I feel you on that. Going through that with a BAD little snow bunny I had out of Cypress in orange county. This chick is FINE. Got her own crib, new Benz, nice corporate job, etc. Looks super good on paper. And my nikkas are baffled as to why I won't deal with her, refuse to take her calls or meet up with her because she's going super hard to get me back into her life. Havent spoken to her in two years.
Refuse to deal with her EVER again. And I always explain that she looks super good ONLY ON PAPER. Once you get passed all of the fake niceness and her contrived victimhood tales she's created for herself, you understand very quickly why she's perpetually single and alone. This is LITERALLY the single most argumentative, miserable, man hating, no responsibility taking no accountability having, hateful c*nt I've EVER had the misfortune of knowing, meeting or interacting with.
Just no redeeming qualities about her AT ALL. And, on the surface, her life is what we all aspire to reach, in terms of success and comfortable living. But she's still not happy because of her fukked up mentality. Smh. So I feel you my guy. There's NO p*ssy out there worth your dignity and/or peace of mind