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I’ve never been through heartbreak. But i am concerned about my son’s father. I want him to get over me. It’s been nine years since I left him, he hasn’t moved on. And every time I get into a new relationship it hurts him. He’s still been trying to get me back over the years—he still loves me. It’s so awkward—I’ve been moved on. I don’t know why he can’t get over me. It sometimes creeps me out because it’s like he’s a bit delusional about it—he still has hopes for a reconciliation. I guess it’s true that when men love they really do love hard.

Depends on how the relationship went. It might not be love but a control thing.
 

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I was serious with this one girl. We had been together over 2 yrs. Her ex boyfriend was doin 4 in prison and was just paroled.

I get home from work one day and this nikka sittin in our living room:dahell:

She starts cryin to me "we need to talk":to:

She wasnt saying shyt. That nikka did all the talkin', talkin about "I got it from here. I'll have her stuff moved to my place by the end of the week.":leostare:

She couldnt even make eye contact with me. She just stood there, facing the wall, cryin'. Just a week prior, we were trying to make a baby. Glad it didnt happen.






























Neither did this story:russ:


But heartbreak is terrible
 

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left town after the "fall"...got a new job and place, years later I run into her and she went to give me a hug
but she was unrecognizable, had gained weight and just wasn't her, I looked her up and down with a disgusted expression
I laughed at me being hurt for an hour

I don't get this women.

I don't know if it is a action born from fear, but it pisses me off. My view is that if you hurt someone a certain type of way, the most you should do is apologise and leave them the fukk alone.

What is with the over the top greetings as though there isn't a burned bridge.
 

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I’ve never been through heartbreak. But i am concerned about my son’s father. I want him to get over me. It’s been nine years since I left him, he hasn’t moved on. And every time I get into a new relationship it hurts him. He’s still been trying to get me back over the years—he still loves me. It’s so awkward—I’ve been moved on. I don’t know why he can’t get over me. It sometimes creeps me out because it’s like he’s a bit delusional about it—he still has hopes for a reconciliation. I guess it’s true that when men love they really do love hard.

If he wasn't dangerous,go back to him,you two have a child. Tell him why you left,try to make him a better man. Chances of you finding a man who loves you like this is rare. It is not true when men love we love hard.

The men in this thread just haven't found an equivalent replacement.



1.Never date a woman you feel "lucky" to have gotten.


You can fukk them,but fukk them with the expectation they are only their temporarily. And people will say this is an insecure way of thinking.
But the truth is if you feel lucky?Its a good chance you were "lucky" and luck always runs out:francis:. And even if you weren't lucky,if you feel lucky you are going to portray that. The woman will feel that and either take advantage and line step,or you will act like a nervous,insecure wreck and push her out.

It's why I stopped dating altogether partially

I'm better off alone at the end...I'm not built for this shyt. Clown me idgaf

This is not man talk,if you love yourself you have no reason to believe you can't create a woman you love. Since your woman will basically be you and your creation. Problem with most of you men is that you don't have "the vision". You want ready made women who rarely exist. And for the ones that do exist? You don't want those women anyway ,because aside from their looks they were already made by other men. No woman is just naturally that great without being made great by other men. You need to find a woman who is an empty vessel,learn how to turn a 5 to a 7,7 to a 9. These aren't like the old days where beautiful women were sheltered. If a woman is a 9/10 chances are her vessel has already been filled. Not saying she's a whore,but her mind has been filled by a high volume of men constantly in her orbit. Remember,what I'm telling you might sound insane and opposite of what you've been told. But we are in a completely different era,these are the navigations. And since I'm the only person here righteously attached to my knowledge,I can speak with authority
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I’ve never been through heartbreak. But i am concerned about my son’s father. I want him to get over me. It’s been nine years since I left him, he hasn’t moved on. And every time I get into a new relationship it hurts him. He’s still been trying to get me back over the years—he still loves me. It’s so awkward—I’ve been moved on. I don’t know why he can’t get over me. It sometimes creeps me out because it’s like he’s a bit delusional about it—he still has hopes for a reconciliation. I guess it’s true that when men love they really do love hard.




Nah that nikka just a simp. Send him an invite to the coli.

Me and the brehs will have him #HOH in no time :salute:
 

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Heartbreak is really the main reason i became who i am. You have to find pleasure or joy or satisfaction in something other than a woman. Heartbreak will have your job performance suffering. It's not worth it. And if you're gifted with the spirit of astuteness, you'll be able to perceive an impending heartbreak before it happens. There's so many clues your significant other will drop that will let u know what is about to come your way.
 

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Just went through a bad breakup. shyt has been all bad for the past 3 months.

I want to write about it but I just can't

My life has been turned upside down

I just wanted some love and someone to have my back through the thick n thin

Dreamed about her three times this week

Some days i'm like this



Then i'm like...

