HuffPost Article: Black Men Don't Like Black Women

[GoPro]

Black people might as well not have children either. Heck poor people shouldn't either. Heck, only WM should have families.

Theres a huge gap between bum and "he should be going at least half on the expenses"

You might be arguing with the wrong breh cause I for one think poor people SHOULDN'T be having children. Poor people are the ones overpopulating the planet.

But on the real, we can't be expecting black women to fall back on the bossiness if they're bringing in the bulk of the income in the relationship. Can't have it both ways.

 

[Poitier]

You might be arguing with the wrong breh cause I for one think poor people SHOULDN'T be having children. Poor people are the ones overpopulating the planet.

endorse ethnic cleansing and white supremacy

But on the real, we can't be expecting black women to fall back on the bossiness if they're bringing in the bulk of the income in the relationship. Can't have it both ways.

I don't see why a BM making 50k and a BW making 100k can't build. A dude who has ambition but makes a lesser salary should not be dismissed.

And we all are educated and employed by cacs so letting them dictate our lives is foolish. You don't think Cacs made it so BW are more educated and employed than BM? Welfare as a replacement for BM who are in jail for non violent crimes? We have to stop dividing ourselves by class.

 

[GoPro]

endorse ethnic cleansing and white supremacy

Chill with the hyperbole. You do realize white people are having less children, right? Not to mention there are a hell of a lot of poor white people in this country and world for that matter. You might wanna stop equating poor with black.

I don't see why a BM making 50k and a BW making 100k can't build. A dude who has ambition but makes a lesser salary should not be dismissed.

And we all are educated and employed by cacs so letting them dictate our lives is foolish. You don't think Cacs made it so BW are more educated and employed than BM? Welfare as a replacement for BM who are in jail for non violent crimes? We have to stop dividing ourselves by class.

Money is power. I can't even see why a man would want to be with a woman making double (hell, I don't even want my future wife to work period). He can easily find his equal. A woman making 100k doesn't need to build that much further. She's practically made it. If she didn't get there with someone, that's her problem. But to expect her to make it there by herself then settle for someone making half, build him up and risk him dipping when he gets there (which has happened to two female friends of mine)? Nah. You should watch that Gabby Union show cause the same type of scenario went down the first season.

 

[The_Truth]

http://www.newstatesman.com/2014/10/roxane-gay-i-have-feared-white-men-and-i-have-loved-them

 

[Poitier]

Chill with the hyperbole. You do realize white people are having less children, right? Not to mention there are a hell of a lot of poor white people in this country and world for that matter. You might wanna stop equating poor with black.

The overwhelming majority of poor people are brown and black.

 

[Poitier]

Money is power. I can't even see why a man would want to be with a woman making double (hell, I don't even want my future wife to work period). He can easily find his equal. A woman making 100k doesn't need to build that much further. She's practically made it. If she didn't get there with someone, that's her problem. But to expect her to make it there by herself then settle for someone making half, build him up and risk him dipping when he gets there (which has happened to two female friends of mine)? Nah. You should watch that Gabby Union show cause the same type of scenario went down the first season.

then the WM has won

 

[Scott Larock]

You might be arguing with the wrong breh cause I for one think poor people SHOULDN'T be having children. Poor people are the ones overpopulating the planet.

But on the real, we can't be expecting black women to fall back on the bossiness if they're bringing in the bulk of the income in the relationship. Can't have it both ways.

When white people came to america and took over the native indians, how do you think they did it? Do you ow long whites lived in poverty before they really started getting traction off the backbones of slavery? They used to be very poor and lived off the land for a good minute, women werent always in a situation to pick and choose... they literally sacrificed for the opportunity of a better life.

Chill with the hyperbole. You do realize white people are having less children, right? Not to mention there are a hell of a lot of poor white people in this country and world for that matter. You might wanna stop equating poor with black.

Having less children but whites can tell you to do something they don't usually do themselves, lower income white men are marriaged at a higher rate than lower income black men period, it's not just a money thing, it's a culture and expectations thing too. Most new blacks are infactuated with education and refuse to come together without it but when the majority of us are in major cities and not spread out accordinly like whites are we are used to doing things one way.

