Nowhere in the bible does it say you will have a perfect marriage.
Obviously.
So why do you go around with the absurd notion that no one should do it at all? No one is perfect, and we all have standards/requirements/preferences. But everything you ever speak of marriage is bad, as if it is impossible for anyone to get anything out of it. Ever.
I understand doing what works for you. I understand offering peole advice. I don't understand rigid and never-ending discouragement and demonization.
Have you looked at the first couple verses of 1Timothy chapter 4 lately?
Hello. Still waiting.