Help Detoxify The Simpness In Me

Rozay Oro

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Idk how to be aggressive. I'm stuck in desire of a relationship mode. Knowing that will only work if you make her into you by not doing that at all.
 

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You stop being a simp when you don't care for female approval. You stop caring for female approval when you become a self-sufficient man, knowing your worth as a human being. Healthy people gravitate towards people that they can do nothing for. If you want a relationship, walking around being on some ultra simp shyt will just give you a bytch that makes you trauma bonded to the p*ssy.

Sometimes the best way to not be a simp is to get into a relationship with savage thot that bumps U Needed Me on the regular.:wow:
 

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Idk how to be aggressive. I'm stuck in desire of a relationship mode. Knowing that will only work if you make her into you by not doing that at all.

You want to be in a relationship or run through girls?

Don't see why you'd need to be aggressive to get the former.

If being in a ship is your goal. Then you need to make that clear from the jump. As far as aggression goes here's a life tip. Women like leaders. It's in their DNA.
 

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shoot your shot more. Make it CLEAR that you are interested. A lot of simps get caught in the "friendzone" trying to backdoor (:dame:) their way into a relationship thinking that if they can be cool and funny and nice, that the dime is going to be into them :ufdup:

let the women you're interested in know that you are interested and if they aren't keep it moving. Don't spend your time where it's not beneficial.

Get on hookup apps and just smash a couple of women you wouldn't normally smash. Get to a point where you aren't "chasing" pyssy anymore because you're getting it. Then, you aren't so hard up and willing to do whatever just for the female attention in the hopes of smashing.

People think that it's either HOH or a Simp, and that's not the case. You can be nice and friendly etc. but if you are acting like a friend to the woman you want to date, you're lying to her and yourself. And if she doesn't want you, then move on. Don't feel so entitled to one woman that you put in time and energy if she aint feelin you :manny:
 

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I was wondering about you bro, ain't see you inna few days.

You're asking 2 different questions tho.

Aggressiveness and not being in a relationship are two different things.
 

Rozay Oro

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You want to be in a relationship or run through girls?

Don't see why you'd need to be aggressive to get the former.

If being in a ship is your goal. Then you need to make that clear from the jump. As far as aggression goes here's a life tip. Women like leaders. It's in their DNA.
I'd like to experience both. I don't trust women but I'd like to use their time like they do us too. Not some revenge shyt. Just I know they can be slicker.
How can I be a leader?
 

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shoot your shot more. Make it CLEAR that you are interested. A lot of simps get caught in the "friendzone" trying to backdoor (:dame:) their way into a relationship thinking that if they can be cool and funny and nice, that the dime is going to be into them :ufdup:

let the women you're interested in know that you are interested and if they aren't keep it moving. Don't spend your time where it's not beneficial.

Get on hookup apps and just smash a couple of women you wouldn't normally smash. Get to a point where you aren't "chasing" pyssy anymore because you're getting it. Then, you aren't so hard up and willing to do whatever just for the female attention in the hopes of smashing.

People think that it's either HOH or a Simp, and that's not the case. You can be nice and friendly etc. but if you are acting like a friend to the woman you want to date, you're lying to her and yourself. And if she doesn't want you, then move on. Don't feel so entitled to one woman that you put in time and energy if she aint feelin you :manny:
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