How do you choose the right one when youve got options?

[CinnaSlim]

Sounds like most girls that look like you honestly. You don't look like the chick for the sexual fantasies stuff (at least to the dudes I roll with) but moreso the chick dudes want to have as a wife cause you're a "good girl". I can see all them descriptions you mentioned being used but I think that's a gift and a curse too just like being a "nice guy" at times depending on what you're looking for dating wise. I know who people that are "nice guys" and "good girls" will end up with almost all the time and some don't like who them people usually are at least from my small online/offline sampling.

Explain that last part for me please.
But yeah,it doesn't help that I look younger than my age. That's why I'm cool just chilling. I'll get scooped up when all the thick chicks get . Plus, I'm not used to a lot of attention from guys so when it happens idk what to do or who to choose. I usually just turn everyone down and go in the corner with my phone or a book.

 

[Rusty Kuntz]

why did you hate his guts and what changed

I didn't hate him, per se, but the fact that we were so similar caused me to reflect upon some of the negative aspects of my personality (that I'm still working on) and I didn't like it.

I'm stubborn, extremely territorial (especially when it comes to him), and can be a vicious, uncaring c*nt if I feel like you've done me or anyone I care about wrong. shyt, sometimes I'm that way if I just don't like you for some reason

Even though I'm an opinionated person, I can be very dismissive of other people and their opinions (especially as they pertain to me) and not waste another thought about how they feel. He has a very similar personality. Initially, that shyt didn't mesh well at all LOL

What changed? I was "forced" to interact with him as we had a group of mutual friends we hung out with often (mostly other Afro-Colombians), and I saw him all the time. I'd just pretend like he didn't exist, but he was persistent, and would say stuff he'd know would get under my skin. My annoyance turned into tolerance, tolerance turned into friendship, and the rest is history.

 

[Rusty Kuntz]

except when the good girl is secretly more deviant and corrupted than you are

Not corrupted.... 'sexually imaginative' is more appropriate

 

[benjamin]

Girl stop...single 4lyfe

 

[Blackout]

Personality >>>

 

[Arithmetic]

Whoever is going to buy you the most gifts for Christmas .

 

[Rusty Kuntz]

Whoever is going to buy you the most gifts for Christmas .

Why wait for Christmas?

 

[Arithmetic]

Why wait for Christmas?

Assuming you are booing up for the holidays... (Temporary)

 

[Fatboi1]

A girl asked me that last year and I told her to choose who you feeling(she was testing me to see if I would react to her telling me that.)

shyt didn't take long to escalate. I ended up catchin dat L though since she was tired of me not getting serious.

 

[GoPro]

Go with your fickle emotions and be blinded by love then ultimately betrayed.

Or go with the seemingly safe option who ends up boring or worse controlling/abusive.

It's a gamble, just have pick one.

You can have both. Go with option A til you hit about 30 or so then slide right up to option B when you're like "Hey, why didnt we ever get together?"

It's what you all do

Spoiler

 

[Rusty Kuntz]

Assuming you are booing up for the holidays... (Temporary)

Why not wait until after the holidays, so that you don't have to buy a gift?

 

[Arithmetic]

nikkas let looks cloud their judgement. I threw a 9 (looks) through the bushes because she would say shyt like she
needs a nikka to MAKE her submit and that when she has kids she'll need a nanny bc she doesn't like housework.

Whoever cuffs her Is running head first to a brick wall L.

Cuff the 7 who you actually relate to and just be happy .

Or find another 9 who loves the housework

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

I know some of you may not have experience with this problem...

And some of you don't have to choose because you keep a roster...

But how do you choose the right person to give your attention to/ or to get in a relationship with when you got multiple options?

Y'all always saying women should choose better, so what's your advice? First come, first serve? Or play the field?

Whichever one is available first

 

[Arithmetic]

Why not wait until after the holidays, so that you don't have to buy a gift?

I am not the one buying the gifts in this situation

 

[Rusty Kuntz]

I am not the one buying the gifts in this situation

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