When I was younger I used to fukk around overanalyzing shyt and it makes no sense, what happens is u end up kinda liking this chick and then if it don't work out it hurts.
So you gotta just get to the point very quickly. Be yourself is cliché as fukk but it's the easiest thing to do, u can sense chemistry if it's there and then pounce on it bruh
You right