Has Anyone Officially Decided They Are Not Having Children?

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I don't see how people can possibly afford to have a gang of kids these days. Most people I know with kids are in debt or broke as hell.

I have a homegirl who is married and when she told me how much they pay for daycare for 1 kid. I'm like what the hell? Having kids is crazy expensive and it seems like society downplays the costs. Since they need people procreating to keep this fake economy afloat.
Daycare expenses are damn near 2020 car notes. I don’t understand how people make do but bless them because I can’t or won’t live that lifestyle. Not to mention if they get sick and need surgery and you gotta hit that deductible. Idk man it’s tough
 

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My mom and dad asked me out of curiosity recently and I told that I will not have children. Telling them that seemed to break their hearts because it means they will not be grandparents because I'm an only child. Well, my dad is a step grand parent but its not the same. They asked me to re-consider, I told them the decision has been made. They continued to be hurt, but they accepted it.

Has anyone made that choice? Have you told your parents? What was the reaction?
If you really about that life get snipped big guy. :skip:
 

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My grandmother ask me about marriage and kids so much its driven a wedge in our relationship. Ive pretty much told her my entire life I didnt want kids or marriage (was in between a nasty divorce with my parents). But she insists on bringing up the topic every time we speak. Im just now getting to a point in life where I have disposable income to do things like taking vacations.

Everyone tells me Im going to be old in a nursing home. But the majority of the people in nursing homes have kids. I wouldn't want to be a burden on them anyway. With the money I save from not having kids I can put towards a nice facility. All my grandparents are in good shape well into their 80's

My coworker gives his bm $400 weekly. He had that :mjcry: look on his face when I told him I was thinking about getting the 2020 Corvette. The payments and insurance will still be substantially less than what he is paying for child support.
 
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My grandmother ask me about marriage and kids so much its driven a wedge in our relationship. Ive pretty much told her my entire life I didnt want kids or marriage (was in between a nasty divorce with my parents). But she insists on bringing up the topic every time we speak. Im just now getting to a point in life were I have disposable income to do things like take vacations.

Everyone tells me Im going to be old in a nursing home. But the majority of the people in nursing homes have kids. I wouldnt want to be a burden on them anyway. With the money I save from not having kids I can put towards a nice facility. All my grandparents are in good shape well into their 80's

My coworker gives his bm $400 weekly. He had that :mjcry: look on his face when I told him I was thinking about getting to 2020 Corvette
this is what the fukk im sayin. same here, and my parents still don't understand why the fukk im so adamant about not having kids like they didn't just put me through some bullshyt when i ain't even ask to be here :why:. they really just diminish the effect their fukkery had on me and shyt.
 

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My grandmother ask me about marriage and kids so much its driven a wedge in our relationship. Ive pretty much told her my entire life I didnt want kids or marriage (was in between a nasty divorce with my parents). But she insists on bringing up the topic every time we speak. Im just now getting to a point in life were I have disposable income to do things like take vacations.

Everyone tells me Im going to be old in a nursing home. But the majority of the people in nursing homes have kids. I wouldnt want to be a burden on them anyway. With the money I save from not having kids I can put towards a nice facility. All my grandparents are in good shape well into their 80's

My coworker gives his bm $400 weekly. He had that :mjcry: look on his face when I told him I was thinking about getting to 2020 Corvette
Sometimes you have to lay down the law with family. I have beef with my dad to the point that we don't speak anymore. I told my mom not to mention him anymore. It sounded harsh at first but she understands. Sometimes you have to avoid certain things to maintain a relationship.
 
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My grandmother ask me about marriage and kids so much its driven a wedge in our relationship. Ive pretty much told her my entire life I didnt want kids or marriage (was in between a nasty divorce with my parents). But she insists on bringing up the topic every time we speak. Im just now getting to a point in life were I have disposable income to do things like take vacations.

Everyone tells me Im going to be old in a nursing home. But the majority of the people in nursing homes have kids. I wouldnt want to be a burden on them anyway. With the money I save from not having kids I can put towards a nice facility. All my grandparents are in good shape well into their 80's

My coworker gives his bm $400 weekly. He had that :mjcry: look on his face when I told him I was thinking about getting to 2020 Corvette


To look at this from another angle. I think the men in the USA have caught on to an extent. I mean that society is so dismissive of what a man goes threw mental as well as many other things. That why it so many men voting with there feet. nikkas is taken they passport and getting the hell out of America and who's to blame them . I don't care if they overseas tricking there money off or if the move to another country to find a wife . One thing these men have in common is ....nikkas just want to be happy :mjcry:

I said this in another thread and I'm say it here . My grandmother said it's going to get worse all these young men shooting up these schools the lack of empathy for men is at an all time low that it will effect society in a negative way. I think we all can see to ...wether we want to or not.
 

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To look at this from another angle. I think the men in the USA have caught on to an extent. I mean that society is so dismissive of what a man goes threw mental as well as many other things. That why it so many men voting with there feet. nikkas is taken they passport and getting the hell out of America and who's to blame them . I don't care if they overseas tricking there money off or if the move to another country to find a wife . One thing these men have in common is ....nikkas just want to be happy :mjcry:

I said this in another thread and I'm say it here . My grandmother said it's going to get worse all these young men shooting up these schools the lack of empathy for men is at an all time low that it will effect society in a negative way. I think we all can see to ...wether we want to or not.
Imagine working your whole life to buy a house and raise a family. You work your ass off then one day your old lady is like I dont want to be with you anymore. She takes the house, puts you on child support (potentially alimony too), and takes half your 401k/retirement. Now you are in your 40's in a 1 bedroom living paycheck to paycheck. With divorce rates so high is it worth it? To pass on your flawed genetics.

My dad did everything right. Worked his ass off, put lots of money away for early retirement and then one day my mother decided to leave him. Now he is living in a old house and he will probably have to work until he is 80. All because some women woke up and decided she could do better.

Men are on the losing end of divorces like 95% of the time. Birth rates and marriage rates will continue to decline until family courts stop punishing men so harshly.
 
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