Had a good date but now she not seeing me where did I go wrong brehs?

[Ricardo Mercylago]

But the thing that isn't being discussed: her friends were with her. Meaning she had multiple chicks judging you and whispering in her ear about whether you were cute or nah, what your dikk might be like, criticizing your singing, complimenting you (thus making her jealous potentially), etc.

This is what happened.. if you dont impress her friends its over. Happened to me on new yrs. Ran into a girl at the club that i had went on one date w then fell outta contact and she was feelin the kid. Dancing all over me and shyt. Thought i was good money until she introduced me to her friends and they were straight bytches to me.

I texted her the next day but she slowly ghosted me


I feel her tho. If my friends dont think my girl is bad then thats an L

 

[Lweezy]

You believed this

There is no such thing as a single woman..
It’s always another breh in her orbit..
It’s the “friend”..
Ex..
The breh she really wants..
nikkas that just entertain her..
I know Coli women will say otherwise but I’ve been number 4

 

[Truefan31]

I don't know brehs shyt has me fukked up.

Met this broad on POF she messaged me and she cute so we decided to meet for drinks after work. I was funny and charming the whole time and she was digging the kid

Get to the end of the date we outside I ask her if she kiss dudes on the first date she say yes so we do that then we go seperate ways

She call me later asking me to come to karaoke with her friends so I'm like alright

Meet up with her, have a couple drinks, get up there and sing kiss from a rose by seal, the usual

So I had to work the next day so I had to leave right after singing. We hug and I go.

So then we make a date for Wednesday but she cancels that day saying she sick. Also she not texting me as much and she close her account on POF. I ask her if she still interested and she says yes but she doesn't feel like she should have to explain myself to me after one date and she'll text me when she's feeling better to reschedule. We haven't talked in 6 days now

What should I do. I don't get it

 

[semicko82]

You come off kinda thirsty breh...

Asking her if she kisses dudes on the first date

And asking her if she still interested was signs to her that you might be too clingy

Even though you have good intentions and probably a nice guy

This is a little too much for your typical POF woman who is more comfortable with a dysfunctional dude

You should have got drunk.....then claim you left your wallet forcing her to pay for drinks

And make passes at her girlfriends

And avoid contact with her for a few days

I guarantee you she would be calling you a third date....this time in her BEDROOM



Women are intrigued by azzholes

And annoyed by nice guys

This OP you came off to clingy, you don't exactly have to be an A hole but you have to be aloof.

 

[Max.]

She found someone better/ex bf or her friends roasted u when u left

 

[Max.]

Same shyt kinda happened to me months ago

Met this white bytch off pof...always workn and going to the gym...time was kinda limited...she always said if any guy brings up sex asap she deletes them....

Neways it took 3 weeks to meet ( i was fukkn other hoes)

We meeet up see a movie n have dinner...everything seemed fine..gave her. Hug at her car . Went home n slept...

Texted the next day fine...than i gave her the 3 day aka see if she texts me

She didnt....bout a week later i txt her so yeah are u even interested?

She said ur a nice guy but i dont think we woulf be good romantically

Sumtimes u take a L... but shes 35 with no kids drinkn wine n keeps getn flaked on​

 

[semicko82]

Somebody explain the going out on a date thing when you first meet somebody on a dating app. That reeks of simping.

 

[knickscity]

Somebody explain the going out on a date thing when you first meet somebody on a dating app. That reeks of simping.

Could be a meet at the park. That shyt free.

 

[Mirin4rmfar]

It's POF, these women will have tons of dates lined up or they getting ran through by dudes who never cuff them. Men on dating sites will be at a disadvantage.

 

[semicko82]

Could be a meet at the park. That shyt free.

Yea I don't get the movie and dinner treatment for somebody you just met.

 

[CoryMack]

I don't know brehs shyt has me fukked up.

Met this broad on POF she messaged me and she cute so we decided to meet for drinks after work. I was funny and charming the whole time and she was digging the kid

Get to the end of the date we outside I ask her if she kiss dudes on the first date she say yes so we do that then we go seperate ways

She call me later asking me to come to karaoke with her friends so I'm like alright

Meet up with her, have a couple drinks, get up there and sing kiss from a rose by seal, the usual

So I had to work the next day so I had to leave right after singing. We hug and I go.

So then we make a date for Wednesday but she cancels that day saying she sick. Also she not texting me as much and she close her account on POF. I ask her if she still interested and she says yes but she doesn't feel like she should have to explain myself to me after one date and she'll text me when she's feeling better to reschedule. We haven't talked in 6 days now

What should I do. I don't get it

Shoulda turned down the karaoke bullshyt. She probably thought you looked real lame up there singing kiss of a rose in front of people, even though she invited you.

 

[audemarzz]

Don't even think about it bruh that's were we fukk up, trying to think about why a woman did what she did . . .waste of time . .

In my youth I use to ask bytches straight up "why" . . Still no logical responses . .had some just flat out say "ionno" which may have been the most legit response I've ever gotten.

 

[getmoney310cpt]

never and I mean NEVER meet a bytch friends BEFORE you fukk...her friends might not see what she see in you and think you ugly, lame etc and they will voice that opinion to the shorty you want cause bytches are ruthless....if you already fukked and you put it down then you meet the friends and they not feeling you the bytch wont care cause she know what you can do...

 

[Family Lives Matter]

Somebody explain the going out on a date thing when you first meet somebody on a dating app. That reeks of simping.

Yea I don't get the movie and dinner treatment for somebody you just met.

Nothing wrong with movie and dinner.

If they are paying there half

 

[Killer Instinct]

She call me later asking me to come to karaoke with her friends so I'm like alright

Her friends didn't sign off on you. Guaranteed they said you were goofy, lame, and/or ugly. Women are different than men in that regard. They want to have a guy their friends and others find desirable. If the homegirls don't give him the stamp, she disconnects. Men couldn't care less. They'll introduce her to the boys and listen to their opinions but he's still going to get that nut and/or date her regardless of whether or not you think she's too fat, not curvy enough, lame, or ugly. Young women are very susceptible to this behavior so I won't clown you. You most definitely shouldn't have been asking for kisses, though.