Get married brehs...seriously

[cheek100]

So a man who's miserable in a relationship isnt pitiful also

Nah but it’s better than lonely miserable. Atleast u eating and fukking on a regular basis. That shyt matters lol.
Believe it or not fukking randoms does get old AND it’s dangerous. Get u one that cooks everyday and got some tight p*ssy. If u fuk her right she not gonna give u a lot of problems.

 

[semicko82]

Nah but it’s better than lonely miserable. Atleast u eating and fukking on a regular basis. That shyt matters lol.
Believe it or not fukking randoms does get old AND it’s dangerous. Get u one that cooks everyday and got some tight p*ssy. If u fuk her right she not gonna give u a lot of problems.

thats the reason to stay in a miserable relationship for consistent sex and cooking

 

[Henri Christophe]

Be 23 years old buying girls Rolexs while speaking against marriage because it gives women access to your finances. What's the point of buying a girl a rolex?

You can get a girl to marry you without even giving her a ring, so why would a dude like you be buying jewelry for women you don't plan on staying with long term?

I'm not the biggest fan of marriage, especially the legal concept of marriage. But I'm even less of a fan of buying rolexs for random girls you're in a relationship with at 23.

Not buying no Rolly at 23

I'll buy that shyt at 43 when I'm washed and wanna settle down.

 

[cheek100]

thats the reason to stay in a miserable relationship for consistent sex and cooking

I’m not miserable tho
I like the idea of family staying together. Plus I got kids.

 

[the bossman]

Just look at your own relationship right now, your chick prob thinks you have her back 100% but your plotting to get back with your ex

Jeezus!

 

[FromStLouis]

A man's best years are in his 50's and it's only getting better - don't let women driven publications fool you.

Stay. Away. From Marriage.

 

[wtfyomom]

that all there is? I feel sad for you if your whole life revolves around wife and kids like that, its literally the same shyt everyone else is doing, nobody or like 90percent of people feel like life has no meaning and you think doing some shyt everyone else is doing is gonna work? foh if anything once you do that, youre done, any dreams you had ? gone. you gotta support them.

 

[Based Lord Zedd]

Not buying no Rolly at 23

I'll buy that shyt at 43 when I'm washed and wanna settle down.

OK.

So what's the difference between you being 43 and buying your girl a rolex, and someone getting married?
I think we need to be more specific, I can understand hating marriage because you're worried about losing stuff in a divorce...but part of that can be controlled by not being reckless with who you choose to marry.

 

[Henri Christophe]

A man's best years are in his 50's and it's only getting better - don't let women driven publications fool you.

So true breh.

Thats when you shine the most & enjoy the fruits of your labor



Cant wait


Thats why brehs gotta stay healthy.

 

[wtfyomom]

what defines quality ? some girl who got married in early 20s cause she has no goals or was so insecure to climb the societal ladder she married the first dude she was ever serious with? the only thing worse about a girl thats older is her looks but you talking about marriage which shouldnt be based on loos anyway. if i see a girl in her 30s that is making mad money and worked her ass off to that point and just didnt have time for anything serious, shyt THATS wifey material to me. not some 20 year old that wants essentially a lifetime sugar daddy and is using her youngness to trick a nikka

 

[semicko82]

I’m not miserable tho
I like the idea of family staying together. Plus I got kids.

I'm not saying you are miserable but there are people in relationships who are

 

[wtfyomom]

breh you sound like youre in a vulnerable state. i wouldnt go near getting married right now until you come to the conclusin you dont need to and then if you actually want to , then get married, not cause youre desperate

 

[wtfyomom]

married people never gonna tell you theyre miserable, thats too much cognitive dissonance but i would say at least 80 percent are

 

[truth2you]

K......

off topic, but I can tell you were a nerd type, because you're humor screams nerdy girl. Women like you are funny, regular chicks aint that funny to me unless they are joking on somebody

I like those types. The intelligence means they are curious about things, and that means getting freaky

Don't change

 

[the bossman]

being desirous of an ultimate bachelors lifestyle is kind of weak.... and pointless.... because it only last as long as you have enough wind to keep it up..... staying in a high school mode until you're in your 40s aint the move.....it's also trite, repetitive and empty after a while... and to keep it a buck.... most of us champion that lifestyle because we're too much of a coward to put ourselves out there.... even though the reward of having a loving family can be bliss and put us on a level of living we never dreamed of........ we avoid it for the sake of not risking our hearts broken, and potentially losing some dollars that can be recouped at the end of the day..... white America and capitalism has convinced the black man to place his white American manufactured ego over the welfare and spiritual well being of not just the black community, but his own mental and emotional well being

It ultimately does depend what you want to do with your life. Some folk are just cool with living the 6 figs/6 certs/6 dimes life. No plans on having kids, traveling the world, etc. aint nothing wrong with that. You're wasting your time preaching marriage to cats on this mode.

But if you know deep down that you eventually want to make some type of major impact/difference in society or especially the black community then having a family is normally the cornerstone/foundation for that. So there comes a point where it's pointless to just keep cycling different hos in and out your life. I think once you hit your 30's and you KNOW that you want to go down the family path, then fukkin around with random broads in rotation is just counterproductive from a time/money/health standpoint. It also just forever reduces your choices in quality women. You become a little jaded if you will. Get your list of what you want/need in a woman and choose accordingly so you can move onto the bigger picture. building your legacy and the like.

Imagine Obama with all his credentials, money, etc. at 25 talkin bout 6 figs/6 certs chasin hos all day. No way it would've turned out the way it did for him