Hours after 1st Date She Let Another Man Hit | Boyfriend finds out 4 Months Later

[Wig Twistin Season]

If she didn’t volunteer that information, how did he find out?

If he played detective to get that information, he did too much. If the info fell into his lap, I’m not mad that he asked her about it.

4 months into a relationship, why is he worried about who she was fukking before him, unless she’s showing other red flags indicating she’s still in communication with the other dude or just seems untrustworthy?



On the flip side, if dude is just insecure, that’s his issue, not hers.

 

[Lieutenant Daniels]

He's at home half watching tv/gaming thinking about her and she's either kissing/sucking on the next man or he's slamming it in, sweaty balls beating against her damp butthole with his hands supporting the bend of her knees.

Y’all nikkas savage

Every man needs to picture this exact same scenario every time a chick movin different giving you the run around

It makes it easier to bush a chick that’s not with your program

 

[King Poetic]

Stop believing these redditt dudes ducktales

 

[bigde09]

The fact that she tried lying about it raises more red flags than actually hooking up with someone

 

[DamienWayne]

Says more about the quality of women he dates . But if he’s dating to marry this woman time to end it

 

[IsThatBrothaMouzone?]

No issues here.

It was only a first date and the other dude was already smashing.

The reddit OP....ASSumes that she would have chosen Chad/Jamal if he committed, but maybe she just enjoyed him as a FWB and had no intention of ever getting serious with him.

Women will smash a dude they don't view as relationship material.

If this was a situation where Sir Smash had JUST met her and got the draws Day One right after y'alls date, I could understand being (a little) salty....but she already knew Sir Smash, and Mr. Date just met her. It's not his business what she's up to. They're not a couple yet.

HOWEVER - he's not obligated to stick with her.

 

[hotbeezie]

Why did she feel bold enough to tell him some shyt like that?

 

[Kiyoshi-Dono]

nikkas aren’t lookin at it from a rookies perspective
Not every dude out here was knee deep in p*ssy like yall claim
Nor do a lot of nikkas have experience with heartbreak or women lying to them
Many dudes still operate under that bullshyt they mommas told them about women
shyt society broad brushes women as dainty creatures
So of course a dude that’s just starting out with women would do the things this redditor did
Let’s also not act like there wasn’t a chick a nikka was really feeling
I mean REALLY feeling and she presented herself as “not like those other girls”
Even the realest player has been blindsided by a chick and looks back on it and
Like I said in a previous post, buddy sounds green so I’ll give him grace
But many dudes out here haven’t seen it or been through it to know these hoes by lying, faking funk until they get you in their webs
Once you learn the game
You can never go back and this was his cannon moment that we’ve all had a one time

 

[TheNig]

The fact that she tried lying about it raises more red flags than actually hooking up with someone

I pointed that out too.

I get it. It was fresh. He probably did some MI6 type shyt to get in her phone. But once it was open and he seen what he seen, there's no coming back from that. So at that point, there's no reason to lie about it.

And maybe it's just me, but if I just had a cool ass first date with someone and it seemed like we clicked, I'm not going home thinking about no other hoes.

But again, maybe it's just me.

 

[Ohene]

Happens way more often than dudes know

Exactly
This why you dont look through ppls phones

Ive done this after going out with a chick and I am certain women have done this to me. Sometimes you fukkin a chick you know you have no future with while dating other women you see long term potential with - and just havent smashed yet. Its all in the game

 

[TheNig]

nikkas aren’t lookin at it from a rookies perspective
Not every dude out here was knee deep in p*ssy like yall claim
Nor do a lot of nikkas have experience with heartbreak or women lying to them
Many dudes still operate under that bullshyt they mommas told them about women
shyt society broad brushes women as dainty creatures
So of course a dude that’s just starting out with women would do the things this redditor did
Let’s also not act like there wasn’t a chick a nikka was really feeling
I mean REALLY feeling and she presented herself as “not like those other girls”
Even the realest player has been blindsided by a chick and looks back on it and
Like I said in a previous post, buddy sounds green so I’ll give him grace
But many dudes out here haven’t seen it or been through it to know these hoes by lying, faking funk until they get you in their webs
Once you learn the game
You can never go back and this was his cannon moment that we’ve all had a one time

What the fukk are you talking about?

 

[Insensitive]

Get the cheapest date possible and weed out the clowns.
You'll get some act right eventually.

 

[Jazzy B.]

Why is this a story?

They weren’t together so she can fukk who she wants to fukk


If you think a woman doesn’t have brehs who she is already messing with when you first meet her you’re not living in reality.

 

[Chrishaune]

Good he found out about these women now and not later after marrying one.

 

[Jazzy B.]

Say what yall want but the fact is she lied and got defensive
fukk her. Move on.

If she would've said bro we just met i didn't know you. That's one thing. But then she'll throw it back at you one day. There's nuances.

All in all.. move on. No excuses for women.

They LIE to y’all because they know y’all can’t handle hearing her say “I was fukking someone else when we first met”


They KNOW y’all the types to judge them. A breh running through chicks wouldn’t care because he would be doing the same. They can tell that to that type of breh..