with other human beings through an electronic screen..

99.999% of human history saw interaction between people face to face. We are hardwired for that, not the new way.

The last couple of decades has been a total change, where socializing is all online, but human intimacy and interaction is necessary to become a health adult.
These 100% online kids are going to be confused when they hit their 30s and 40s when they now need human contact
 

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That’s why I enjoy coming here.

The community aspect that’s missing in social media.

Where else can you find jokes, fukkery, knowledge and all that good shyt:pachaha:


We can have real conversations with real people.

If I ever feel lonely, I just come here to chop it up.

This is facts. I like communicating with older brehs anyways.
 

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Damn I understand your circle getting tight as you get older because I had a a crew of about ten in middle school and high school and I only have 2 close friends now but to have no friends gotta be lonely especially if you’re single
This right here. I started out in school with well over 15-20 friends but from that group I only still hang out with 2-3. I'm older but like a lot of people are saying this generation is just weird when it comes to communication face to face. They don't know how to speak up or even hold conversations a lot of the times. We had to go outside and be on our adventure shyt when I was younger and then going to your cousin or friends houses you made more friends. Sad they can't even think about anything outside of streaming and their phones to communicate.
 
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