Had a good date but now she not seeing me where did I go wrong brehs?

Piff Perkins

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Nah I disagree with these takes. She invited him to do karaoke. Meaning she wanted to do it. The act of the OP singing in of itself wasn't what killed this thing. Maybe she wasn't feeling your vibe, maybe she thought you didn't seem like a good fit, who knows.

But the thing that isn't being discussed: her friends were with her. Meaning she had multiple chicks judging you and whispering in her ear about whether you were cute or nah, what your dikk might be like, criticizing your singing, complimenting you (thus making her jealous potentially), etc.
 

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Just a tip OP. Some women date just to go out. The positive of working with mostly women is that you get put up on game just by letting them talk. One of my coworkers said verbatim that there are guys she dates that she has no intention of being serious with or marrying. Keep your expectations low and you'll never be disappointed when things go South.
 

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I had no idea what that song was but just heard it on Spotify. He indeed played himself. Not with the homegirls around too. They probably ranked her something decent and that was that.

She probably liked him too but getting the approval from the squad prior to fukking is reserved for special n-words.
:dwillhuh: you never heard "Kiss from a Rose"
 

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I don't know brehs shyt has me fukked up.

Met this broad on POF she messaged me and she cute so we decided to meet for drinks after work. I was funny and charming the whole time and she was digging the kid :jawalrus:

Get to the end of the date we outside I ask her if she kiss dudes on the first date she say yes so we do that then we go seperate ways

She call me later asking me to come to karaoke with her friends so I'm like alright :obama:

Meet up with her, have a couple drinks, get up there and sing kiss from a rose by seal, the usual :yeshrug:

So I had to work the next day so I had to leave right after singing. We hug and I go.

So then we make a date for Wednesday but she cancels that day saying she sick. Also she not texting me as much and she close her account on POF. I ask her if she still interested and she says yes but she doesn't feel like she should have to explain myself to me after one date and she'll text me when she's feeling better to reschedule. We haven't talked in 6 days now :francis:

What should I do. I don't get it :patrice:
Another guy got her. U getting women on a site she got many many options.
 
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You come off kinda thirsty breh...

Asking her if she kisses dudes on the first date

And asking her if she still interested was signs to her that you might be too clingy

Even though you have good intentions and probably a nice guy

This is a little too much for your typical POF woman who is more comfortable with a dysfunctional dude

You should have got drunk.....then claim you left your wallet forcing her to pay for drinks

And make passes at her girlfriends

And avoid contact with her for a few days

I guarantee you she would be calling you a third date....this time in her BEDROOM
:steviej:


Women are intrigued by azzholes

And annoyed by nice guys
 

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She ain't had a boyfriend in 3 years breh. She cool but very career driven and put dating aside. I took it as a compliment cuz she closed her account after she found me :myman:

But now I'm not sure :patrice:

She didn't close her account, she blocked you breh :francis:
On your computer copy the link to her page then logout. Paste the link in your browser and see if her page pulls up. If it does that means she blocked your ass :lolbron:
 

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Nah I disagree with these takes. She invited him to do karaoke. Meaning she wanted to do it. The act of the OP singing in of itself wasn't what killed this thing. Maybe she wasn't feeling your vibe, maybe she thought you didn't seem like a good fit, who knows.

But the thing that isn't being discussed: her friends were with her. Meaning she had multiple chicks judging you and whispering in her ear about whether you were cute or nah, what your dikk might be like, criticizing your singing, complimenting you (thus making her jealous potentially), etc.

Breh, trust me on this, never do what the op did.
 

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Nah I disagree with these takes. She invited him to do karaoke. Meaning she wanted to do it. The act of the OP singing in of itself wasn't what killed this thing. Maybe she wasn't feeling your vibe, maybe she thought you didn't seem like a good fit, who knows.

But the thing that isn't being discussed: her friends were with her. Meaning she had multiple chicks judging you and whispering in her ear about whether you were cute or nah, what your dikk might be like, criticizing your singing, complimenting you (thus making her jealous potentially), etc.
The paramount lesson for OP to learn here is you dont chase after hoes. Asking them if they're still interested, asking them why they dont talk to you, all that other sucker shyt. If they're interested they'll show it. Delete that number and just move on breh
 
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