Hard On H0ES Movement. i need advice

PeridotPuss

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@NerdBird run. You aren't prepared. She has already emotionally fukked with you to the point you made this thread. :francis:

You're outmatched, she talked to you in your face about another dude, she comes into your home when she wants, sleeps in your bed if she wants, and sets the pace and termsof the relationship. She's very much like me :mjlol: but she should kno better than to play with you.

You're a band aid boo. You'd be wise to just ghost, if you don't only person who gonna end up mad and hurt is you :yeshrug:
 

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I need to to come to the coli for more advise. I also forgot to mention she has a really good job. Now that I have finished crying over a slut I intend on using her because she spoils me. Thoughts? No trolling either this is real life.

You're trying to retaliate because you're not in control.

If you have to ask strangers for validation on "using" someone you not really bout that life:mjlol: just stop

And don't try to win these fukkboys approval by switching up. Most of them TALK a lot shyt but that's because it's men around, same nikkas that's HOH be sitting in a bytch face like :mjcry:

Stay real.
 

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This woman has no character. Under no circumstances should a woman be in another man's bed while in a relationship. Do not puruse a relationship with her. Knowin' the type of woman you're pursuin', you can only blame yourself when she's laid up with the next man under similar circumstances.
From a FEMALE perspective: Take it slow but don't be hard on her and don't view her as a hoe. Her ex was probably an a$$hole and she was slowly coming to that realization over the past months. That happens to all of us. But, I would take it slow simply because it's never good to be a rebound person. Just give your friendship time to grow. Don't allow her over at 3am anymore. See her out on actual dates but not everytime she asks. Give it time. Give her time to heal but keep the lines open for the friendship between you to bloom. If it's meant to be for the both of you, you will come together strong. Don't fukk her too early because she's open and raw right now and that could end badly. And, plus you like her so you want to make sure she's over the ex and all about you.
I'm curious. What is your opinion on her sleepin' in another man's bed while in a relationship? Is that someone that should be pursued, even slowly, by the man she was layin' up with?
 

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This chick sounds sketchy

You gotta face the facts here: you're her rebound guy and that shyt almost never works out.

If the sex is good, keep her as a booty call but whatever you do DO NOT CATCH FEELINGS no matter how well you guys vibe together
:ufdup:

If the sex isn't awesome, throw her to the bushes and move on
 

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@wickedsm do you think this dude is trolling or legit?
His original post might have been kinda legit.
Whenver he came with the "I need the coli to give me more advice. Oh plus also this hoe is paid not joking really serious boy scouts honor, so paid brehs"
Thats where I had to let it go
:stopitslime:
 

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You're trying to retaliate because you're not in control.

If you have to ask strangers for validation on "using" someone you not really bout that life:mjlol: just stop

And don't try to win these fukkboys approval by switching up. Most of them TALK a lot shyt but that's because it's men around, same nikkas that's HOH be sitting in a bytch face like :mjcry:

Stay real.
:leostare:
 

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Ftr assuming this first post was true -which I did when I respnded.

I need to really emphasize as a woman thats been fukking longer than alot of yall have been alive (milfy swag)
This girl in the story sounds like she aint shyt. He sounds nieve. This is real life. The reverse happens often too.
To a great extent I think its good to experience the exact opposite of what you want so you can recognize what you do want and what you don't want. What you need.
The key is to not become a bitter bytch or a bitter ass nikka.learn from that shyt and move on. If somebody male or female tells you they never got played or got their feelings hurt better than 99x out of 100 theyre lying
:francis:
 

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You're trying to retaliate because you're not in control.

If you have to ask strangers for validation on "using" someone you not really bout that life:mjlol: just stop

And don't try to win these fukkboys approval by switching up. Most of them TALK a lot shyt but that's because it's men around, same nikkas that's HOH be sitting in a bytch face like :mjcry:

Stay real.
That visual:mjlol:
 

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His original post might have been kinda legit.
Whenver he came with the "I need the coli to give me more advice. Oh plus also this hoe is paid not joking really serious boy scouts honor, so paid brehs"
Thats where I had to let it go
:stopitslime:

Yeah it seem like the second part is where he was trying to save face...no need most of us have been there..well NOT there per say..or anywhere in that vicinity but rebound situations are real and thats what it seems like she was after or maybe she looks at him like the back up plan:ohhh:
 
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