Has Anyone Officially Decided They Are Not Having Children?

winb83

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It's a lot of people out there that don't love their kids and hated having them but are made to feel guilty by society for feeling that way and so they lie about it. Fact is society has certain behaviors they expect as normal from people and finding children to be likable and desirable is one of them. When you don't fit into their boxes they attempt to shame you for that. fukk them live your life on your terms and they can kiss your ass if they don't like it. Yeah I know not having kids is selfish. I'm a selfish individual.

Society thinks it has all the answers but when a person that shouldn't have kids has them they aren't there to provide the instant solution to it. Society is all about demanding square pegs fit in a round hole.
 

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I know mom and pops are disappointed in me because they'll never be grandparents. Oh well. People who would make terrible parents shouldn't have children and I'd be a terrible parent so I don't have any kids. If they wanted to be grandparents they should have had more children themselves.
 

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It's a lot of people out there that don't love their kids and hated having them but are made to feel guilty by society for feeling that way and so they lie about it. Fact is society has certain behaviors they expect as normal from people and finding children to be likable and desirable is one of them. When you don't fit into their boxes they attempt to shame you for that. fukk them live your life on your terms and they can kiss your ass if they don't like it. Yeah I know not having kids is selfish. I'm a selfish individual.

Society thinks it has all the answers but when a person that shouldn't have kids has them they aren't there to provide the instant solution to it. Society is all about demanding square pegs fit in a round hole.

I know mom and pops are disappointed in me because they'll never be grandparents. Oh well. People who would make terrible parents shouldn't have children and I'd be a terrible parent so I don't have any kids. If they wanted to be grandparents they should have had more children themselves.
An attack of your conscious perhaps?
 

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I wanted to have a large family prior to teaching...but some of the student experiences made me say ok maybe one or two...I think from that point subconsciously I made a decision not to tho cuz the type of women I was messing w/ gave me an excuse not to get serious/settle down in order to start a family

I’m 45 now and even tho I’m not ruling it out completely I really do not want to be in my 60s dealing w/ a 15 y/o...I don’t even want to imagine the type of shyt teenagers will have on their plate in the 2030s or 40s
@surf how do you feel now regarding whether or not you want kids?
 

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@surf how do you feel now regarding whether or not you want kids?

99.9% positive I don’t want/won’t have kids…my reasons remain the same regarding my age…in addition to that my age also has me far more cynical about bringing children into this world…the best time for me to have had kids was 30-35 but I just wasn’t there mentally
 

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I wanted to have a large family prior to teaching...but some of the student experiences made me say ok maybe one or two...I think from that point subconsciously I made a decision not to tho cuz the type of women I was messing w/ gave me an excuse not to get serious/settle down in order to start a family

I’m 45 now and even tho I’m not ruling it out completely I really do not want to be in my 60s dealing w/ a 15 y/o...I don’t even want to imagine the type of shyt teenagers will have on their plate in the 2030s or 40s
Damnnnn you an OG for real breh :flabbynsick: I thought you was in your 30s

Don't worry . This next bull run finna put you in retirement before 50 :whew:

Drop some wisdom for us breh
 

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I found that females that don't want kids is because they have some kind of childhood trauma they haven't gotten over it. Honestly feel like when they get older there is regret there. Work can't be the only thing worth accomplishing in life. Raising the next generation is more important.
 
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