GMB..... raise ungrateful step kids

[Steel]

How often was he beating her ass? That throws a monkey wrench in the situation

idk but I was told they would have really violent fights

 

[Steel]

So ol boy was a wife beater

maybe but losing his kids hurt more than losing his wife I feel

 

[Strapped]

Why do y'all think the story is fake , females do cheat

 

[Diondon]

3 kids

 

[NotAnFBIagent]

Because men pursue and women are pursued, women are often put in the precarious situation of deciding who is the better man. One man is always going to leave hurt.

It’s fukked up, but those are the breaks. A man is only as loyal as his options. That shyt goes for women too.

If your woman doesn’t see you as top dog, you’re gonna have a rough time.

So you're confirming it's GMB and fukk them kids

 

[semicko82]

maybe but losing his kids hurt more than losing his wife I feel

No excuse for putting his hands on her.
He should’ve left the situation if he felt a type of way

 

[colicolicoli]

If he really was whooping her ass then he deserved this wtf

 

[Umoja]

I could never call her that. She’s been nothing but kind to me. Just a messed up situation where she was dead wrong. But it also didn’t help that the ex husband gained weight and looked like Carl Winslow. Her bf came out of prison in much better shape and with a hairline

Doesn't matter if she was kind to you.

Your story is sounding more fabricated as we go along by the way. You're ticking too many of obvious boxes.

Anyway, on to my overall point. A mistake people make is assessing someone's character based on personal interactions. It is not an accurate yard stick and should not outweigh serious transgressions.

 

[Steel]

Doesn't matter if she was kind to you.

Your story is sounding more fabricated as we go along by the way. You're ticking too many of obvious boxes.

Anyway, on to my overall point. A mistake people make is assessing someone's character based on personal interactions. It is not an accurate yard stick and should not outweigh serious transgressions.

She cheated........ I’ve cheated in the past too. How could I judge her for the very same things I’ve done. It is what it is.

This is very true unfortunately. The sisters on the other hand aren’t good people . They legit don’t care. I found it very odd they called him by his first name and never dad

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[Steel]

If he really was whooping her ass then he deserved this wtf

Yeah I agree. Idk the extent but he did do damage to her when he threw her. He’s a big dude too

 

[lespaulultra3]

I can believe this. I have a homie that has to give his ex wife half his military retirement until the day SHE dies.

 

[International S.]

I disagree about the car. On one hand it’s an underhanded gift but dude was locked and wanted to gift his BM something for appreciation . On the other hand my pride wouldn’t allow me to be cool with it

He owes dude the appreciation for raising his children in a stable home
BM isn't dude's responsibility at that point...thats another man's wife, you don't buy another man's wife gifts of any kind
she wasn't alone the entire time he was locked away...jumped under the wing of someone who could provide when he couldn't

that type of disrespect leads to wounding
a real nikka would have driven the car to him and advised him to stick to providing for his kids...
don't buy my bytch nothing

 

[Mastamimd]

Because men pursue and women are pursued, women are often put in the precarious situation of deciding who is the better man. One man is always going to leave hurt.

It’s fukked up, but those are the breaks. A man is only as loyal as his options. That shyt goes for women too.

If your woman doesn’t see you as top dog, you’re gonna have a rough time.

Part of the reason I gave up altogether

I'd rather not play the game at all than play the game and be the loser...too many other things to enjoy in life outside of romance

 

[tgu]

I feel like I need to tell the story of my exes family it’s semi long and fukkkery filled.

Ok my exes mother is a very sweet lady. But she did do her ex husband foul. She met her ex husband after she already had 3 kids all girls. Hard working dude. Together they had 1 more daughter (my ex).

Her Baby father ended up doing hard time for attempting murder and robbery. He never had much interaction with his kids because he was in jail most of their childhood and college years. So the ex husband basically raised all the kids from toddlers through college even payed for two weddings.

Things turned left when the baby father (biological father) was released from prison. His family owned a construction business and he worked for them and became a pretty successful contractor. He started reaching out to his kids to begin a relationship. He started reaching out to his BM.

One day the ex husband comes home and finds a brand new bmw in his driveway with a bow on it. Baby father bought his wife a brand new car. They argued about it because he thought it was out of line but she argued back by saying “it was a gift for raising his kids” and called him “insecure”.

A couple weeks go by and he finds out his wife has been going to dinners with her baby father. Once again they argue she calls him insecure. Until one night dude comes home from a night shift and his wife isn’t home. He had her location on his phone and she’s in a hotel downtown. She comes home, they argue and she confesses she’s been sleeping with her baby father. They get into a heated argument and he threw her across the room.

She called the police and he was locked for domestic violence .

Now the kids are all upset about it because he’s a man who put hands on their mother supposedly. They all yapping and telling the mom she need to leave him etc.

Now ex husband can’t go back to his house, his step kids and his blood daughter (my ex) are refusing to talk to him. The wife files for divorce and basically is given the house and brehs military retirement.

The Baby Father then moves into ex husbands house Smashing his now ex wife and hanging out with his kids.

The second youngest daughter is getting married. She doesn’t invite him to the wedding. This is the same daughter he put through college and raised since she could walk. That one really hurt Breh. I was at the wedding and her Bio father walked her down the aisle

Now the ex husband only has contact with his biological daughter and me. It even took a lot of convincing from me to get my gf to speak with her father who now lives alone in a one bedroom apartment. I went over there one day with her and he broke down in tears. He spent the last thirty years of his life building a family that abandoned him. Spent hundreds of thousands he won’t recoup and they won’t allow him to see grandkids.
Breh caught covid and was on his deathbed they still ain’t call him .

Now I’m not gonna lie the bio pops is a cool dude for an ex felon. He’s also paid because of family business. He’s making up for lost time and is always on the go. Him and his BM always taking trips and buying luxury stuff her ex husband couldn’t afford. His kids love him too. But I could never shake how bad I felt fit the ex husband. He’s become a recluse and a hoarder now. I had to lend him some money and he was too ashamed to ask His daughter. This took place during the 6 1/2 years we were together. He also did a lot of SIMP shyt to try to win her back.

GMB and wife single moms brehs.

How long did you stay with your gf after finding this out?!? This would’ve been a wrap for me

 

[MikelArteta]

It’s no amount of sex is worth taking care of someone else’s kids
Don’t care good how the female looks
Smashing buddy and that’s it

yup only kids i'd ever take care off that I did not create are my nieces and nephew if God forbid something happens to their parents.

The risks are not worth it at all