She's free to do that. But she should be aware that doing that might blow up her relationship, if the potential husband/boyfriend finds out. There is also a difference between having a fukkbuddy while not being in a relationship and going visist that fukkbuddy after you just had a date with somebody else. Again, if the roles were reversed, no woman would think this was acceptable.
Hours after 1st Date She Let Another Man Hit | Boyfriend finds out 4 Months Later
- Thread starter Sonny Bonds
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Eternally Jaded
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Even as a dude who benefits from ish like this, that's not how stable people move in courtship.
Ish like the above is why marriages are so chaotic and short term now.
Hedging isn't a show of commitment.
I can't advocate for it being viable for the marriage minded.
MoveForward
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Shiiiit. This is damn near normal. Most of yall have likely fukked a chick that had sex with another man hours before you and I’m not talking an escort.
Youhadasparkwhenustarted
Superstar
As far as I'm concerned, letting someone else smash right after the date is dumb disrespectful, and shows she just wasn't that into the other guy. If I'm the second option leave me alone lol, or know your place and stay out of the dating pool and keep getting fukked. Come back when you're ready to take it serious.
Diondon
Thanks to the lawyers uh, I marbled the foyer
Tell Mr. Dangalang take her ass out then
I thought nikkas was HOH
You let nikkas smash right after I drop you off, no way I cuff you
yeah yeah new nikka Gen Z rules aside
I thought nikkas was HOH
You let nikkas smash right after I drop you off, no way I cuff you
yeah yeah new nikka Gen Z rules aside
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Will hurt more if I enjoyed her company
Heafcliffe
Hope there's puddin' in the clink...
To quote the great poet Phonte: "Do you go shoe shopping with barefoot?"
Trithfully, with only 4 months in and her initial instinct to lie, I would've compartmentalized this and treated her appropriately.
Trithfully, with only 4 months in and her initial instinct to lie, I would've compartmentalized this and treated her appropriately.
ReturnOfJudah
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I would have cut her off out the blue and gave no explanation. Dont even tell her what you found out
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Agreed. On one hand, the game is the game; common practice for handsome gang to go on dates while having whoever on their roster texting/on standby, or to be the emergency dikk for the chick on a date…
however, at some point you do reach a maturity (or you meet someone you truly fancy/respect) that stepping out is the last thing on your mind during the courtship.
This is true. But two things:
1. She lied about it. Shoulda just told the truth.
2. First date must've been dope if they were together four months later, so why potentially fukk up a good thing?
2 Up 2 Down
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He did the right thing. Stuff like that you will never just let it go. It'll always be in the back of your mind.
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It must've been a good date if they continued to see each other. Which makes it wild she went and fukked someone else right after the date. Who is to say that they did fukk again after the relationship started
Men thinking women don’t fukk around as much 