College was the best.
I loved college, but I wish I didn't go -- at least for a year or two.
I just realize now that at the time, I wasn't as mentally prepared and dedicated. It wasn't that I couldn't do the work. I'm a smart guy, I think. But you just have to know why you are there and put the fun stuff to the side a bit.
Thankfully I didn't wind up with too much debt. I feel bad now for kids who go to school and have to figure out what they want to be while racking up $20,000 or more in debt each year.
People talk about this as being your fault, but it really isn't. You can have good social skills, be fun/interesting, but if you don't "fit in" to a group, you'll probably be alone. I knew a lot of people like this. They were on good terms with people, and they'd have friends in the classroom, but when the weekend came around they were on their own because they just didn't fit into a particular "clique".
College is basically highschool 2.0 in terms of the social scene. Don't let anyone tell you different.
Im not trying to be mean but u just sound like a anti-social outcast. Making friends in HS and college is not as hard as you are making it. I was never the life of the party in HS or even now in college but ive never had a problem connecting with my peers and finding friends to hang out with. There is a "scene" for everyone, you just have to let yourself be vulnerable and come out of your shell. Im only responding to your posts because I dont want any impressionable high school kids lurking this thread to have this horrible image of college that you are painting.Well that sucks. What they don't tell you is that socially, most people don't evolve past the high school mentality. All that changes is that people won't say shyt to your face and will instead just say it when you aren't there, and your parents aren't there. shyt like social hierarchy, social status, cliques, all exist.
Only other thing I hated about college(kind of a personal let-down) was that I didn't get into any legit fukkery, no binge drinking, no getting high, no running trains on broads, etc. I don't have any crazy college stories, but considering the school I went to, it's a good thing. I ain't really with the craziness like that.![]()
Pretty sure the dude is nuts.
You're pretty unstable breh...