You can laugh at nascar but those poor hicks come watch car racing with thier wifes poor black men are drawing guns on nikkas outta frustration.

Money is power. I can't even see why a man would want to be with a woman making double (hell, I don't even want my future wife to work period). He can easily find his equal. A woman making 100k doesn't need to build that much further. She's practically made it. If she didn't get there with someone, that's her problem. But to expect her to make it there by herself then settle for someone making half, build him up and risk him dipping when he gets there (which has happened to two female friends of mine)? Nah. You should watch that Gabby Union show cause the same type of scenario went down the first season.

I can and too be blunt and I think blacks need to sacrifice a bit in order to secure the next generation becuase our numbers are gonna get smaller and smaller since we don't come together, called me old fashioned but if I'm required to make double what a women makes in order to be with her I'm gonna get right, fukk half the city, leave the city and repeat the process in another city, I couldn't take any woman seriously that put income on my head in terms of a requirement for love, that's golddigger shyt to me period, I'd think they hoes trying to save face.

But that's just me but I'm also a guy who feels alot of educated brothers date out cuz they don't like black women standards and requirements for love, I think the educated guy who spent his youth reading books for sucess when he gets right he's off to women that will appreciate him rather than shyt on him when he has nothing.

I don't agree with you at all but I understand where you come from.

 

[GoPro]

When white people came to america and took over the native indians, how do you think they did it? Do you ow long whites lived in poverty before they really started getting traction off the backbones of slavery? They used to be very poor and lived off the land for a good minute, women werent always in a situation to pick and choose... they literally sacrificed for the opportunity of a better life.


Having less children but whites can tell you to do something they don't usually do themselves, lower income white men are marriaged at a higher rate than lower income black men period, it's not just a money thing, it's a culture and expectations thing too. Most new blacks are infactuated with education and refuse to come together without it but when the majority of us are in major cities and not spread out accordinly like whites are we are used to doing things one way.

You can laugh at nascar but those poor hicks come watch car racing with thier wifes poor black men are drawing guns on nikkas outta frustration.





I can and too be blunt and I think blacks need to sacrifice a bit in order to secure the next generation becuase our numbers are gonna get smaller and smaller since we don't come together, called me old fashioned but if I'm required to make double what a women makes in order to be with her I'm gonna get right, fukk half the city, leave the city and repeat the process in another city, I couldn't take any woman seriously that put income on my head in terms of a requirement for love, that's golddigger shyt to me period, I'd think they hoes trying to save face.

But that's just me but I'm also a guy who feels alot of educated brothers date out cuz they don't like black women standards and requirements for love, I think the educated guy who spent his youth reading books for sucess when he gets right he's off to women that will appreciate him rather than shyt on him when he has nothing.

I don't agree with you at all but I understand where you come from.

I don't believe poor people should be overpopulating the planet, don't care what race they are. The world's population is 13 times what it was during slavery. Every year there are double the amount of births than deaths. This planet can not sustain this growth. We should be focusing on quality, not quantity. But I'll curtail this debate for another thread.

As for this one, some "educated brothers" like the pedestal white women and others as if they would've been with that same black guy when he was nothing. I used to have that same mindset, but then I matured. Does every black woman need a baller? No. So stop going after the ones who do. I don't see anything wrong with having a man contribute at least half HALF HALF HALF financially (not double, not supporting a gold digger) to the relationship. Like the chick in here, some dudes fall victim to the "tree falling in the forest" conundrum. They don't date out cause WW are more accepting of nerdiness, they do so out of spite.

 

[godkiller]

Chill with the hyperbole. You do realize white people are having less children, right? Not to mention there are a hell of a lot of poor white people in this country and world for that matter. You might wanna stop equating poor with black.

You are retarded. For 99% of human history, the overwhelming majority of people have been poor. Almost all blacks on the planet are poor. Most Asians are poor. Before the 2st century, almost all cacs were poor. It is the poor that consist of most of the population and build the foundation for everything else. And advocating that they don't breed is dumb as fukking shyt. That's something you wish upon your enemy

Money is power. I can't even see why a man would want to be with a woman making double (hell, I don't even want my future wife to work period). He can easily find his equal. A woman making 100k doesn't need to build that much further. She's practically made it. If she didn't get there with someone, that's her problem. But to expect her to make it there by herself then settle for someone making half, build him up and risk him dipping when he gets there (which has happened to two female friends of mine)? Nah. You should watch that Gabby Union show cause the same type of scenario went down the first season.

