BaldingSoHard
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There's mad gems being dropped in this thread. Everything bolded is gospel. And more to the point, CONFIDENCE (the key to every woman's heart) will flow naturally from a breh who understands the above.
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There's mad gems being dropped in this thread. Everything bolded is gospel. And more to the point, CONFIDENCE (the key to every woman's heart) will flow naturally from a breh who understands the above.
I hear u but I think the concept of perceived value is central to simpery. A breh who is an airline pilot or a carpenter or a professor could go hard for a broke, single-mother IG model he's never met in real life just cause she applied makeup and filters. Obviously trash, but her perceived value was higher than his (in his mind) and thus he simps.
But if a woman is truly worth it, then she's worth it.Granted, that's rare enough that it almost doesn't warrant conversation, but it happens.
Even if it doesn't work out, if at the end of the day you can look back and say, "She was worth it..." then imo it wasn't simping.
I get what you're saying breh
But how do you even know if she was worth it you simp from the beginning and she ain't feeling it so she hit you with the "you're a great friend"
I'd put @ReadOneBookAWeek post more into the tricking category
Where would you make the difference?
BaldingSoHard
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I get what you're saying breh
But how do you even know if she was worth it you simp from the beginning and she ain't feeling it so she hit you with the "you're a great friend"
I'd put @ReadOneBookAWeek post more into the tricking category
Where would you make the difference?
Oh I hear you. Well you never simp at the beginning. That's where 90% of brehs go wrong. I see cats at work all the time whenever a new bad bytch shows up at the office, these brehs will form a pack and LITERALLY follow her around the office on some, "Daaaaaaaaaaaaaaayum lemme take you out!" type shyt, without even knowing her name.
shyt is
.The key, I've found, is to instantly friendzone them all, then promote from there as they earn it. This breeds the mindset within them that, "Wow if he's not interested in me he must really have his pick of the women. I should step my game up." Then they start flirting, etc... trying to fight for a spot. Brehs need to learn to use women's own natural competitiveness against them. Even if we don't have women, we need to move like a breh that has women. That's how we get women. This technique has yielded 100% results in my 30's. I wouldn't expect a breh in his 20's to be able to pull it off convincingly. That's part of the beauty of being a little older and more established.
Aggressiveness= Get in the gym consistently, do what you want to do, don't take shyt, and improve yourself. Oh yeah don't fap a lot and try to improve with women.
To not want a relationship= Why do you want one in the first place? Find out why 1st.
Why don't you want to be in a relationship, but you think about one?
I remember talking to you about you trying to cuff a girl because of your desire for sex. Is that it?
For you not to want to be in a relationship you have to understand that many women ain't shyt, you have to find a way to attract women so you can keep pulling forever.
To not want a relationship= Why do you want one in the first place? Find out why 1st.
Why don't you want to be in a relationship, but you think about one?
I remember talking to you about you trying to cuff a girl because of your desire for sex. Is that it?
For you not to want to be in a relationship you have to understand that many women ain't shyt, you have to find a way to attract women so you can keep pulling forever.
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Basically my nikka, u need to be da opposite of what u are right now. U need to start being a pimp! U got to carry ya self n BELIEVE that you are a GIFT to women. That YOU are the prize n if a chick don’t wanna get with you, it’s her loss, kick rocks.
Go to YouTube n look up “Black Phillip with Patrice O’Neal for further studies!!!
BaldingSoHard
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What's your age, breh?
Dap + rep brehOh I hear you. Well you never simp at the beginning. That's where 90% of brehs go wrong. I see cats at work all the time whenever a new bad bytch shows up at the office, these brehs will form a pack and LITERALLY follow her around the office on some, "Daaaaaaaaaaaaaaayum lemme take you out!" type shyt, without even knowing her name.
shyt is
The key, I've found, is to instantly friendzone them all, then promote from there as they earn it. This breeds the mindset within them that, "Wow if he's not interested in me he must really have his pick of the women. I should step my game up." Then they start flirting, etc... trying to fight for a spot. Brehs need to learn to use women's own natural competitiveness against them. Even if we don't have women, we need to move like a breh that has women. That's how we get women. This technique has yielded 100% results in my 30's. I wouldn't expect a breh in his 20's to be able to pull it off convincingly. That's part of the beauty of being a little older and more established.
I'm not new to the game and I still made this mistake because I had feelings for her
It's hard to keep cool when feelings are involved (take notes young brehs, there's a difference
)You'll find yourself doing that "god damn I'm really into you" shyt especially when you're confident and don't hesitate to let her know whats up
But some women are overwhelmed if you move like that from the beginning (maybe cuz they think all u want is puss) and I think thats where I fukked up
Yeah I still live at home lol. So do these girls too.
Early 20s
BaldingSoHard
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Dap + rep breh
I'm not new to the game and I still made this mistake because I had feelings for her
It's hard to keep cool when feelings are involved (take notes young brehs, there's a difference
You'll find yourself doing that "god damn I'm really into you" shyt especially when you're confident and don't hesitate to let her know whats up
But some women are overwhelmed if you move like that from the beginning (maybe cuz they think all u want is puss) and I think thats where I fukked up
No shame in it. We've all been there. shyt, I learned to do this by not doing this for the first 25 years of my life.
Cat piss martini
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you cant love or be loved until you
learn to love yourself breh.
learn to love yourself breh.
Ezekiel 25:17
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You want a relationship why not just date older women? 27,28,29? They out there with no kids. A relationship is guaranteed to work with them at that age. Don't change who you are because it might not work in the end.
BaldingSoHard
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This is gonna sound corny and cliche as fukk.
But the best advice I can give you is to stop and breathe.
I know that doesn't make sense. We think of breathing as filling our lungs with air, but if you stop and breathe, you can learn to put things correctly into perspective during that time when you draw and release breath. Being able to make level-headed decisions is critical for a man, and really the first step towards developing the confidence you will need to be what you want to be in this world. Being able to make confident decisions yields results, which yields more confidence in yourself which yields MORE results, which yields bytches. It all starts with being level-headed.
Anytime you face adversity in life, stop and breathe.
Note: Don't do the hand motion. Just breathe.
UncleTomFord15
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#Simpgang till I die
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Say you gon focus on your purpose one week, then make a thread about getting bytches the next week 