Help Detoxify The Simpness In Me

BaldingSoHard

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You genuinely have to have other interests

If you only focus on women you won’t get any

Every breh needs to read this.

You don't get women by chasing them. You get women by being better than them.

Have interest have hobbies have shyt going on in your life that has NOTHING to do with them and they will want in on the fun. Then you just ration your time to the ones of your choosing.

That's how this shyt works.
 

Rozay Oro

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I was wondering about you bro, ain't see you inna few days.

You're asking 2 different questions tho.

Aggressiveness and not being in a relationship are two different things.
They got me working consistently at work, ppl keep quitting. Knowledge is power. I'd like to know more than just AMS videos.
 

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Every breh needs to read this.

You don't get women by chasing them. You get women by being better than them.

Have interest have hobbies have shyt going on in your life that has NOTHING to do with them and they will want in on the fun. Then you just ration your time to the ones of your choosing.

That's how this shyt works.
I don't think theirs anything fun of being a bedroom beat maker. I guess I need to add more shyt in my life.
 

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Every breh needs to read this.

You don't get women by chasing them. You get women by being better than them.

Have interest have hobbies have shyt going on in your life that has NOTHING to do with them and they will want in on the fun. Then you just ration your time to the ones of your choosing.

That's how this shyt works.
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Rozay Oro

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Didn't you make a thread about gettin your paper straight without thinkin about bytches not even a week ago?

I really think you need to focus on yourself to find out who you are and what you want before fighting your inner simpness :yousureb:
I did but attention whores keep coming into my life. It's human nature to flirt but damn they just crank up my libido and desires.
 

BaldingSoHard

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I don't think theirs anything fun of being a bedroom beat maker. I guess I need to add more shyt in my life.

I think you might be surprised. Women love a creative man. Granted, if your bedroom is in your mama's house then yea, you're gonna wanna make some upgrades. But having that skill opens doors that you can follow into a more interesting life.

Big Facts

To add to that... I don't think a man should ever have to chase a woman. If you're that nikka, they will come to you.
 

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Men should stop trying to play a character and trying to become something they're not meant to be. Trying to force yourself to not desire a relationship while secretly desiring a relationship doesn't work. A lot of dudes are afraid to look within themselves, find hobbies, find goals and be honest about what they want out of women.

You're not a simp for wanting a relationship or wanting more from a woman than sex. You can want a relationship without being desperate. The key in my opinion is to put yourself first ahead of women but there's no need to listen to stupid advice about not caring about relationships and having a lame "fukk bytches" mentality if that's not your natural mindset. Finding answers on your own and being honest with yourself will improve mindset more than listening to lames that don't even take themselves seriously.
 

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Nah you can act like a simp for a woman thats worth it and make a fool out of yourself

I hear u but I think the concept of perceived value is central to simpery. A breh who is an airline pilot or a carpenter or a professor could go hard for a broke, single-mother IG model he's never met in real life just cause she applied makeup and filters. Obviously trash, but her perceived value was higher than his (in his mind) and thus he simps.

But if a woman is truly worth it, then she's worth it. :wow: Granted, that's rare enough that it almost doesn't warrant conversation, but it happens.

Even if it doesn't work out, if at the end of the day you can look back and say, "She was worth it... :francis:" then imo it wasn't simping.
 
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