That’s what I was thinking.
Had a good date but now she not seeing me where did I go wrong brehs?
Json
Superstar
I don't know brehs shyt has me fukked up.
Met this broad on POF she messaged me and she cute so we decided to meet for drinks after work. I was funny and charming the whole time and she was digging the kid
Get to the end of the date we outside I ask her if she kiss dudes on the first date she say yes so we do that then we go seperate ways
She call me later asking me to come to karaoke with her friends so I'm like alright
Meet up with her, have a couple drinks, get up there and sing kiss from a rose by seal, the usual
So I had to work the next day so I had to leave right after singing. We hug and I go.
So then we make a date for Wednesday but she cancels that day saying she sick. Also she not texting me as much and she close her account on POF. I ask her if she still interested and she says yes but she doesn't feel like she should have to explain myself to me after one date and she'll text me when she's feeling better to reschedule. We haven't talked in 6 days now
What should I do. I don't get it
The person who cancels should always suggest a makeup date or time.
A good couple of dates isn't the same as we need to be in some kind of relationship. She had a good time. You a good dude.
Keep it moving.
LeftCoast
All Star
you should of stayed till karaoke was over and tried to smash.
p*ssy>sleep
p*ssy>sleep
DJ Paul's Arm
Veteran
She used you like a debit card on the firsrt date and on the second, used you as her fool for her and her friends entertainment.
You met her on POF. You should of treated her like shyt and let it be known you just trying to pump and dump. Not find your soulmate on a dating site. Smh
You met her on POF. You should of treated her like shyt and let it be known you just trying to pump and dump. Not find your soulmate on a dating site. Smh
This. You meet people after smashing, brehs.
Man y’all niccas are the worst.
DJ Paul's Arm
Veteran
OP was like carlton in front of strangers.
I had no idea what that song was but just heard it on Spotify. He indeed played himself. Not with the homegirls around too. They probably ranked her something decent and that was that.That karaoke night may have done it
You say you sang Kiss from a Rose?
She probably liked him too but getting the approval from the squad prior to fukking is reserved for special n-words.
the cac mamba
Veteran
maybe she's not into gimps 
Happens to the best of us I've never experienced these life ending rejections ppl talk about but I've blocked myself a few times when I was younger had a neighbor that had got divorced tall German or Russian nice body etc i was at mailbox waiting for check from dollar tree it wasn't there yet so I yell "its fukking empty!" It was a complex so it's like 10 boxes ..she walks up while I'm still spazzing out and says "my bed is empty" my dumb ass says whatever like yoooo my.bed.is.empty I don't get easy lay ups like that anymore lol just crash the boards when I can
Flywin Lannister
Superstar
She ain't had a boyfriend in 3 years breh. She cool but very career driven and put dating aside. I took it as a compliment cuz she closed her account after she found me
But now I'm not sure
DELUSIONAL
Trying to turn a curve into a self-compliment
SHE DOESN'T CARE. WHY WOULD YOU?
1. 'Do you kiss men on the first date' this is bytch shyt. You kiss her if she's been throwing 11,000 signs that she wants that..... CONFIDENCE. You don't ask permission (for clarity, if she's thrown zero signs and you'll do that, get ready for the Summer Jam Screen)
2. She invited you to join her friends 'I'd love to but I can't make it, raincheck - I'll let you know'. Was the only correct answer. Why? Because she wanted to see if she says jump that you ask how high. She tested you, you failed like a bytch. You have a life, you have other friends, you maybe have other girls - get her thinking. Don't be a video game she walks through on super easy. So you were all eager like a puppy and she ended it.
3. WHO FUKKING CARES ABOUT HER? She's nobody. You should be the center of your universe, not some thot. Lonely? Start doing shyt you love, start meeting people who love the same things you love. Take it from there.
Messed up asking if she kiss...
Should've tried to smash after the first date..this is 2018 ..that take it slow and treat em like a lady don't work with majority of these broads...
Even then that wasn't a dealbreaker but that karaoke shyt was a bad move
You ain't giving the story but I just know her friends were fukking your game all up... You gotta do a good job of giving your date attention but also keeping the friends slightly engaged...then you gotta know how to handle shyt when the convo goes left....chicks are wolves. All this time they're evaluating you..were you dominating the conversation?
Were you letting her friends dominate the conversation and distract you while you were talking to her.
Were you feeling on the booty on that second date
..but second I'm letting I know you're mine and I'm going to fukk...she'll give me signals if I'm being too handsy.
Should've tried to smash after the first date..this is 2018 ..that take it slow and treat em like a lady don't work with majority of these broads...
Even then that wasn't a dealbreaker but that karaoke shyt was a bad move
You ain't giving the story but I just know her friends were fukking your game all up... You gotta do a good job of giving your date attention but also keeping the friends slightly engaged...then you gotta know how to handle shyt when the convo goes left....chicks are wolves. All this time they're evaluating you..were you dominating the conversation?
Were you letting her friends dominate the conversation and distract you while you were talking to her.
Were you feeling on the booty on that second date
..but second I'm letting I know you're mine and I'm going to fukk...she'll give me signals if I'm being too handsy.
Yea that's when you lie and make up shyt like
DELUSIONAL
Trying to turn a curve into a self-compliment
SHE DOESN'T CARE. WHY WOULD YOU?
1. 'Do you kiss men on the first date' this is bytch shyt. You kiss her if she's been throwing 11,000 signs that she wants that..... CONFIDENCE. You don't ask permission (for clarity, if she's thrown zero signs and you'll do that, get ready for the Summer Jam Screen)
2. She invited you to join her friends 'I'd love to but I can't make it, raincheck - I'll let you know'. Was the only correct answer. Why? Because she wanted to see if she says jump that you ask how high. She tested you, you failed like a bytch. You have a life, you have other friends, you maybe have other girls - get her thinking. Don't be a video game she walks through on super easy. So you were all eager like a puppy and she ended it.
3. WHO FUKKING CARES ABOUT HER? She's nobody. You should be the center of your universe, not some thot. Lonely? Start doing shyt you love, start meeting people who love the same things you love. Take it from there.
"Nah I gotta train..I got a jiu jitsu class" or some shyt that makes you look good.
I don't know brehs shyt has me fukked up.
Met this broad on POF she messaged me and she cute so we decided to meet for drinks after work. I was funny and charming the whole time and she was digging the kid
Get to the end of the date we outside I ask her if she kiss dudes on the first date she say yes so we do that then we go seperate ways
She call me later asking me to come to karaoke with her friends so I'm like alright
Meet up with her, have a couple drinks, get up there and sing kiss from a rose by seal, the usual
So I had to work the next day so I had to leave right after singing. We hug and I go.
So then we make a date for Wednesday but she cancels that day saying she sick. Also she not texting me as much and she close her account on POF. I ask her if she still interested and she says yes but she doesn't feel like she should have to explain myself to me after one date and she'll text me when she's feeling better to reschedule. We haven't talked in 6 days now
What should I do. I don't get it
You were suppose to fukk on the first date
...and dont EVER ask to kiss a girl...
...tf wrong with you?