How do you choose the right one when youve got options?

[VFib]

Yes girl. The thing is... according to the coli, guys don't want to wait around and get stuck in the friend zone. They'll throw you in the bushes if you don't give it up with the first 2-3 dates but if you do... then they ight wonder if you are a hoe who does that with every dude.

fukk that and fukk him. Let him show you who he is from the beginning so you don't have to waste any more time. Sexing after 3 dates? FOH. I'll gladly accept the bushes.

 

[YeLovesBoston]

Young woman, you need to stop having "options." It's a silly game and is the downfall of our security. Do you keep them because they're fun or because you're scared? It's time you start being serious and brave with one person. You made this mess now you gotta figure out how to clean it

Tonight, you are a strong, young woman looking for her king. Not the Knights of the Round Table or court jesters

 

[VFib]

"Lemme call you tomorrow I got this other chick I may want to get with on the other line"

Look at my post again.
I have a habit of hitting reply before my thought is fully formed

LOL, I didn't say to be rude about it.

 

[BodieBroadus]

Coli brehs need to stop with the

 

[marcuz]

But I don't wanna be a golddigger and be seen as looking for a come up

well fukk it, be seen as a gold digger, shyt. gold diggers are winning. seeking provisions and stability trumps fukking some nikka with nothing everytime.

 

[CinnaSlim]

Young woman, you need to stop having "options." It's a silly game and is the downfall of our security. Do you keep them because they're fun or because you're scared? It's time you start being serious and brave with one person. You made this mess now you gotta figure out how to clean it

Tonight, you are a strong, young woman looking for her king. Not the Knights of the Round Table or court jesters

I don't have a mess

I have options because I know a few people who have shown interest. Doesn't mean I'm dating them or have even exchanged numbers with them. It's not as messy as y'all make it seem. I mean just that... that I have options.

 

[marcuz]

Then your gonna be pricing a lot of cats out the game

as she should, if you ask me

 

[LEEeveryday]

I believe if you have options, you really don't have a choice...

Those options are just placeholders. So then it's up to you if you want to settle or not.

 

[The Mad Titan]

I think I'm like that. But what if someone is trying to get to know you, while your getting to know someone else? Technically, your not committed to anyone so what do you do? Turn the second one down?

What if you exchange contact info with different girls at the same event? Do you pick the one with the most potential or best assets?

Dating is complicated.

I totally understand this, When I find myself in these situations it really confuses me. Seems like most my boy's thrive off having multiple chicks interested in them or ones they are interested in.

If you just looking for the best lay potential, dem assets, if not...the most potential.

I'd say talk to them all and whoever makes the 1st move or shows the most interest rock with them. And if there is one in particular you like more than the rest let him know...

 

[marcuz]

I believe if you have options, you really don't have a choice...

Those options are just placeholders. So then it's up to you if you want to settle or not.

i agree, the options really arent there once you weed out the rift raft.

 

[FukkaPaidEmail]

nikkas let looks cloud their judgement. I threw a 9 (looks) through the bushes because she would say shyt like she
needs a nikka to MAKE her submit and that when she has kids she'll need a nanny bc she doesn't like housework.

Whoever cuffs her Is running head first to a brick wall L.

Cuff the 7 who you actually relate to and just be happy .

 

[Silkk]

I know some of you may not have experience with this problem...

And some of you don't have to choose because you keep a roster...

But how do you choose the right person to give your attention to/ or to get in a relationship with when you got multiple options?

Y'all always saying women should choose better, so what's your advice? First come, first serve? Or play the field?

Who do you like the most?

 

[Silkk]

you got 2 QBs that means you got none

 

[At30wecashout]

Easy. @CinnaSlim you bring your ass to Chicago and get this ringWhy are you running from the inevitable?

Do you understand the definition of kismet? Tired of you playing. Bring a broom and lets jump over that shyt, fam.

 

[Tenchi Ryu]