Guy Explains Why Men and Women Can't Be Friends

[buzzkill]

My only female friends are my coworkers and women my boys are messing with/dating or someone im doing business with

Imagine a girl friendzoning me and me going along with it

 

[number21]

You don’t have to be a simp and change the bytches oil and do each other’s nails. Just be cool with the chick and fukk when it’s your turn

Lol nah breh. Being cool equals giving up my time and energy for free until the nikkas she really wants toss her aside and/or pay her no mind.

We good on that.

 

[skeetsinternal]

Has your relationship together always been 100% platonic?

Yea. Strictly, can't even see Imani in any other light. In high school she was branded a whore and slut because seniors used to toss that and dudes always pushing up. We got paired up in science class. When I met her I wasn't like eww this ho or tried to push up. I talked to her regular and found we had alot in common plus she a talker, while I'm a listener. Good combo

 

[Spectre]

Again you are talking about dating. The "getting to know each other" part is still dating.

Do ya'll even know women outside trying to smash?

Sigh never mind. Maybe I'm not breaking it down right.

But yeah guys often have platonic female friends. Helps to understand things from a different perspective.

 

[GhettoTeK]

True statement, men always end up liking me.

 

[GhettoTeK]

i got some attractive females potnas i never thought about smashin...

birds of a feather flock together..n i been thru all their homegirls... she will tell str8 up he aint shyt... they dont listen... i will @skeetsinternal them hoes with my texttalk numbers wreck em disappear with a new account...

Why go m.i.a

 

[GhettoTeK]

Idk what you are talking about. One of my best friends is a man. He is my friend. He has a wife and all. I do respect his relationship because that is what friends do. It's been strictly platonic for 10+ years.

Ya'll keep confusing being sidelined for friendship...which is odd

Are you cool with the wife?

 

[Zime]

Only be friends with women if you have no problem attracting other women / getting p*ssy if not then don't do it.

 

[Ahadi]

KS must be putting all his ppl on Worldstar

 

[Deuterion]

People can acknowledge beauty and sexiness in another person without acting on it

What level of thirstbuckets are yall that you cant function in the real world without trying to fukk or constantly thinking about fukking the other individual

It’s about options, if it’s Saturday night and I have to choose between:

Option A: have dinner with an attractive, funny, and intelligent girl who doesn’t like me romantically
Option B: have dinner with an attractive, funny, and intelligent girl that wants to jump my bones after we eat

I’m choosing Option B. If Option A isn’t helping me make money or improve my status/business/work then there is no reason for us to hang out because Option B gives me everything she does PLUS sex.

‘Women want to craft the narrative that men who don’t want platonic friendships are immature but really it’s just that the value proposition just ain’t there Your personality ain’t unique, I can find a chick just likes you and we’ll laugh giggle and dance but she’ll also give me a blow job in the car...go solicit attention from the dude you wanna smash...leave me alone.

 

[Rawtid]

If the two aren’t attracted to one another, it’s certainly possible. True male/female friendships are the best.

 

[Jeshaman]

I personally cannot. And no, I don't hate women and I can control my lust, but, when I did have good female friends found it exhausting. I wish people could stop saying that the only who don't want close female friends are incels or can't control their lust.

 

[Easy-E]

These dam convos always got the same way: men are pigs who think women are vaginas that walk, women see the true value in men

 

[Nigerianwonder]

Women have no problem being friends with the opposite sex

This is why..

Lol. Many women say they want guy friends but a lot just want everything they get from a boyfriend but no sex. If she is willing to do something for you that is not convenient for her and it doesn’t benefit her in anyway then she’s definitely a friend. (Helping you with a presentation, picking you up from the airport, advice, etc.)

But if she just wants a dude to give her advice, attention, and someone to go to movies with without giving anything in return she’s no different than dudes who pretend to be friends.

Very rarely is a friendship with a woman mutually beneficial or 50/50. These guys are normally still paying for their female "friends when they go out or get drinks etc. 90% of the time these guys are catering to the needs of the female friend in their friendship and are simps. A woman won't be friends with a guy she isn't attracted to unless the relationship benefits her more.

And there is a big difference between friends and acquaintance. Acquaintances you just see in passing and special events or group events here and there. Nothing wrong with female acquaintances cause there is a clear separation.

The only exception to the to the female friend rule is if you grew up as kids together.

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

1. I said people are immature in the post you quoted

2. It's usually men who claim they can't be friends with women because they can't see past their dikks. Women have no problem being friends with the opposite sex

3. Please claim your inability to see women as anything but sex objects and stop trying to put that on humanity. There are plenty men with female friends; you just aren't one of them

4. Yes it's a maturity issue. People including women have a lot to give outside of sex.

5. The sentence condoning being a liar and manipulating in order to get sex is creepy

Women have no problem being with friends with the opposite sex?

Dang near every woman friend I've had has tried me at some point (not all but a HUGE chunk).