HuffPost Article: Black Men Don't Like Black Women

Poitier

My Words Law
Supporter
Joined
Jul 30, 2013
Messages
69,412
Reputation
15,494
Daps
246,429
When have I ever mentioned any of those?

Yeah we could and yeah I do. I have a non-American black father so I base my selection of boyfriends on if they can measure up to my dad and most American men can't.

I certainly wouldn't date a guy who didn't have a steady job and I see nothing wrong with that.

Then I wouldn't be with him. I've lived with people who made slightly above minimum wage and I carried them for years while I paid 80% of the bills. They could only afford to help me with some of the rent, not even 50%. It frustrated the hell out of me and I resented them for it. I'm never doing it again.

Anyway, I can't date a guy that's like a cashier or something that

I would never date a broke guy.
 

Oceanicpuppy

Superstar
Joined
Aug 29, 2014
Messages
12,043
Reputation
2,350
Daps
35,889
black men and woman need to stop falling for the BS.

they say 'black women hate black men and hate them and vice versa" and brainwashed black people believe it yet they just past a black couple on the street or know about several black couples in real life.
 
Last edited:

GoPro

EscoBeard Season Has Returned
Supporter
Joined
May 1, 2012
Messages
12,819
Reputation
2,314
Daps
32,768
Reppin
#CertLife #ITGang
Lovelyday quotes

Barring the fact that it was Lovelyday (aka :ufdup:) I honestly see nothing wrong with what she said. If a man can't come at least 50% on the expenses then he need not be in a relationship. There's a difference between building with someone and supporting them. If it's an LTR and he loses his job that's another story, but he should be on his grind to get another.
 

Poitier

My Words Law
Supporter
Joined
Jul 30, 2013
Messages
69,412
Reputation
15,494
Daps
246,429
Barring the fact that it was Lovelyday (aka :ufdup:) I honestly see nothing wrong with what she said. If a man can't come at least 50% on the expenses then he need not be in a relationship. There's a difference between building with someone and supporting them. If it's an LTR and he loses his job that's another story, but he should be on his grind to get another.

And many BM can't do that so if you have those standards then expect a small pool.

The fact that BW have higher employment rates and education at White institutions is by design.
 

GoPro

EscoBeard Season Has Returned
Supporter
Joined
May 1, 2012
Messages
12,819
Reputation
2,314
Daps
32,768
Reppin
#CertLife #ITGang
And many BM can't do that so if you have those standards then expect a small pool.

The fact that BW have higher employment rates and education at White institutions is by design.
Then they need not be in a relationship. He doesn't have to match her salary, but he should be going at least half on the expenses. We can't advocate BW choosing better men then have them supporting bums at the same time. Nah
 

Poitier

My Words Law
Supporter
Joined
Jul 30, 2013
Messages
69,412
Reputation
15,494
Daps
246,429
Then they need not be in a relationship. He doesn't have to match her salary, but he should be going at least half on the expenses. We can't advocate BW choosing better men then have them supporting bums at the same time. Nah

Black people might as well not have children either. Heck poor people shouldn't either. Heck, only WM should have families.

Theres a huge gap between bum and "he should be going at least half on the expenses"
 
Top