Get married brehs...seriously

[Lweezy]

You didnt answer my first question tho breh, lets discuss

For context: I'm 23 with my own business generating great money.

And I will be inheriting equity in property & the family business when my OGs die.

Now tell me why I should get married and give away access to these resources?

Most women cant match what I bring to the table.

Women give me all the benefits of a marriage already..... Companionship.... Sex..... Home cooked meals... Emotional support..... Etc

And I have my own spot so I dont gotta be with her all day or see her every day... I can tell her ass to go home.


Now tell me whats the benefits of entering marriage?

What new benefits will I get that should convince me to allow her to have access to my cash, my house, my business?

Why should I do that? Tell me

 

[Bankroll.org]

Real shyt

 

[010101]

Depends on you..... and how you want you to be remembered...

What type of impact do you want to leave on your family, and society as well...

What type of legacy do you want to be the genesis of....

Do you want your life to read like a pamphlet of tweets or a volume of novels?

cause please believe, life is to be lived in chapters, so that a story can be told and evolve you as an entity.... gaining wisdom in the process to pass on to others who need it...

being desirous of an ultimate bachelors lifestyle is kind of weak.... and pointless.... because it only last as long as you have enough wind to keep it up..... staying in a high school mode until you're in your 40s aint the move.....it's also trite, repetitive and empty after a while... and to keep it a buck.... most of us champion that lifestyle because we're too much of a coward to put ourselves out there.... even though the reward of having a loving family can be bliss and put us on a level of living we never dreamed of........ we avoid it for the sake of not risking our hearts broken, and potentially losing some dollars that can be recouped at the end of the day..... white America and capitalism has convinced the black man to place his white American manufactured ego over the welfare and spiritual well being of not just the black community, but his own mental and emotional well being

progress in any form is not tied exclusively to the concept of marriage

I mean shyt... the fact that a wolf got sense enough to try be monogamous in its savage, natural state in the wild.....?? versus a domesticated house dog that will hump 2 bytches, a lamp, and a house shoe within one hour, yet can't survive on the streets as a stray for more than 3 days.....

which state of mind would you rather possess?

like i said i really wasn't referring to their mating habits simply to domesticated vs. natural behavior

i aim to be in the state of mind that honestly perceives reality

a relationships success is dependent on the individuals involved not marriage or any other title or concept people commonly believe to be necessary

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[Phitz]

The man said run into the eye of the storm where it's safe lol

 

[Crispy]

they is actually a good number of good women in they late 20's early 30's

they get they masters thats 6 years right there now they 24/25 already

then they move for a job

i had a bad one from florida

first she went to cincinnati then kansas city then omaha then out to the west coast were i met her

then 5 months later they sent her to austin

the best way to move up the ladder is to take all those transfers

every time she moved she got a pay raise and a promotion:qsx321:

she was getting money like a muthafuker

they out there ya just got to know where to look

 

[Field Marshall Bradley]

a relationships success is dependent on the individuals involved not marriage

You giving individual people way too much credit.... you gon learn tho....

 

[UWasntThere]

I notice that only simps & women encourage young men to get married

Real OGs that have wives, dont encourage marriage to young men

My parents told me to avoid marriage unless I run into a six-figure boss type chick

Even real OGs that are happily married, will keep it 100 with young nikkas & be like "this shyt aint for everybody... I wouldn't encourage it for everyone... It just worked for me"

Only women & simp ass nikkas encourage young men to enter marriage for no reason.

Literally no benefits.

In fact, you actually LOSE benefits.

Yall dont have our best interest in mind. Stop encouraging marriage.

Marriage is a business with a pathetic failure rate.

Honestly the majority of older guys I know are miserable in their marriages, or at the very least, wish they would have waited

 

[010101]

i can see the difference between love & dependency

i love the women in my life because it pleases me to do so not because i am trying to keep them

i am complete as an individual & i encourage the women i deal with to learn how to love beyond dependency

i know i will always have love in my life because my love starts in the mind not from emotion without reason

damn near every joint i been involved with checks in with me periodically

because the love is real it's based on me bringing light to their minds & letting them be enlightened concerning me

i understand things change but that's .1% shot i just can't find a reason to cuff

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[cheek100]

It’s true. It’s just hard to find a real one.
They exist just gotta be alert. There’s nothing for pitiful than a grown man that’s lonely.
With that said I’m still tryna figure out how and when to pop the question on my ol lady

 

[010101]

You giving individual people way too much credit.... you gon learn tho....

as long as i know myself i will prevail*

 

[Field Marshall Bradley]

i love the women in my life because it pleases me to do so not because i am trying to keep them

Pay attention to what is said here....

 

[010101]

Pay attention to what is said here....

what better reason is there¿*

 

[semicko82]

It’s true. It’s just hard to find a real one.
They exist just gotta be alert. There’s nothing for pitiful than a grown man that’s lonely.
With that said I’m still tryna figure out how and when to pop the question on my ol lady

So a man who's miserable in a relationship isnt pitiful also

 

[Henri Christophe]

Honestly the majority of older guys I know are miserable in their marriages, or at the very least, wish they would have waited

Marriage is lowkey just to give women some security or insurance.

Has nothing to do with us..... Thats just so women can feel like their man is "locked down" and "secured" Hahahahah

Without marriage & children, we can cancel women at any moment.

Thats why they want that ring.... For security.... For the courts.... For your assets & belongings

Men have the upper hand until they get married or have a child.... Then all the power is placed in the womans hand.

Me personally, I see no benefit in giving a woman any power over me.

And nobody has convinced me on why its a smart idea.

All nikkas say is "she hold you down"

"She down for you"

Women dont need marriage to "hold you down" LOL

Women will give you the wife treatment with no wedding or marriage required

Most nikkas get married and nothing changes.

Same old sex.

Same old everything.

The only thing that changed is the courts up their ass.

 

[Based Lord Zedd]

Marriage is lowkey just to give women some security or insurance.

Has nothing to do with us..... Thats just so women can feel like their man is "locked down" and "secured" Hahahahah

Without marriage & children, we can cancel women at any moment.

Thats why they want that ring.... For security.... For the courts.... For your assets & belongings

Men have the upper hand until they get married or have a child.... Then all the power is placed in the womans hand.

Me personally, I see no benefit in giving a woman any power over me.

And nobody has convinced me on why its a smart idea.

All nikkas say is "she hold you down"

"She down for you"

Women dont need marriage to "hold you down" LOL

Women will give you the wife treatment with no wedding or marriage required

Most nikkas get married and nothing changes.

Same old sex.

Same old everything.

The only thing that changed is the courts up their ass.

My parents stayed together to give me the benefit of a 2-parent home.

So I understand.

If you got kids, you basically married... But not really... But kinda.

I just really enjoy my ability to cancel a chick with no strings attached.

Like I can just tell her "fukk outta here" and hang up the phone without having to worry about anything.... No court... No kids.... Nothing.

I have the upper hand in all my interactions with women.

I cant see myself giving that up for any reason unless she got bread.

Luckily my girl doesnt trip over stupid shyt like marriage.... She already knows shes getting a Rolex instead of a ring.

I already told my girl why I'm against marriage and she couldn't say shyt but respect it.

& I tell her I dont care if she leaves me cause she wont find better

Be 23 years old buying girls Rolexs while speaking against marriage because it gives women access to your finances. What's the point of buying a girl a rolex?

You can get a girl to marry you without even giving her a ring, so why would a dude like you be buying jewelry for women you don't plan on staying with long term?

I'm not the biggest fan of marriage, especially the legal concept of marriage. But I'm even less of a fan of buying rolexs for random girls you're in a relationship with at 23.