How many dudes has Rihanna ACTUALLY slept with?

[AAKing23]

This is stupid. Ask yourself this question. Why do black communities and white communities(southern whites) where hoishness/sluttiness is more stigmatize have higher prevalence of STD's and out of wed-lock births?

Because the south has a poorer socioeconomic demographic than other regions.

Socioeconomically disadvantaged people are naturally prone to be more susceptible to teen pregnancies and STD's due to not being educated about sex.

 

[Tres Chic]

and being an irresponsible promiscuous male leads to b*stard children.

Isn't the whole epidemic of the downfall of the black community being linked to fatherless kids?

I don't see how we're making a moral argument here and ignoring that big elephant in the room

 

[MikelArteta]

So considering that this apparently is such a big problem that have dire consequences, we should all be actively working to solve these things right. Let's get an assessment of all of the people who apparently believe so (AG, Kevm3, Sierra Mist, AAKing, etc.)

You all:
- Do/Did not engage in premarital sex?
- Don't list to rap music that has any kind of misogyny/sexual undertones in it?
- Hold local programs preaching abstinence/are members of initiatives that do such?
- Mentor young men and women to actively change their views?

Since this is such a big problem and all, ya know. I'm sure you all are doing all of these things right?

- I used to engage in premarital sex, i Have not had sex since i changed my lifestyle last march

haven't listened to rap music in years

- i don't tell people how to live their life, i just live mine if you want to whore around and face the consequences then by all means

-- i coach a kids softball team, i try to put them on the straight path

 

[DrunkenNovice]

and being an irresponsible promiscuous male leads to b*stard children.

Isn't the whole epidemic of the downfall of the black community being linked to fatherless kids?

I don't see how we're making a moral argument here and ignoring that big elephant in the room

How did those children become fatherless

 

[MikelArteta]

and being an irresponsible promiscuous male leads to b*stard children.

Isn't the whole epidemic of the downfall of the black community being linked to fatherless kids?

I don't see how we're making a moral argument here and ignoring that big elephant in the room

You are wrong sir, many promiscious males wear condoms or have a vasectomy thus no b*stard children, as well its harder for males to catch stds than a female, hpv in females can cause cervical and anal cancer but in males no link has been proven by the fda as of yet.

the whole epidemic of the downfall of black community is largely inpart due to promiscious females sleeping around with deadbeats and thugs and popping out kids, lik ei mentioned before there is not a deadbeat, thug problem, there is a black women sleeping with deadbeat and thug problems.

 

[Sierra Mist]

So considering that this apparently is such a big problem that have dire consequences, we should all be actively working to solve these things right. Let's get an assessment of all of the people who apparently believe so (AG, Kevm3, Sierra Mist, AAKing, etc.)

You all:
- Do/Did not engage in premarital sex?
- Don't list to rap music that has any kind of misogyny/sexual undertones in it?
- Hold local programs preaching abstinence/are members of initiatives that do such?
- Mentor young men and women to actively change their views?

Since this is such a big problem and all, ya know. I'm sure you all are doing all of these things right?

If I say I don't have premarital sex you will clown me, which is ironic so there is no point in entertaining that question. I don't buy/support ANY music that promotes misogyny or sexual undertones. Yes I have held programs about abstinence. I have also mentored. That's a nice card you tried to pull. It's typical black male from the hood behavior. "Well if you can't wave your magic wand and fix all our problems then you shouldn't acknowledge that it exists." Black men think that all the problems in the world will go away if they just pretend said problems don't exist. Denial is not a solution. And if someone isn't holding programs and mentoring then the least they can do is be the change they want to see.... you know by not being part of the problem?

 

[kevm3]

This is all due to nikkas just stopping at p*ssy and not realizing the disadvantages to it.

Alot of nikkas have this mindset like " Well I'm getting p*ssy, so I don't give a fukk" and that's a very regressive mindset to have.

Then these SAME negroes are the ones complaining about child support and how evil and vindictive the baby momma is... "Man she's trying to trap me with that child and child support!" If you would have spent more time getting to know that woman and what she is about before you attempt to slam her vagina, then you would have a much lower probability of having to deal with those problems.