 
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If he wasn't dangerous,go back to him,you two have a child. Tell him why you left,try to make him a better man. Chances of you finding a man who loves you like this is rare. It is not true when men love we love hard.

The men in this thread just haven't found an equivalent replacement.



1.Never date a woman you feel "lucky" to have gotten.


You can fukk them,but fukk them with the expectation they are only their temporarily. And people will say this is an insecure way of thinking.
But the truth is if you feel lucky?Its a good chance you were "lucky" and luck always runs out:francis:. And even if you weren't lucky,if you feel lucky you are going to portray that. The woman will feel that and either take advantage and line step,or you will act like a nervous,insecure wreck and push her out.



This is not man talk,if you love yourself you have no reason to believe you can't create a woman you love. Since your woman will basically be you and your creation. Problem with most of you men is that you don't have "the vision". You want ready made women who rarely exist. And for the ones that do exist? You don't want those women anyway ,because aside from their looks they were already made by other men. No woman is just naturally that great without being made great by other men. You need to find a woman who is an empty vessel,learn how to turn a 5 to a 7,7 to a 9. These aren't like the old days where beautiful women were sheltered. If a woman is a 9/10 chances are her vessel has already been filled. Not saying she's a whore,but her mind has been filled by a high volume of men constantly in her orbit. Remember,what I'm telling you might sound insane and opposite of what you've been told. But we are in a completely different era,these are the navigations. And since I'm the only person here righteously attached to my knowledge,I can speak with authority
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This brotha right here gets a lot of hate but everything he said in this post is the truth and I've been telling folks this for years.

One of my favorite lines in a song is Just Like Me by TI and Jamie Foxx when Tip is like "I can make her better tho, you gon let him ruin you."

Men make women better. And honest women will tell the truth. They know they wasn't worth nothing till the right man got ahold of them and made them something. My woman admits this to folks, that I made her a better woman.

Now I'm not saying this is the case 100% of the time. Like anything, there are exceptions to the rule but 9 times out of 10, it's a man who leveled up that woman that you see that you think is a 10/10.

And why can't you do the same thing? My OG told me a long time ago that you gotta look at women as clay. You have to mold them into who you want them to be.

If she's into you, she'll be pliable because she wants to make you happy. If she ain't into you, then you are not gonna be able to change her and so just move the hell on.

But every man has a woman that's into us and loves our dirty draws. I have one, you have one too.

Instead of casting her to the side cause she aint what you want, why don't you work on making her into what you want. Half the job is done already. She wants you over every other man.

She's a born follower and as a man, you're supposed to fill that leadership role for her.

Its a match made in heaven. What are you waiting for? Take her and start making her the perfect woman for you.
 

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I’ve never been through heartbreak. But i am concerned about my son’s father. I want him to get over me. It’s been nine years since I left him, he hasn’t moved on. And every time I get into a new relationship it hurts him. He’s still been trying to get me back over the years—he still loves me. It’s so awkward—I’ve been moved on. I don’t know why he can’t get over me. It sometimes creeps me out because it’s like he’s a bit delusional about it—he still has hopes for a reconciliation. I guess it’s true that when men love they really do love hard.

Yeah, people can say what they what they want, we are conditioned differently.

A woman will not be conditioned to love their man so much that they would sacrifice their life for them. As men, we are almost conditioned to put the women in our lives on a pedestal. Meanwhile, women are conditioned into thinking it is degrading to make the man they love a sandwich.
 

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If he wasn't dangerous,go back to him,you two have a child. Tell him why you left,try to make him a better man. Chances of you finding a man who loves you like this is rare. It is not true when men love we love hard.

The men in this thread just haven't found an equivalent replacement.



1.Never date a woman you feel "lucky" to have gotten.


You can fukk them,but fukk them with the expectation they are only their temporarily. And people will say this is an insecure way of thinking.
But the truth is if you feel lucky?Its a good chance you were "lucky" and luck always runs out:francis:. And even if you weren't lucky,if you feel lucky you are going to portray that. The woman will feel that and either take advantage and line step,or you will act like a nervous,insecure wreck and push her out.



This is not man talk,if you love yourself you have no reason to believe you can't create a woman you love. Since your woman will basically be you and your creation. Problem with most of you men is that you don't have "the vision". You want ready made women who rarely exist. And for the ones that do exist? You don't want those women anyway ,because aside from their looks they were already made by other men. No woman is just naturally that great without being made great by other men. You need to find a woman who is an empty vessel,learn how to turn a 5 to a 7,7 to a 9. These aren't like the old days where beautiful women were sheltered. If a woman is a 9/10 chances are her vessel has already been filled. Not saying she's a whore,but her mind has been filled by a high volume of men constantly in her orbit. Remember,what I'm telling you might sound insane and opposite of what you've been told. But we are in a completely different era,these are the navigations. And since I'm the only person here righteously attached to my knowledge,I can speak with authority
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Listen to this man nothing but truth
 
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