Harvard Study: Biggest Factor for Divorce is Husband's Employment Status

[General Mills]

its a cold world brehs.



Winter is coming for any breh who is engaged.

 

[BrandonBanks]

"Marriage isn't for everybody" True, I agree with the overall sentiment. But what doesn't make sense to me is when a nikka with a baby mama says this. marriage is too much of a commitment, but having kids with the bytch wasn't?

If I knew for a fact that I didn't want to get married, then I also wouldn't have kids. Purposely bringing kids into the world that you now you won't be there to raise? Yeah there's some cases where the dad is raising the kids but we all know most of the time it's the mother.

Point being, I think it's smart-dumb nikka logic when nikkas with baby mamas say "Marriage ain't for me bro. Too big of a commitment" but doesn't view having kids with somebody as a commitment.

"She might take some of my money in a divorce" nikka how is paying child support for 18 years better?? She taking your money right now for your kids

If you're worried about some wife you don't even have yet "taking half" and subsequently ending up in the poorhouse, I got news for you homie, you arent doing nearly as well as you probably think you are, your focus needs to be on getting your money up so high that a bytch possibly divorcing you wouldn't even make u blink. now use the time u are about to take to quote me and argue to start getting your cake up

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Where did I say that's the case with all these marriages?

I fukkin agreed with u and u still arguing

I clearly stated where I'm coming from. It's one thing to lose interest in a bum anf something totally different to give up on someone because they're struggling at the moment



U are planning a future marriage with someone who as of right now is a complete stranger

This isn't an argument. This is you being emotional.

"Giving up" is relative. My ex could say I gave up on him. Again it's about factors and prospective. And I didn't "lose interest." I lived with this person. My partner wanted to be a child. Big difference.

It's real easy to judge someone from the outside looking in.

 

[BrandonBanks]

Some of u can't act like all married men are losing

Married men on average have a longer life span (usually partly due to wives encouraging or even forcing husband to go to the doctor more often than we normally would) Why Married Men Live Longer Than Single Men - HRFnd

Married men are more likely to be granted promotions and raises than unmarried men (not saying unmarried men never get promoted, of course they do, but on Average, married men get promoted more) https://www.washingtonpost.com/news...-work-harder-and-smarter-and-make-more-money/

Also if a married man's wife works, that's more income in his household than it would be if he was single

If he has kids, in a 2 parent household, they have a better chance of doing well in society than if they are raised fatherless by a single mother, and are generally better off financially, statistically

That's just a few

 

[JQ Legend]

This isn't an argument. This is you being emotional.

"Giving up" is relative. My ex could say I gave up on him. Again it's about factors and prospective. And I didn't "lose interest." I lived with this person. My partner wanted to be a child. Big difference.

It's real easy to judge someone from the outside looking in.

Lol @ me being emotional when you're the one so caught in your feelings you can't even see when someone's agreeing with u

U still defending your reason for leaving your ex when from jump I said u were right to leave him

But I'm the emotional one tho

 

[Colicat]

Would you feel the same way if the situation were reversed? Would you clown a female family member for doing the same?

Peace

Absolutely ... its unreasonable to expect your family to endure unnecessary suffering whilst supporting you at the same damn time...man or woman

A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush...

 

[Barnett114]

Same people talking GMB can't even get a woman

 

[Bless't]

Yep went through this with an ex. Dude lost his job and then refused to help around the house. I would come home to a dirty house, no food and my dogs not walked or they had gone to the bathroom on themselves b/c they could no longer hold it (which he wouldn't clean up). So I was paying all the bills, cleaning the whole house by myself and on top of that the sex wasn't good. That's not partnership and no that is not what I signed up for. I can do bad all by myself and I don't need you around running up the bills and eating the food. Life is easier/better without him.

I swear ya'll men love to demonize women b/c we expect more out of a partner than dikk. shyt is so stupid.

God damn.

 

[☑︎#VoteDemocrat]

be unable to support even yourself, brehs

 

[☑︎#VoteDemocrat]

Same people talking GMB can't even get a woman

 

[OG Talk]

 

[MalikX]

Honestly have no clue why dudes wanna get married in the first place

How can u want to be with someone who only wants u when u doing good?

shyt truly baffles my soul

I know right. Yet you're expected to take care of them when they're old, fat and unattractive. I could see if she's 20 and a dime but nikkas busting their ass to make $100,000 a year so they can marry a quickly aging 35 year old.

 

[MalikX]

This is laughable... I will let you live in your "young girls don't have ulterior motives" utopia

All women have ulterior motives.

All of them.

So....why have an old ugly one when you can get one that's young and attractive? They're all gold diggers anyway....

 

[Colicat]

All women have ulterior motives.

All of them.

So....why have an old ugly one when you can get one that's young and attractive? They're all gold diggers anyway....

 

[iBrowse]

Black feminists.