Help Detoxify The Simpness In Me

[Legal]

As someone who once considered themselves a lame as a middle school/early high school kid, flipped that to an extended fukkery phase, and then settled down:

Accept that you're going to take the occasional L. Be that from getting rejected, wasting time on someone you find out isn't worth it later, or what the fukk ever. The number one thing holding people back from anything, let alone relationship s, is being afraid to fail to the point that they don't even really try. fukk that. Try, and if you fail, learn from that failure, and be better. You need to lose every now and then to learn or remind yourself that you don't like that shyt, and stay hungry for victory. And in relationships, fukking up helps you learn what does and doesn't work for you personally, and what you do or don't like. Also gives you the occasional funny story to share in the future.

Like others have said, be up front about your attraction to someone, but don't be extra heavy handed with it. Playful flirting gets you in some draws. Overly aggressive flirting will often get your number bushed.

The rest is just staying true to yourself. For example, if you know you're corny, just be corny. Women are far more appreciative of someone who's comfortable with being who they are than someone who is clearly striving to be someone they aren't.

 

[Balla]

He can't focus on getting paper because his desire is too deep for women.

I told him to try to get women and get his shyt together at the same time because getting his money right will take a while and he'll keep thinking about p*ssy all day.

Didn't you make a thread about gettin your paper straight without thinkin about bytches not even a week ago?

I really think you need to focus on yourself to find out who you are and what you want before fighting your inner simpness :yousureb:

 

[Mike809]

Just don't bend over for these hoes .
If they asked you to do something for them , and you genuinely don't want to do it then don't .

Also dont be afraid of rejection and if things aint going your way with one woman , then cut her off and move on .

 

[ColdSlither]

It’s rather easy. Granted it takes time. You have to learn the fine art of detachment, and not giving a fukk. Stop trying to please these women. The more you simp, the more they fukking resent and pity you.

 

[UpAndComing]

Idk how to be aggressive. I'm stuck in desire of a relationship mode. Knowing that will only work if you make her into you by not doing that at all.

Whats your situation like, are you working or going to school?

 

[Strapped]

How can you simp being broke

 

[Rozay Oro]

Aggressiveness= Get in the gym consistently, do what you want to do, don't take shyt, and improve yourself. Oh yeah don't fap a lot and try to improve with women.

To not want a relationship= Why do you want one in the first place? Find out why 1st.

Why don't you want to be in a relationship, but you think about one?

I remember talking to you about you trying to cuff a girl because of your desire for sex. Is that it?

For you not to want to be in a relationship you have to understand that many women ain't shyt, you have to find a way to attract women so you can keep pulling forever.

Idk man because I suck. Look I'm a former drug abuser who never went too deep but never got over either. Only accomplishments I have in life is doing open mic stand up comedy a few times (a lot of people think that's scary apparently) and that I have lost my virginity. I have decent fashion sense but I'm still not completely at my best.

 

[Da_Eggman]

Start off listening to more Future

 

[Rozay Oro]

Say you gon focus on your purpose one week, then make a thread about getting bytches the next week

Lmao I see brehs and brehettes stories on Snapchat. I be like damn they uglier than me, wtf lol. Also think the edibles I did a few days ago (ate more than I should for one sitting). fukked me up, not in a bad way. Made me think of the sadness in my current life. Ill father, shytty relationship, feeling lonely, finding out bytches I have fukked don't give a fukk about me. Just bullshyt.

 

[Balla]

Answer my questions broskii

Idk man because I suck. Look I'm a former drug abuser who never went too deep but never got over either. Only accomplishments I have in life is doing open mic stand up comedy a few times (a lot of people think that's scary apparently) and that I have lost my virginity. I have decent fashion sense but I'm still not completely at my best.

 

[Rozay Oro]

Answer my questions broskii

Never really had a real relationship. I don't want to do shyt alone or always drag a friend along. I think it's normal to have girlfriend or fwb that you could be seen with.

I don't want one because I'm boring and I don't want to get butthurt.

 

[Rozay Oro]

Start off listening to more Future

I gave hndrx and future a single spin. I thought hndrx was better but think mask off is still the better single. I've heard a bit of whatever the album is that has blood money or whatever that song is called. Future is more enjoyable to me during a late night drive or not sober.

 

[Commish]

OP..

I say, the first thing you need to do is work on your self esteem! Learn to love yourself first, then learn what you are worth. After that, learn how to be friendly as well as learn how to accept rejection.

There is a saying, as a man think-ith, so as he, so if you think you are a simp, then you will bring about that type of energy around women.

Stop calling yourself something that will work against your romantic goals! Women like confident men among other things, so as you begin to gain confidence, then your woman situation will yield the results you are seeking.

 

[HoloGraphic]

If she doesn't respect you, she can never love you.

You earn [self] respect and confidence through your passions.

 

[Rozay Oro]

OP..

I say, the first thing you need to do is work on your self esteem! Learn to love yourself first, then learn what you are worth. After that, learn how to be friendly as well as learn how to accept rejection.

There is a saying, as a man think-ith, so as he, so if you think you are a simp, then you will bring about that type of energy around women.

Stop calling yourself something that will work against your romantic goals! Women like confident men among other things, so as you begin to gain confidence, then your woman situation will yield the results you are seeking.

I just have to become an entertainer. My life is dull and empty.