The shyt is all subjective and doesn't matter. Black people should date blacks and build wealth. That's all. Most Chinese are poor, marry poor and China is one of the most powerful nations on Earth.

 

[godkiller]

I don't believe poor people should be overpopulating the planet, don't care what race they are. The world's population is 13 times what it was during slavery. Every year there are double the amount of births than deaths. This planet can not sustain this growth. We should be focusing on quality, not quantity. But I'll curtail this debate for another thread.

The poor already form the majority of the planet and have always done so. The poor constitute the economic base from which a country builds. Without that base, there is less potential for the population as a whole and their chances of survival drop. There is no such thing as "quality" when there is no quantity. You may look at the Native Americans and other populations if you have anymore questions about that.

As for this one, some "educated brothers" like the pedestal white women and others as if they would've been with that same black guy when he was nothing. I used to have that same mindset, but then I matured. Does every black woman need a baller? No. So stop going after the ones who do. I don't see anything wrong with having a man contribute at least half HALF HALF HALF financially (not double, not supporting a gold digger) to the relationship. Like the chick in here, some dudes fall victim to the "tree falling in the forest" conundrum. They don't date out cause WW are more accepting of nerdiness, they do so out of spite.

I would prefer men be richer and contribute more, if possible.

 

[Mowgli]

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Black Men Don't Like Black Women

"..and when he get on he'll leave your ass for a white girl"

Let me start by saying this: I know writing this article is going to cause quite a bit of controversy. So let's get this out-of-the-way: I am intelligent, not what society deems "ghetto" and from what I am told and from where I work in the television business, I am attractive. Why is that necessary to say? Let's start below.

Black men don't like black women. Yes, I said it.

Not all, but many and it's growing. I think I wouldn't really care if OTHER races felt this way, but the fact that my own men do, made me consider turning my backs on them multiple times.

My boyfriend and I were having a conversation (he is black and Puerto Rican) about black men vs black women. It started getting intense and I said, "you don't get it! Black men are viewed as sexy and in a sense a "trophy" for another race, but black women are never deemed the most attractive. Other races are always seen as a trophy on the arm of a black man."



He looked at me like I was crazy and said, "you don't understand the black man struggle. They look at me like I'm a criminal." And in a sense, I might not. But I thought in my head, "at least black women VALUE black men. It's becoming rare to see the reverse."

This all started because I was referencing a conversation we had when I was pregnant with our son. He said lightheartedly, "I hope our son has my hair." My boyfriend has beautiful soft curls, a genetic gift from both of his races.

But my heart sank. What did he mean? I am known for being sensitive so I asked.

He said, "Courtney... I see you struggle with your hair and I think it would be nice if he had my curly hair. You wouldn't want him to have coarse hair if you could help it? It would be easier to manage if his hair was curly was all I'm saying."

The rational part of me thought about what he was trying to say... but no matter how much I replayed it, it still didn't sound right to me.

What was he trying to say about MY hair?

Everywhere from pop culture to the hood, men are either consciously or subconsciously telling black women they aren't "wanted." I have seen a black man not stare twice at a black woman who I would see as beautiful and yet I've seen him break his neck for a decent (if dare I say unattractive) woman of another race... huh?

Why are rap songs all about white women? If you think I'm wrong, listen to your music and get back to me.

Granted, I think everyone is entitled to a personal preference of who they like. But when you start saying things as a black man such as, "I DON'T date black women, I don't find them attractive." I think we have an issue.

Even Psychology Today wrote an article that spoke about black women being unattractive (it is now taken down).

Black men: your mom is black. Your sisters are black. Your favorite aunt is BLACK. Do you think they're all unattractive?

As I've gotten older I've met many of men who will openly say they don't want a baby with a black woman. They want a baby with "light skin or light eyes and good hair."

