If he wasn't dangerous,go back to him,you two have a child. Tell him why you left,try to make him a better man. Chances of you finding a man who loves you like this is rare. It is not true when men love we love hard.
The men in this thread just haven't found an equivalent replacement.
1.Never date a woman you feel "lucky" to have gotten.
You can fukk them,but fukk them with the expectation they are only their temporarily. And people will say this is an insecure way of thinking.
But the truth is if you feel lucky?Its a good chance you were "lucky" and luck always runs out

. And even if you weren't lucky,if you feel lucky you are going to portray that. The woman will feel that and either take advantage and line step,or you will act like a nervous,insecure wreck and push her out.
This is not man talk,if you love yourself you have no reason to believe you can't create a woman you love. Since your woman will basically be you and your creation. Problem with most of you men is that you don't have "the vision". You want ready made women who rarely exist. And for the ones that do exist? You don't want those women anyway ,because aside from their looks they were already made by other men. No woman is just naturally that great without being made great by other men. You need to find a woman who is an empty vessel,learn how to turn a 5 to a 7,7 to a 9. These aren't like the old days where beautiful women were sheltered. If a woman is a 9/10 chances are her vessel has already been filled. Not saying she's a whore,but her mind has been filled by a high volume of men constantly in her orbit. Remember,what I'm telling you might sound insane and opposite of what you've been told. But we are in a completely different era,these are the navigations. And since I'm the only person here righteously attached to my knowledge,I can speak with authority
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