Oh,we love the proverbs 31 aura of H.E.R and would never steer her down that path. I would hope thats not the demographic she is after.
Shes an RNB artist,you can have fake relationships within your music if its believable. And maybe her problem is authenticity due to her persona.
Im more focused on the music. Talent may not sell as much as toxicity. But it doesnt seem like shes even Jazmine Sullivan in stature. Jazmine Sullivan never feels "forced". She pops up,drops a banger,sings her ass off. People are so happy to see her make a return,then she dissapears for another 5 years.
I think if your really talented,and dont wanna involve yourself with the bullshyt of the business,that should be the goal. But if H.E.R dissapeared for 5 years I might not notice she was misisng. And I probably wouldnt be estatic when she got back. I think her music is good,but shes no Alicia Keys on that front.