Ghosting is the reality of the modern dating world

[Londilon]

People ghost more now because everyone has become more self centered.

A person might have actually really liked the person they had ghosted but because they meet someone who they found to be better in looks, etc they ended up ghosting the first person they showed interest in.

Now usually what happens is the new person they decided to choose also ghosts them causing them to crawl back to their first choice. First choice is now over the self centered individual. Unfortunately you can't ghost your sperm out of the first choice which is why we have so many single mothers.

At the end of the day social media has gassed up everyone into thinking that the world is centered around them.

Society will end up caving in on its self within 40 years. People aren't dating, which leads to marriage so children in the future will just be raised by women with men soon becoming useless to all women outside of providing seed.

Thank feminism for today's society.

 

[root_eruditorium_org]

Some Youtube comedy sketch. The guy standing next to him have a group that does these videos. Somebody up here knows the name of their collective. I think there out of DC and Prince George's County, Maryland.

good looks my dude

 

[OGBobbyJohnson]

That is the most frightening thing about it. It can really ruin a person from ever having a deep connection with another person.

Biggest fear is becoming numb

This is where i'm at with it..unfortunately

 

[Mr Hate Coffee]

She can still block you from viewing the more intimate details of her life on fb..

But nothing is stopping them from unfriending you ...

?

Yeah but those are extra steps. The benefit to ghosting is to minimize effort. It's not foolproof obviously

 

[mcdivit85]

Sh#t is wack, especially if you're over a certain age. I did it a time or two when I was in my early 20s, but that was it. And even then, it felt wack and never did it again.

If you have just had a few text convos with someone and never met, then I can understand it. But if you've met the person and had a few dates, then that sh#t is unacceptable. Grown ups chop up game directly. So, if someone doesn't want to go out again, they just keep it real.

If I was single and in the dating game, I'd expect a woman to act like an adult of a certain age and communicate directly. Because I would do the same. That's especially the case if we've already spent some time together over a few dates.

Peace

 

[Ohene]

We can agree to disagree.

Im not scared. I just dont care

Doesn't mean it's right. I suppose a nikka with an STD should just go ahout fukking bytches raw because he doesn't care. It ain't his problem it's theirs

 

[FeloniousMonk]

I notice this happens with people you date on social media.

Ive been guilty of it and been a victim as well..

Matter fact Ive spoke up on how 'disposable' relationships are from meeting people through social media..

 

[Da King]

Lot of soft weak minded nikkas in here. If she the one she will never ghost you, second they do you know all you need to about a person and what they think of you. Online dating aka Tinder has made dating as simple as drinking water

 

[LoMax30]

Sh#t is wack, especially if you're over a certain age. I did it a time or two when I was in my early 20s, but that was it. And even then, it felt wack and never did it again.

If you have just had a few text convos with someone and never met, then I can understand it. But if you've met the person and had a few dates, then that sh#t is unacceptable. Grown ups chop up game directly. So, if someone doesn't want to go out again, they just keep it real.

If I was single and in the dating game, I'd expect a woman to act like an adult of a certain age and communicate directly. Because I would do the same. That's especially the case if we've already spent some time together over a few dates.

Peace

To make a long story short, recently I had a chick I was seeing pull a slight ghost move on me one night (she invited me to an event, when I texted her telling her I was gonna come through, she didn't reply til over an hour later and said the event was already over) The next day when I saw her I told her (in a calm way) I thought what she did was kinda shaky (she ALWAYS kept her phone on her). I guess this chick took that as me being OD. She ghosts out again and a week later she tells me "oh I can't give you what you're looking for, I'm not being fair to you, I'm so busy, yada yada" Bihhhhh, I never even told her what I was looking for as far as us dating.

Where I'm from and the era I grew up in, if you acting out of character people will tell you and it ain't about catching feelings or being confrontational. It's just about being an adult and keeping it funky with the people you rock with. This new "millennial" generation scared to chip they teeth.

 

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[General Mills]

Doesn't mean it's right. I suppose a nikka with an STD should just go ahout fukking bytches raw because he doesn't care. It ain't his problem it's theirs

You aggy breh?

Im not saying its right or fair. Im just saying what it is. I did clarify that its someone i am in a COMMITTED relationship with then thats a different scenario. But if we are just texting
.. been on a date or two. Or if we are fukk buddys

I dont owe them any explanation and they dont owe me one either

Lil buddy i smashed twice ghosted me. I was . Its her p*ssy. I dont need to know the details behind her disappearing.

 

[VFib]

She can still block you from viewing the more intimate details of her life on fb..

Or just unfriend him...

 

[The Refiner]

To make a long story short, recently I had a chick I was seeing pull a slight ghost move on me one night (she invited me to an event, when I texted her telling her I was gonna come through, she didn't reply til over an hour later and said the event was already over) The next day when I saw her I told her (in a calm way) I thought what she did was kinda shaky (she ALWAYS kept her phone on her). I guess this chick took that as me being OD. She ghosts out again and a week later she tells me "oh I can't give you what you're looking for, I'm not being fair to you, I'm so busy, yada yada" Bihhhhh, I never even told her what I was looking for as far as us dating.

Where I'm from and the era I grew up in, if you acting out of character people will tell you and it ain't about catching feelings or being confrontational. It's just about being an adult and keeping it funky with the people you rock with. This new "millennial" generation scared to chip they teeth.

There's really nothing you can do. However you express to her how poor her behavior was is gonna be an L for you. Ghosting doesn't mean you're a coward. Alot of women don't deserve the closure. It's a character issue.

Point out their behavior and they will either deny it or try to turn things around and place blame on you. Also it doesn't matter if you were calm or not. If she FEELS attacked, then that's how it was and now she has rationalized in her mind why she needs revenge on you.

 

[www.THUG.com]

It is sad what human relationships are turning into and people think it's okay too

I would never play somebody that I know has feelings for me because when the shoe is on the other foot it is not fun at all.

You get what you give out here

You're right. Once I realized that I became , I had to shut myself out of the dating world.

It was a lot of tit for tat and the cycle wasn't going to stop.

I've been ever since

 

[Ethnic Vagina Finder]

I have ADHD so I'm prone to ghosting anyone

I have a 2 week rule. If no contact is made of any kind after 2 weeks, I'm ghost.