How many dudes has Rihanna ACTUALLY slept with?

[CrossBones]

A lot of the time I always expect the backlash to come from men cause ya'll don't know any better so I don't really have high expectations for ya'll but the women who call her all types of hoes....why?

because a ho is a ho is a ho.

 

[AAKing23]

....Matter fact, why does it matter? (Long read ahead)

I'm making this thread to discuss the image that is Rihanna, particularly because I am intrigued at how closely her sexuality is policed and criticized.
Now I'm not here to argue the infamous double standard of "men can be players but women are hoes," because that is a forgone conclusion. I'm more interested in delving deeper into why it exists.

I'm particularly taken with the Chris Brown/Rihanna dynamic because it is the one dynamic that embodies to a tee the hypocrisy of society when it comes to male and female sexuality. Since Chris and Rihanna broke up, how many women has he been with? How many men has she been with? I'm willing to bet the numbers are just about the same, or in the same ballpark. These are two young, relatively attractive, single people who are just getting out there and mingling. Why is she heavily criticized for doing that, esp. if she is being safe? I'm no Rihanna stan by any chance, but sometimes I am a bit taken aback by the vitriol she endures (esp in situations like the club fight when everyone adds their 2cents on twitter etc). This woman's p*ssy is dissected and disrespected, in ways that would make me want to shrivel up and hide under a rock and I really don't get it. What is it about women exercising their dating options that threatens people so much?

A lot of the time I always expect the backlash to come from men cause ya'll don't know any better so I don't really have high expectations for ya'll but the women who call her all types of hoes....why? Frankly, the only difference between Rihanna and the rest of us is that the men she dates are famous. If every Tyrone, Nick, and Harry you talked to was publicized, you too would be at the receiving end of the venom you spit, have you thought about that?

And I say "talked" to because there is actually no confirmation that she has SLEPT with all these men she is linked to. So word of mouth is now enough to ruin a woman's reputation? word? (For example, after all the twitter hoopla with Meek Millz he is quoted in an interview stating he never hooked up with Rihanna...all it takes is for a nikka to lie on his dikk. That is dangerous).

And don't talk about how it's her fault because of the image she puts out. Last time I checked Beyonce is very sexualized musician as well but somehow that get's negated because she is married in real life? (That is a whole nother issue I won't get into though).

At the end of the day, I think the fact that Rihanna unapologetically gets hers and doesn't give a fukk (AND has all these industry nikkas looking like fools over her) threatens people. There is something about a woman not being disempowered by the hoe and slut label that is threatening. Because if you take away that tool of control, what else do you have?

We always talk about how there's a double standard but the conversation usually ends there. So it's time to take it a step further. Sorry this is so long but I'm really curious. Let's discuss.

First off no one is gonna respect her p*ssy if she doesn't respect it herself. And it is obvious that she doesn't respect it by letting all these nikkas run up in it. So why should men respect it?

If a female want's to exercise her dating options that's fine but don't get upset when you can't find a man to wife u up later in life because you wanted to have fun when you were younger.

 

[L&HH]

 

[Tres Chic]

How old are some of ya'll? Look, it's cool if you didn't read it, I don't mind but please don't clutter this thread with your cheap attempts for e-laughs....just don't click on the thread *shrug*

 

[Amy Traphouse]

So suddenly no one cares who she sleeps with and it's her business? Cool for the PC aspects of this thread but you know that's not how it goes down it real life.

I'm hoping for more critical social commentary...

Well why should we care? Its not directly or indirectly affecting me. I rarely listen to her music and i definitely make it a point to not follow a person's life so closely especially considering that person wouldn't give 2 fukks about me.

 

[newworldafro]

I didn't want to say nothing................................but yeah........

 

[Sierra Mist]

Who cares who she "dated"? That has nothing to do with who she fukked. She's a whore. It's funny how people have such high respect for these celebrities that I've had several interactions with. She's not an angel. Sorry. And if you really don't know why women are seen negatively for sleeping around where men usually aren't then I don't know what to tell you.

 

[Tres Chic]

First off no one is gonna respect her p*ssy if she doesn't respect it herself. And it is obvious that she doesn't respect it by letting all these nikkas run up in it. So why should men respect it?

If a female want's to exercise her dating options that's fine but don't get upset when you can't find a man to wife u up later in life because you wanted to have fun when you were younger.

@ bolded, she's having fun. At the end of the day, we're all sexual beings, if she's being safe why can't she have fun. Why does that have to be linked to this idea of respect?

And I've seen some women do all the "right things" and still not get wifed up so that point is moot.

 

[CrossBones]

How old are some of ya'll? Look, it's cool if you didn't read it, I don't mind but please don't clutter this thread with your cheap attempts for e-laughs....just don't click on the thread *shrug*

you're complicating something really simple. you want to know "why" she's looked at as a ho? when she's going around acting, dancing, singing and being like one?

 

[Tres Chic]

you're complicating something really simple. you want to know "why" she's looked at as a ho? when she's going around acting, dancing, singing and being like one?

I brought up the point of Beyonce to counter that....Beyonce does the same exact thing but its viewed differently...why is that

 

[Julius Skrrvin]

@ bolded, she's having fun. At the end of the day, we're all sexual beings, if she's being safe why can't she have fun. Why does that have to be linked to this idea of respect?

And I've seen some women do all the "right things" and still not get wifed up so that point is moot.

i think its more like people thinkin her roast beef curtains be lookin like antiques

shes gonna need surgery in 5 years

 

[blockburna420]

 

[aXiom]

Who cares who she "dated"? That has nothing to do with who she fukked. She's a whore. It's funny how people have such high respect for these celebrities that I've had several interactions with. She's not an angel. Sorry.

So you're saying Rihanna has sex with other men for money?

See how stupid what word is?

 

[Sierra Mist]

I brought up the point of Beyonce to counter that....Beyonce does the same exact thing but its viewed differently...why is that

99% of Rihanna's material is her bragging about how many ways she van get fukked. Beyonce's is not. Her music is more on the Feminism/Girl Power tip. You sound silly. Look at any Rihanna album track list and compare it to Beyonce. It's no competition. Plus she is confirmed to have slept with numerous celebrities who she hasn't dated and she also fukks her groupies. I mean seriously. You just sound silly here.

 

[Tres Chic]

Who cares who she "dated"? That has nothing to do with who she fukked. She's a whore. It's funny how people have such high respect for these celebrities that I've had several interactions with. She's not an angel. Sorry. And if you really don't know why women are seen negatively for sleeping around where men usually aren't then I don't know what to tell you.

That brings me to the title of this thread. Who has she actually fukked and how are you even sure she's fukked those dudes, other than hearsay (Which we can see in the case of Meek Mill, can be completely fabricated)