The huge problem in this day and age is that people try to divorce sexuality with its life creating capabilities. People think they are entitled to sexual pleasure without having to deal with the responsibilities and repercussions that come from it. We're pretty much digressing into a society of playas and hoes... People won't notice the REAL repercussions of their actions though until these kids with no guidance and direction start growing and their actions become more manifest... we're not really going to understand until 16 or 17 year olds start having 3 kids by different guys and there's no money to take care of them because welfare was cut and the economy is in the gutter. We'll wise up when these young'ns start stealing and killing at earlier and earlier ages because daddy isn't around to help raise and provide for them, so they wander the streets when mom is out working and get hooked up with gangs. There is poison coming into the minds of these little ones at more and more angles, from television to music, and there is less and less parental supervision. It will only be a matter of time until we reap the rotten fruit from what we have sewed.

 

[Gus Money]

and being an irresponsible promiscuous male leads to b*stard children.

Isn't the whole epidemic of the downfall of the black community being linked to fatherless kids?

I don't see how we're making a moral argument here and ignoring that big elephant in the room

They're saying that women are the ones who ultimately choose whether or not to have sex with irresponsible, promiscuous males so they should share the blame (I think both sides need to accept the blame in order to have progress).

 

[Tres Chic]

You are wrong sir (ma'am), many promiscious males wear condoms or have a vasectomy thus no b*stard children, as well its harder for males to catch stds than a female, hpv in females can cause cervical and anal cancer but in males no link has been proven by the fda as of yet.

the whole epidemic of the downfall of black community is largely inpart due to promiscious females sleeping around with deadbeats and thugs and popping out kids, lik ei mentioned before there is not a deadbeat, thug problem, there is a black women sleeping with deadbeat and thug problems.

your whole last paragraph is an absolvement (sp?) of responsibility.

 

[ThatTruth777]

You are wrong sir, many promiscious males wear condoms or have a vasectomy thus no b*stard children, as well its harder for males to catch stds than a female, hpv in females can cause cervical and anal cancer but in males no link has been proven by the fda as of yet.

the whole epidemic of the downfall of black community is largely inpart due to promiscious females sleeping around with deadbeats and thugs and popping out kids, lik ei mentioned before there is not a deadbeat, thug problem, there is a black women sleeping with deadbeat and thug problems.

I see your point and agree man. And I'm not saying all black men. But you can't put all that shyt on the women. If dudes can't look around and see what need to be done regardless of what certain dumbass females think/say/want. Then they part of the problem don't you think.

 

[Shameonyou]

It's not better to be a manwhore than a female one, but guess who chooses to be with manwhores... That's right, a lot of women choose that for themselves. That's why that stuff about there is a double standard that men can sleep with all the women they want to and yet women can't is nonsense. Women have EVERY right to not mess with men who choose to sleep with multiple women, but in reality, the more you've been around, the more you are generally wanted. If females wanted to punish manwhores then stop paying them so much attention and sleeping with them. That simple.

finally someone who gets it.

people trying to over think common sense are the most miserable....sometimes it is what it is.

 

[Tres Chic]

They're saying that women are the ones who ultimately choose whether or not to have sex with irresponsible, promiscuous males so they should share the blame.

the blame should definitely be shared but it's not that black and white. Guys do not always come with "I ain't shyt" posters around their necks.

 

[AAKing23]

So considering that this apparently is such a big problem that have dire consequences, we should all be actively working to solve these things right. Let's get an assessment of all of the people who apparently believe so (AG, Kevm3, Sierra Mist, AAKing, etc.)

You all:
- Do/Did not engage in premarital sex?
- Don't list to rap music that has any kind of misogyny/sexual undertones in it?
- Hold local programs preaching abstinence/are members of initiatives that do such?
- Mentor young men and women to actively change their views?

Since this is such a big problem and all, ya know. I'm sure you all are doing all of these things right?

1)I do practice what I preach, I would only have sex in a deep comitted relationship.(But I'm sure you'll clown me for that)

2)I do listen to rap music with misogony and sexual undertones but I don't go around parading it like it's truth because at the end of the day I realize it's just music.

3) At the end of the day you really think nikkas are gonna listen to me when they're getting p*ssy regardless.

4) I still am a young man at only 19 years old so I can't answer that.

 

[Tres Chic]

finally someone who gets it.

people trying to over think common sense are the most miserable....sometimes it is what it is.

I'm not miserable by any stretch.

His response was good but does nothing to address a larger culture that accepts certain behaviors as norms for certain genders (therefore many women see nothing wrong with promiscuous men, thus ultimately rewarding that behavior)

 

[Gus Money]

the blame should definitely be shared but it's not that black and white. Guys do not always come with "I ain't shyt" posters around their necks.

I agree both sides need to improve. They may not come with posters but they give off signs. If people (male and female) would actually get to know each other before having sex then a lot of this shyt would improve, in my opinion.