IF. I. HEAR. THAT. STATEMENT. ONE. MORE.TIME. I. WILL. LOSE. IT

If you don't support us, black men, how do you expect us to be able to support you? Do you even want us to anymore?

I never understood why it made a certain type of black man feel good to have a white woman on his arm. It would be one thing if it was true love, but some are just doing it because they see it as a prize.

Even on social media, my heart will sink as I see black women I've known from high school or elementary now say they're "black and Filipino," "black and Puerto Rican," "black and whatever race," just don't say you're full black! It seems these women have been conditioned to think they're not worthy if they're "just black."

These statements below are the most common things I hear about why black men don't like black women:

"Black Women Have Too Much Attitude/Ghetto"
Before I met my boyfriend's mother in person, she thought I was white. No kidding. From the way I spoke on the phone to the way "I act" I have been dubbed the "whitest black girl" from my hometown to a city close to the Canadian border (Syracuse what what!). The point of this is that I don't have an attitude problem nor am I ghetto. I WILL get an attitude like any woman would over normal things. But I have friends of many backgrounds, I've seen Asian women get an attitude, Caucasian women and Latina women (mind-blowing, right?)

I have many black friends that would prefer to not be confrontational and would rather just pretend an event never happened rather than address it.

Most of my friends are educated, more educated than their significant others and grew up from a family in the middle-upper class backgrounds.

We are not all ghetto.

"Black Women Are Unattractive"
I'm going to leave out Beyonce and Rihanna because duh. But have you met a woman named Gabrielle Union? Michelle Obama? Halle Berry? Iman? Vanessa Williams (who by the way is full black, people get off on thinking very attractive black women are mixed). Nia Long? Taraji Henson? I can go through this all day. Even the women in my own family -- beautiful!

"Black Women Wear Weaves... I Like Good Hair"
This is probably the one that irritates me the most. Do men not realize all races of women are capable of wearing weaves and clip-ins?

For some reason they think only black women were extensions. Why? I personally know MANY women of other races who wear extensions.

Just like every race there are some black women with beautiful, natural hair. Is that so hard to believe?

I for one am TIRED.

I know I'm an attractive female with a lot to offer. I have a degree, two actually, including a masters. I am intelligent, can hold a conversation and come from a background more like The Cosby's then the PJs (do you remember that show? I digress...) I know how to cook and I am known for being "everyone's cheerleader" (supportive).

Why do I feel so invisible sometimes then? Passed over?

And most importantly... why are our own men making us feel this way?


http://www.huffingtonpost.com/courtney-carter/black-men-dont-like-black_b_5973030.html

Thats the white devil continuing to create division. We have pain among us but we'll get through it. Leave us alone you fukkin cacs.

 

[Kuwka_Atcha_Ratcha]

Chill with the hyperbole. You do realize white people are having less children, right? Not to mention there are a hell of a lot of poor white people in this country and world for that matter. You might wanna stop equating poor with black.



Money is power. I can't even see why a man would want to be with a woman making double (hell, I don't even want my future wife to work period). He can easily find his equal. A woman making 100k doesn't need to build that much further. She's practically made it. If she didn't get there with someone, that's her problem. But to expect her to make it there by herself then settle for someone making half, build him up and risk him dipping when he gets there (which has happened to two female friends of mine)? Nah. You should watch that Gabby Union show cause the same type of scenario went down the first season.

wtf kina mentality is this,

I agree with you in first paragraph, then you go onto say you don't want your wife to even work. sound o.d insecure. if I was married id want my wife to make at least the same amount as me n hopefully more to encourage me to do better and vice versa.

 

[Chelsea Bridge]

my quotes

I told no lies either.

But I never mentioned education or skin color. How am I a bossy bytch for not wanting a broke man?

 

[Poitier]

I told no lies either.

But I never mentioned education or skin color. How am I a bossy bytch for not wanting a broke man?

A broke man to you is 30-50k

 

[Chelsea Bridge]

A broke man to you is 30-50k

Considering I have never asked a man how much he makes and I still have no idea how much my BF makes, I don't think it's fair for you to make such an assumption about me. I think as long as you can afford to take care of yourself and are not struggling, you're good with me.