As friends yeah but some dudes/chicks aren't going for that if they think they are worth something and or don't have a "roster". I don't think you can really get to know multiple people in a dating sense at the same time. Now if its just FB stuff yeah but real relationships I'm throwing the challenge flag on that.
I know some of you may not have experience with this problem...
And some of you don't have to choose because you keep a roster...
But how do you choose the right person to give your attention to/ or to get in a relationship with when you got multiple options?
Y'all always saying women should choose better, so what's your advice? First come, first serve? Or play the field?
Lol no, just posting a random thought. I only added the oppressive part because when you choose a man who has more to give sometimes they use that as a weapon and hold it over you.are you responding to yourself? did you think this was your alias account?
edit: i noticed when it comes to "the safe option", y'all gotta make him some how oppressive.
Exactly; if you're a half-way decent person, it's possible that more than one half-way decent person will be interested in you.... at the same damn time, no less. People treating it like Highlander and shyt
When it came to dating, I made my intentions clear to any mutually-interested suitors. Even though I know all relationships are different, I had plenty of positive, long-term relationship examples to gain insight from (and plenty of bad ones too so I knew what NOT to do) and I went from there.
I'm a pretty decisive person, so I quickly knew what would and wouldn't work for me in a relationship, and it made sorting the wheat from the chaff easier. Once I met my now husband, everything just clicked... after an initial period of me hating his guts LOL
My appeal is different. I'm "cute", "sweet/innocent" and "pretty". People who come to me tend to want relationships. They see me as a "good girl".
I disagree if you're trying to date them which honestly most people are or at least putting out there. When most people (even guys/girls that are "players) ime meet someone new they like being all up on them at first male/female so when doing this how people going to run the routine with 2/3 or more different people at the same time? That's why I say its more outlier stuff and why a lot of cats end up with nothing running with this routine. I also think people are scarred is another reason why they do it because if you think you any good at picking partners why not just rock with one person at a time? Again that's only if you trying to be serious if its just fb do you.
My appeal is different. I'm "cute", "sweet/innocent" and "pretty". People who come to me tend to want relationships. They see me as a "good girl".
And some just wanna corrupt me.
except when the good girl is secretly more deviant and corrupted than you areCorrupting good girls is fukking fun.
except when the good girl is secretly more deviant and corrupted than you are
Sounds like most girls that look like you honestly. You don't look like the chick for the sexual fantasies stuff (at least to the dudes I roll with) but moreso the chick dudes want to have as a wife cause you're a "good girl". I can see all them descriptions you mentioned being used but I think that's a gift and a curse too just like being a "nice guy" at times depending on what you're looking for dating wise. I know who people that are "nice guys" and "good girls" will end up with almost all the time and some don't like who them people usually are at least from my small online/offline sampling.My appeal is different. I'm "cute", "sweet/innocent" and "pretty". People who come to me tend to want relationships. They see me as a "good girl".
And some just wanna corrupt me.
I don't have a mess
I have options because I know a few people who have shown interest. Doesn't mean I'm dating them or have even exchanged numbers with them. It's not as messy as y'all make it seem. I mean just that... that I have options.
