How did having a girlfriend impact your finances?

[Noriega]

Literally buying food, tickets, clothes twice whenever we went out

 

[Dallas' 4 Eva]

But that's not the issue with alot of these relationships

Alot.of these women like my ex are WELL PAID

They just have bad money management skills or in most cases don't believe in CONTRIBUTING

Forcing most of these dudes to FOOT THE BILL ON EVERYTHING

My uncle was like that he was paying for all this shyt for his wife the whole time she had a secret account where she stacked all her bread up and money he gave her

Time the kids came of age and he was being displaced by his job

She was like PEACE OUT N1GGA

AND BOUNCED ON HIS AZZ

We always tell women to make better choices about who they get pregnant by, I gotta keep it fair and even and say you need to make better choices as far as what woman you choose to settle down with.

 

[Spectre]

So for 2 years my girl has been dropping hints she wanted that LV bag. So for our Anniversary i surprised her with it.

1.6k for the bag and when she opened it she was like. I dont like it


A breh was slow burning inside and I said like bytch you kept dropping hints for 2 years and now you dont like it.

That hurt

LMAO that's cold! whoo that's cold

Damn bro I woulda returned it

 

[DJ Paul's Arm]

Y'all need to stop trying to look for that high maintenance bytches.

 

[Lord_nikon]

I save more because she brings groceries to the house and cooks. I also don't need to pay the cleaning lady.

Perhaps some of you should look for better women......

The earth doesn't work like that, you are luck or blessed, , looking for a better woman is like box of chocolate s, you never know what you will get,

 

[ChatGPT-5]

The earth doesn't work like that, you are luck or blessed, , looking for a better woman is like box of chocolate s, you never know what you will get,

As far as I remember it was 2019 and it was about 'equality' per women. Some really do hold by these rules. It's not cheap to live in a single income home with an entire family on your own and the woman just takes care of the kids anymore. Inflation is globe and because of that women are also in the workforce and hold their weight.

 

[StretfordRed]

You get yourself a good SOLID LADY she won't hurt your pockets that much at all





You start chasing these HOES out here then you better have your paper straight


If you ain't got a mouth piece then you gonna have to pay to play.....

Yep. Look at the thots the OP video has. They all look like schemers

You need a woman to build together with. If you have someone leaching you’re finances, then you’re being played

 

[Strapped]

Did he lie

 

[Jim Cornette]

Of course nikka smh

 

[Bumblebreh]

But that's not the issue with alot of these relationships

Alot.of these women like my ex are WELL PAID

They just have bad money management skills or in most cases don't believe in CONTRIBUTING

Forcing most of these dudes to FOOT THE BILL ON EVERYTHING

My uncle was like that he was paying for all this shyt for his wife the whole time she had a secret account where she stacked all her bread up and money he gave her

Time the kids came of age and he was being displaced by his job

She was like PEACE OUT N1GGA

AND BOUNCED ON HIS AZZ

Plus she has those student loans to pay off so you can be the man and pay all the bills and rent and meanwhile she can pay off a great chunk from her loans and find a cert breh if things do not work.

 

[Bumblebreh]

If the women around you feel like/are a tax on your pockets, mental/emotional energy, tolerance or general well being...the flaw is you. Your filters aren't adjusted right. The only reason you're getting played with these social "expectations" of who-should-pay-for-what and the real-men-do-xyz games is because.you.allow.it.

Stop dealing with childish bints and let women with sense be the only ones to have their shot.

I do feel like brehs will let a lot of shyt slide just to be with a woman who is above average in term of looks and p*ssy.And you can play that role but deep down she will not respect you like that.She did the hook lin and sinker and she has caught herself a "provider"
Brehs take it like a blessing because had you married or had kids with such women.......keyword "meal ticket"
She can use your own male ego against you so that you and only you have to be the benefactor.

 

[Heretic]

I definitely spend a hell of a lot more now than I used to.

 

[Mirin4rmfar]

One of the girls im dating talking about how she likes buying designer bags, fine dining ..broke off her engagement because her ex dude was broke....lol at her thinking imma do that.

She also cant cook . I know she going to be an expensive woman . Imma ghost her ass. She is bringing something to the table and she is pretty but I'm not going to be stuck where I have to pay out of the ass.

 

[BaldingSoHard]

This is exactly why my current relationship has me and ready to buy a ring.

Every other relationship I've had with a woman was a financial drain. It would cost me about $800 a month just to be in a relationship with a woman.

But my current girl is absolutely zero-maintenance, pays some of the bills ($500 a month) and is just as big a homebody as I am. She buys groceries and shyt too, not often but definitely more often than all my worthless-ass exes did.

Brehs lemme tell you the shyt is . My monthly net income has been in the HEAVILY in the green ever since she moved in, and I was absolutely against her moving in.

shyt even has me now looking for shyt to buy. If I get an email about concert tickets or some shyt, I buy it without hesitation because I actually have more disposable money now than when we lived apart.



She's the shyt, brehs .

Edit: We're going to Vegas later this month on her dime too.

shyt is wild man....

 

[Coli Bot]

Y'all dudes that got good women I salute you. Don't fukk it up because it is a mess out there fareal.