I thought you were engaged
Was been more than a year
Get married brehs...seriously
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Abstract83
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Breh u dropped so much science with this post. So many gems in here about women and life in general. I've been going thru some shyt myself. And feel lost in it. Long story that I'm not comfortable speaking on. Like I said I needed to read this.Thecoli has been a goldmine in info on how woman change from teens to young adults
I understand what you mean OP, that's what I've seen the thecoli and sohh early on, find one when you are young and a young breh did right
Got a good one by my side, she grew up in a peaceful house so she sees no reason to be tripping or formulating drama randomly
Been sick for a minute and she's traveling from new york to new jersey to make sure I'm good, knows she doesn't have to but does
No bitterness from past exes who she decided to treat right and now will hold it against everybody else, none of that bullshyt
Mine will have the longest days or the most stressful weeks and still try to cater her ability and best foot forward for me without the conscious decision to ask what is she getting in return, how she is benefiting more than I am in this situation. None of that breh. Her main focus is to do what's best for us at all times. She trust my ability, doesn't question my judgment, appreciates the small things
Even agrees that we should create our own marriage rules in the possible chance of divorce to protect not only me has a man which she's seen her uncle go through but our possible future children. Last thing our kids need are 2 parents at odds if they aren't together, you need to firm with what you want out of woman and what you'll tolerate or not. Any woman who respects you know this system is flawed against us man, if she isn't willing to work it out on paper about y'all union, dodge that bullet breh
I agree with a lot of the guys in here. A lot of woman are fronting and actions - behaviors do not mimic the likes of someone getting married. Marriage sucks especially for modern day woman sold fairy tales and lies about how it looks easy or don't have a guideline on how to handle relationship/marriage problems. They don't really want the responsibility of taking care of another adult or not having the fun they were brought upon at younger ages.
We has man are truly not hard to deal with, that let's me know nikkas in here hitting points that woman don't wanna hear
They look at the shyt like it's another wave of a relationship instead of a real union between the 2 of you. They want all the glits and glamour of marriage but not true responsibility of it.
When a woman really loves you and holds you down, man, nothing compares breh
You got to really sit down with yourself and understand what you want in a life time partner and why continuously do not seem to find those people.. our people, society needs to stop winging the shyt so much
I can't fault them either too.
So many of them are so damaged by so many different experiences or images they've seen or worshiped their entire lives but will never find proper recourse to self-heal. A lot man especially in America expecting woman who grow up finding it hard to love themselves due to society pressure to love someone else and that's the fatal flaw of it all. This shyt wasn't designed to work breh, they (corporations) use woman to destroy man resources because they are easier to train to act accord and not fight the system at hand.
let me stop rambling
How hopeless is your life to think that 30 is the finish line?
Show me where I said that in my post Cletus
I tend to agree....but whats with this shortage of women at 30...that's not some magic cut-off point. nikkas acting like they 30 and cant knock down a 25 year old...
Ya'll be on here sounding really....depressed.
I'm just saying you gotta go younger when you get to this point or else...yeah you get the unmarriables around your own age .
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But the wolf travels in a pack so the analogy still doesn't work.
You probably should switch wolf up with tiger.
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nah because a dog is a selectively bred canine descending from wolves*
how bad did you fukk up in life to not be able to pull decent women at 30?
LMFAOOOOOOOOOO
You implied it
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Redguard
Hoonding
My relatives and friends always ask me when I'm going to settle down. I look at them like
when I know most of them have been divorced at least twice, cheating on their husbands/wives, and almost all of them are struggling financially. Most of the struggle is due to their husband/wife's stupid financial choices.My relatives and friends always ask me when I'm going to settle down. I look at them like
DrBanneker
Space is the Place

Once you get some more life experience under your belt and exposure to different social circles your mindset on how you look at relationships and marriage will probably change.
Like it was mentioned earlier. The richest and most powerful families in the world dont look at marriage/relationships in the simplistic way you do. It is a very important foundational structure for them for a reason
When you begin to understand how real wealth is built and maintained you'll start to look at things differently.
I agree, especially having worked across the world and seen the elite of many different cultures. Marriage to them is as much as a transaction and a means to solidify wealth, power, and allegiance as some lovey dovey ceremony.
Next time we have a Coli topic on the Black wealth gap or the lack of intergenerational mobility, I am going to call out you "marriage is for idiots" dudes who start spouting about only WS as being the sole and only problem. Doubtless WS is a huge issue but we aren't helping ourselves by having no family level social organization. If you aren't getting married your baller money is going to your favorite charity, greedy relatives, baby mama's kids, or the State.
I wouldn't tell anyone to get married before their late 20s since they need to build a foundation, see the world, etc. though. @CorporateTrapper has at least 5-7 years before he even considers it.
Ya Sinning Mane
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this thread gon save lives one day if it hasnt already.
fukk this shyt breh
honestly yall made me realize i dont ever want kids or a wife.its all LLLLLLs
idc how you spin it
some of the shyt i read legit have me
yall have really thought of all the variables wit this shyt
i gotta cut something off and never hit again.
fukk this shyt breh
honestly yall made me realize i dont ever want kids or a wife.its all LLLLLLs
idc how you spin itsome of the shyt i read legit have me
yall have really thought of all the variables wit this shyt
i gotta cut something off and never hit again.I feel marriage is most beneficial when you're young. After a certain age, there is really no point to me, espeically once a woman has hit menopause. I've never thought I would get married in my life time anyway, and after a certain birth date, that thought solidified. I am very pro marriage though and I encourage and wish other & younger people would do it. Of course only if their spouse is worth a damn. Don't get married just to get married.